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I'm confused
Alright, there's this guy who goes to my friends Church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well a few weeks ago at a concert my friend Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time... All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something.) Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him...and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type. So my friend kind've just left it at that. Well lately I've been noticing him looking at me more and stuff. Like one sunday he turned around and I didn't notice this but my friend Andrew told me Collin was checking me out. So what I want to know is do you think he likes me and... if he does why did he completely turn the tables like he did.. Why did he tell Crystal one thing and Aaron another??
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If you wrote that right, that he said that HE isn't YOUR type... maybe he only told her that because he thinks that you don't like him. Since he barely knows Crystal, and if he thinks you don't like him, and he's shy, then he probably wouldn't flat out say that he likes you. I think it's up to you to find out. Talk to him, and ask him yourself. Let him know that you like him, and then maybe he'll warm up to you more.
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he might like you but have just not known Crystal enough to tell her
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I think he likes you. He told Crystal he's not ur type bcause he doesn't know Crystal,so mayb he's afraid to tell her that he likes you. But he told Aaron 'nice' bcause he already knows him.So he's not that afraid. So try talking to him more. But all the facts clearly shows that he likes you! Good Luck! :D
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i think he dose like you...and i mean if he dosent know this girl i dont think hes gonna tell her anything if hes the shy type...ya know...just do what ur friend aaron old u start to talk to him N all...its all good..! good luck!!
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Well, if he said that he isn't your type, it means he's afraid to make a move. He likes you. He's more comfortable saying it to a guy friend than a girl he doesn't know very well on the internet.
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I have been through the exact same thing , and you think they like you when, sometimes, they just like to look at you . Sometimes that is not the case . I think he told Crystal one thing because, maybe he wanted to get a shot with her or, maybe IT'S BECAUSE, YOU & HER ARE FRIENDS AND HE KNOWS THAT SHE WOULD TELL U HIS RESPONSE . Guys are more open minded with each other and this basically means, that they are more likely to tell the same sex how they feel about the opposite sex rather than telling the opposite sex how it feels about the opposite sex . We girls do the same thing as well . He may like u . Please , don't make the same stupid mistake like I did . I never asked the guy I liked if he was fond of me . Ask him how he feels about you, and tell him how you feel as well . There is a risk that this guy may not like you, but you can't be afraid of rejection . Not when it comes to your heart . If you don't tell him, then you'd probably want to make sure you don't regret it . Thanks. I understand how u feel . Trust me . Have a nice day .!!!!
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Maybe he barely knows crytal like you said and didnt know what to say or maybe he felt pressured from aaron because your good friends with him and he didnt want to say no he didnt like you that or something but why dont you IM him and ask him whats up?-trix
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Well, if HIS guy friend asked you what you thought of him, you'd probably deny it, right? That's what most people do. But if a girl asked you, you'd tell her most likely. It's just a weird habit of people. You should ask him instead of relying on other people. Good luck!
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