Ok im having some..issues with my boyfriend and i would like it if only guys would answer this.
Well for one, i really dont like some of the things he does. I don't want to tell him all the time not to do stuff but i really wish he wouldn't. For instance, he likes to go for walks during the middle of the night. I get scared because i don't want anything to happen to him! Another thing is when he does stupid things. For example, standing on the roof with his sisters boyfriend or standing in the middle of the road for 'fun' or throwing scissors in the air to try and stick them in the ceiling because hes 'bored'. He promised me he wouldn't do anything stupid anymore but he's broken that like 3 times! What should i do??
Ok and two. His jelousy. Is it normal for a guy to be jelous of EVERY guy his girlfriend talks to? Like my bestfriend is a guy ok and i can understand why he would be jelous cuz i hug him and talk to him and stuff but he's always telling me he's gona beat him up and it makes me soo upset. Everytime i talk to a guy he gets angry at me then he wants to beat up the guy. Like is this normal?? Does every guy act like this?? I know hes being protective of me and its cute but it's starting to get out of hand. I mean one of his friends called me hot and he punched him!
The 3rd thing is that he kind of doesn't let me do things but he's alowd to. Like im not alowd to have guy friends even though my bestfriend is a guy he HATES it and im not alowd to talk to ANY other guys and especially not guys when im walking down the street or at the mall, but when he goes out somewhere and a girl talks to him it's like he's alowd to. He told me im not alowd to walk around when it's dark at all because i might get hurt but he goes out by himself every night to walk down to the park and call me.
I love him to death but it's like he can do whatever he wants and i cant. If i talk to a guy he gets soo jelous and gets mad at me and interrogartes me then ends up being upset at me for ages but when he talks to girls or a girl is flirty towards him and i get jelous he's like "oo your jelous cute" then its like "just get over it" and he ends up being mad at me! I've tried talking to him more than once and he says he'll try to be better but it always ends up the same way. What am i supposed to do?
I want a guys opinion because then i could have a better understanding of my boyfriends mind -_-
Oo, where to start...
It's not 'normal' as such for a guy to be like that. I've seen a lot of guys who are that way and even one of my ex-best friends (who was a girl) had a goyfriend who was EXACTLY the same as that. He hated me and her talking or hanging out and it got to the point where he made her choose between me and him and obviously she loved him and picked him. I had no problem with that but I found it ironic and now I no longer hear from her at all, I don't even consider her a friend anymore and it's ok, I have new friends and such. It was just a shock that he went to those lengths - he was with her the same as how your boyfriend is with you except for the beating up part - he couldn't make threats like that with me. :]
I think a guy being jealous is normal to a degree but there's a fine line between being jealous and being obsessive. Your boyfriend seems to be a bit obsessive to the point that he's treating you more like his own property instead of his girlfriend. People find it very hard to change and for him to change the way he is it will not be very easy - especially with jealousy. It's a very, very difficult emotion to control.
First and foremost if he wants to throw scissors about and such then leave it to him. If he hasn't stopped already then he just won't. It seems his antics (the scissors, standing in the middle of the road and such) are just pathetic attempts at getting attention or making you worry and nothing more. It's just childish behavious and the best thing to do even though it's easy for me to say, is ignore it. Although it's pretty hard to be hit by a car standing in the middle of the road (generally cars drive on the left and the right - not in the middle) if it happens it will happen and I can pretty much guarantee he won't do it again after that. I don't think it's any selfdestructive urges in him I think it's just him trying to get attention.
As for the jealousy and all the rules, I think you need to take firm action on the situation and make it clear you do love him but you are getting fed up of things. Unless you do something about it you will be living in his shadow and the last thing any person in a relationship should have to do is pick between their partner and their friends. No relationship is a 100% guarantee so when you've pushed all your friends away and then (for example) you both break up, you're going to end up with no boyfriend AND no friends becuase he already chased them all off. I also find nothing wrong with hugging your friend or even the kiss on the cheek. It's also typical that he does exactly the opposite of what he doesn't want you to do - like the talking to guys and such.
All I can say is that kind of behaviour is not normal or at least is not the kind of thing I would expect to see in a normal relationship. It may seem sweet at first but it does get to the point where it's too much and like I said above - he is starting to treat you more and more like an object than a girlfriend. You are NOT his property. You are his girlfriend, yes. But that doesn't mean he owns you. You shouldn't have to give up your friends or what you want to do just because he gets jealous because you're not exactly doing anything wrong (obviously if you were cheating on him or taking drugs and such then he'd have a reason but this is obviously not the case). I think the best thing you can do is try to have a chat with him one more time to resolve this whole thing. Tell him what the problem is and make it clear you are starting to get annoyed with it. you want him to be your boyfriend not your dad (no ofence intended to him) telling you what you can and can't do. If things still fail to change then you may have a decision to make regarding whether or not this guy is really the right guy for you. :[ For starters though I think the best thing to dois talk to him and be straight with him about how you feel about all these rules and such he is enforcing. If he says he will change then point out he has said the same thing before and it works for a while then he's back to himself again so that's not working. Try to resolve the situation. Your boyfriend just needs to remember that even though you have male friends, guys who say they think your hott etc, etc, etc you have chosen to be with him and not them. He is the one you love (as a boyfriend) and not them but you are not willing/wanting to have to choose between him and your friends. That's very unfair.
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How can you tell if a guy is after sex or love? I feel like I can't be objective so I'm just gonna tell you some stuff and you'll tell me what you think.. what is he after? He seems to be very interested in me even though we've NEVER kissed or held hands or had any physical contact (so that speaks for LOVE right?) ALTHOUGH I have given him strong signs that if he were to become mine, we'd do A LOT of physical stuff.. so I have planted expectations in his head. When he flirts it's usually like "i can't wait to be alone with you" "i cant wait to see you..theres all these things i want to say to you..and do to you" or "make sure you wear tasty lipgloss the next time you come over" but sometimes he also says "i miss you so much" or "Love you like a fat kids love cake" His friends all lie to him and tell him I'm a slut.. so he probably thinks I'm easy (even though I've only had one kiss and nothing else my whole life!) but he's always treated me with respect. When he wants to give me a compliment it has never been about anything physical, it's always like "you're so sweet" or "you have this quality i've never seen in any other chick" or sometimes compliments my eyes, so i dont know, i get mixed signals, and I would really want to know what he's after, cause I don't put out..
oh and one more question! lets say I'm at his house..and we're making out (which im cool with) but then he starts undressing me.. is there any way to pause the physical without saying "lets take it slow" or "I dont want to".. like is there a way to not go further withotu ruining the mood or making it awkward?!
Those are some mixed signals but there's no real way to be certain when it comes to guys. A guy can be as sweet as cake and then turn out to be the total opposite afterwards. I think the best thing to do though is to just go with the flow if you like this guy (are you both dating or just seeing eachother and that's it?) and then see what happens. To be honest it'snever easy to see when a guy is just after sex or if it's for real but then saying he loves you is a pretty far fetched conclusion considering he hardly even knows you all that well. Guys get confused between love and lust. I'd say he does like you from what you have said but what the source of that is (be it his friends have put ideas into his head, he is sincere about liking you or it's just lust) the only way you'll really know is to get to know him better. The thing is you know what it is you want and where you draw the line, the thing you should do now is make sure that he knows the score too. You said yourself you may have mistakenly put ideas into his head (guys always brag to friends which may also be the reason they are saying all this crap about you) and if that's the case you would be wise to straighten it all up beforehand. Let him know straight out that making out is fine but anything more than that is not going to happen and if you have to you may even have to specify (since some have their own versin of how far 'making out' goes). If he knows in advance then there shouldn't be any problems when you are at his place but IF it does get to that point (and it might do because guys can get carried away) then the best you can really do in my opinion is just say the magic word, "no!" You made the ground rules clear before hand so there's no excuse afterwards for him to try push his luck but if he does then you need to tell him to stop and make sure he knows you mean it (subtle hints sometimes just don't work especially in the heat of the moment because guys tend to be too busy thinking about other things than to concentrate on what you're trying to say). I don't think it will spoil the mood provided you just say no, that's not happening and then carry on with making out from where you left off. The thing is you just need to make sure you voice your disagreement and to keep him, for lack of a better word, in order. :]
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Why do people always think that if your in a serious relationship then the guy loves the girl more then the girl loves the guy?
I've always thought, from observations and such, that it is harder for guys to remain commited in a relationship that it is for girls but I have personally never thought serious relationship = guy loves the girl more. Generally I actually catch myself thinking, "How can this guys girlfriend put up with this guy?" Hehe. :]
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I got 2 questions lol
1)My stomach has been in pain for a while now like 1 month and i know its not periods and im losing my apitite to eat now and when i walk for 5 minutes i get a stitch and it hurts anyone know why ?
2)I want my stomach to look flat,im not fat but i kinda have flabs a lil bit anyone know how to get a flat stomach ?
Thanks Much
Stomach crunches and sit ups will help greatly with toning up your stomach but BEFORE you actually attempt to even do this you should seek medical advice about your stomach pains and the loss of appetite. Quite frankly I am actually surprised you have waited a whole month and still not seen a doctor about your stomach pains. I would say itmay just be something minor but having had stomach pains for a month already can not be something good (even though it may just be something minor). I think the very first thing you should do is make an appointment to see your family doctor to get to the bottom of your stomach pains and the loss of appetite and once that's completely sorted out and you're feeling 100% better you can try and use some basic exercises to work on your stomach. I couldn't really give you an idea on how many reps to do with each of the exercise since I use the guy and have a work out planned for me by one of the trainers there but start slow and work your way up because the last thing you'll need is to overdo it straight away.
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I had sex with this guy that i really really like. It was my first time. And I hated it. It hurt so badly. And I was bleeding a whole lot. Why did it hurt? And why was I bleeding? I am 14/f
Not everyone bleeds but I have known some to bleed a little and others to bleed a lot and then there's the few who have bleeded the first few times they had sex and not just the very first time they did. It is natural so don't worry - the cause is the tearing/breaking of the hymen which is a thin membrane/skin covering over the viginal opening about 2" inside you. This is generally the reason for the bleeding. On many females this hymen is not intact becuase it can tear during normal day to day activities such as cycling, exercise, sports and such. On others though this is not always the case, hence the bleeding. This may also have been a contribution to the pain you had felt (which again is natural) and is generally because your vigina is not acustomed to having been streatched out in the way experienced during sexual intercourse. In time this pain will subside so try not to worry. One thing that can greatly help though is that the guy taking his time and not rushing - if the guy rushes (the vigina lubricates itself but if the guy doesn't allow that to happen it would be a painful experience whether it's your first time or not - but I say that only from what I have been told and not experience).
The next time you may not bleed at all and the pain may not be so bad but expect it to still hurt a good few times yet until your body becomes acustomed to being stretched the way it is during sex. As I said though, the guy taking his time and not rushing and making sure you are prepared (aka you are 'wet' down below) will hopefully help greatly.
I hope this was helpful and remember, stay safe and use protection. :]
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Ok well my race, Vietnamese (I don't know if any other Asian race does this) does this thing when we're sick and I'm not sure if it’s supposed to be safe or not.
When we're really sick, we lay on our back and get someone else to put like lotion or something on our back and get this special spoon (Asians use to drink soup with) and scratch our backs really hard and stop when it's so red with like dots that looks like it's going to bleed.
I frankly don't think it works nor is it safe. Wouldn't scratching your back mean damaging your skin? But we're potion lotion on it so...
But it's red as if it's going to bleed. Doesn't sound good to me.
And if Caucasians see it, they'd think our husbands whipped us or something!
I asked my mom how in the world is it safe. Did the doctor suggest it to her? She says no but everyone of our race does it as a custom.
Now, just because everyone else does it doesn’t mean you have to do it, right?
I remember the one time I was sick and my dad did it for me cuz he said I had to and it hurt like HELL!
My mom says that if it hurts then it's working and makes you feel not tired anymore.. That doesn't even make sense. Of course it doesn't make you feel tired anymore, you're in pain!
What do you think of this? If you're a nurse and telling me this or you're advice is partially from a professional, please add that in.
Thank you.
To be honest I don't think you'd need to be a nurse or a doctor to be able to say that it doesn't sound like something that would help at all. I honestly fail to see how it would help but then that's the difference between something that actually does work and something that is a custom. Many cultures have what may seem strange customs they perform and although may seem pointless (and may even BE pointless) they are customs that have been passed down over generations. Such a custom is very hard to break and even though all logic would say it doesn't work I think it would all come down to faith. I personally think though that the process you describe would do nothing but cause extreme pain as well as damage the skin to a degree that it could be open to other bacteria and infections.
I'm not really sure what it is you can say to your parents that may want them to abandon their custom but if you are so against it being done to you then you can by all means try and not be included and have it performed on you again but the ultimate decision may lie with your parents. :[ I had a look online to see if I could find any references to this custom but was unable to locate anything. If there is anything else or more help you'd like feel free to write to me (ammo@thedevilsoffspring.com) but in the meantime I will try and see if I can find out more information on this custom as it has me intrigued.
Good luck.
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so this morning all i had was an apple and a banana and 2 cups of green tea, as usual, then i started feeling really really sick and nauseous then i had diahhrea for a really long time, and now I still feel really sick like i'm gonna puke or something.
What could this be?
This might have simply been a result of you consuming too much green tea as it has a high caffine content. Too much caffine can result in nausea, insomnia or frequent urination. But I am not completely certain as to what the cause can be in your case since you seem to give the impression that a banana, apple and 2 cups of green tea is your regular morning routine. If it's not then I would suggest maybe changing your diet slightly and eating something with a little more fibre in the morning. Green tea contains a high amount of polyphenols which give the tea it's antioxidant properties that it is popular for (it is the reason I drink it and include it in my diet) and it may well be the strong binding activities of the polyphenols which is the reason you feel the way you feel at the moment. I am not certain though and can only guess what it is. My advice would be though to perhaps have a chat with your doctor to see what it might be. It may well be nothing or could just be you are coming down with a tummy bug but nonetheless it's better to have it checked out by a professional and know for certain. Hope this was some help and hope you feel better soon.
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I'm trying to download songs from limewire to my mp3 player(not an ipod!!!!). and i know how to search a song, get it, download it, and stuff. But how do i get it onto my mp3??? i've been trying all day but i can't figure it out! i did it once, but it was on accident, so i don't know how i did it.
thanks in advanced!!
This will depend on the type of MP3 player you have. Firstly though before anything else you should play the track you've downloaded on something like Media player on your computer to make sure the track works and is there in full (you can get a lot of mistitled and half complete tracks on Limewire). Once you know you have the full track you just need to connect your MP3 player to your pc to do the transfer. This can be done in 2 ways depending on the type of player you have.
1) Directly connecting the MP3 player into your USB port. Some MP3 players have a cover protecting the USB connector so remove this cover and connect it into any of your available USB ports (use the front ports as it's easier if you have any).
2) A USB lead/connector cable will have come with your MP3 player which you need to connect to your MP3 player and into your USB pot on your PC. Once connected your pc should pick up the device.
In both instances, once connected give the PC a few seconds to pick it up and you will now either have a pop up asking you what you want to do (select to open the device and a new window will pop up where you'll see a list of all the tracks you have on your MP3 player) or if nothing happens go to 'My Computer' and there should be a new icon there called 'Removeable Drive'. Double click that icon and it should open up your MP3 player and all the tracks you currently have on there. From here all you need to do is drag and drop or copy the tracks you want to save onto your MP3 player by putting them into the folder you just opened.
As a shortcut when your PC has picked up on the device you can right click a track you want to copy to your MP3 player and then select 'Send to' and then 'removeable drive/disk' from the menu and it will be copied to your MP3 player.
Hope this was some help.
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15 f
I've been looking somewhere for birth control pills, I've done a lot of research and all I can find is planned parenthood, but there isn't one where I live, is there any other place where i can get birth control without my parents?
(I don't get along with either of my parents. it's a long story, but PLEASE don't judge me or call me a whore. I know what I'm doing)
thank you
Firstly I'd like to say to ignore everyone on here who has suggested you lie or pretend to be someone else to get hold of them. They are prescription based drugs for a reason. There are something like over 50 varieties on the current market of birth control pills and not all of them are safe to take for everyone. There might be some you can't take for one reason or another but others you can. I would suggest speaking to your family doctor about them. Ask them to prescribe you some (you could say you need them to regulate your periods since this is generally the reason they are prescribed to younger teens) and see how that goes. Also add that you want the information to be kept confidential. Although here in the UK they are bound legally to uphold this I am not certain of the laws regarding this in the USA (I will try and find out for you if I can). As for getting to your doctor, you may need to tell a little lie to have your parents take you there since you said you don't want to alert them to what you are wanting to get. I had just wanted to stress though not to get them by pretending to be someone else or have someone else get them for you.
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Alright, so I have brown eyes. Which I hate. I really want bright, yes BRIGHT blue eyes. I've already had an exam done, so now I just need to pick a pair of contact's to order. I've tried on the Fresh Look colored contacts [which are pretty popular], but the blue one makes my eyes really dark, almost navy, blue. So Does anyone know of a brand of colored contacts that can actually change brown eyes Bright blue?! Please help...I'm desperate!
Thanks in advance!
As TiNA_DUH said, there are none that will give you the effects you are looking for. :[ The basic reason for this is that coloured contacts are not a solid colour but speckled (at least mine were). A solid colour would not look right (they wouldn't look natural) but because of the speckled design on the contacts they will let some of your natural colour through or at least blend in with the colour of the contacts. This gives your eyes that natural look.
I also have brown eyes and used to wear prescription contacts in blue (I believe they were the same make that you had mentioned) and although they came out a dark blue they still looked really nice - I had a lot of compliments on my eyes after wearing them. I'm asian too so you don't see many with blue eyes over here so I think that may have had something to do with it as well but they did look really nice. Best thing to do is to experiment with the different colours available to see which you like the look of. You may even find that a different colour looks better on you than blue.
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do most guys find it more attractive for a girl to have a big clit or small? or any preference at all
To be honest I really don't have a preference. :/ I'm the same when it comes to boob sizes etc. I find it all superficial. More to the point when your with someone I would like to think it's becuase you liked THEM and not because they had a big/small clit. That would just seem very strange. :]
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Ok so i love my boyfriend and everything we have been going out for 9 months but its like i want to expiriment with other guys instead...its like im sick of him... i have a guy in mind his cousin... but he has a girlfriend.. but i think he would break up with her for me because he walked in on her cheating on him
what should i do
This has the potential of getting very complicated. I think first of all that if you are 'sick of him' then you just break things off and be done with it. It would just be less complications all around. I'm not really sure what his reaction will be if you say you want to go on a break for a while so you can both see other people. Ask yourself what's the chances of you even wanting to go back to him afterwards anyway? If their slim to nothing then it's just better to break it off so you don't have him waiting on you, that way he can just move on and you an do the same. As for his cousin this is where it might get a bit weird. It's one thing telling your boyfriend you want a break to see other guys but then telling him that one of those guys is his cousin, it might not sit right. It's just the fact that it's his cousin (I'm not sure of his relationship with his cousin but all my cousins and I are pretty much like brothers and sisters) so it could be very awkward not just for your boyfriend but even for his cousin. I think on that part you may just have to see how it goes with his cousin and your boyfriend but personally I would vote against such action, it may just cause more problems not just between you and your boyfriend but also between him and his cousin. On a side note, although he may have caught his girlfriend cheating on him for all you know they might actually be in the process of trying to fix things and such so deciding you want it to be him and he willnow agree because of what happen with his girlfriend and him might be premature. Either way on what you decide to do though I will say good luck but decide carefully on what you want to do.
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when i rate i usually go easy on people but other people ask these questions and i dont know why my advice did not get a higher rating. people should really comment on the advice so people can improve or else what is the point? and that people have spent time on their response without knowing why you rejected them when it might have been their fault for not making it clear what they were asking or providing details so we can answer better.
I've actually had this happen to me a couple of times actually. I've done tons of research and left loads of information on the specific subject only to get a low rating with the person saying I had not provided the information they were looking for. I'm not all too bothered about the rating but it can get frustrating when I did all the research for someone to help them and in the end it was pointless because they didn't actually provide the correct details to start with or specify exactly what it was they were after. It happens but don't take it to heart is all the comfort I can give really. I'd be willing to bet this may have happen to a lot of people on here who give advice. Another thing that gets confusing is when you give information on something and give them the answer but they STILL rate you low becuase you didn't tell them what they wanted to know. :/ That one's always puzzled me because I then look back and think there is absolutely nothing I could add more to it other than random words here and there to make it look like I've written more. People can be puzzling. :] As I said though, don't take it to heart. :]
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Hey i know this is kinda dumb but me and my Boyfriend have just recently had sex for the first time but he did not pop my cherry and was nowhere close to coming is there anyway i could be pregnant?
This will depend on exactly what transpired between you both since you were a little vague on what happen. You said you both just had sex yet he did not pop your cherry - if by this you mean he didn't go all the way inside you I would say yes there is a risk. If he was inside you at all then there is always a risk from precum which is released before orgasm and generally without the person actually knowing about it. Although the risk of pregnancy from precum is not very high there is always that small risk so I think the best thing you can do is try a home pregnancy test if you feel you must to be certain or seek medial advice from your family doctor/chemist. Either should be able to advise you professionally on what to do and the best course of action. Alternatively, I would suggest the home pregnancy test and then BEFORE using it you read the instructions enclosed fully as it will say how long to wait before using it. Just bare in mind that even they can be wrong at times although they are getting a lot better at their odds of giving false positives.
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I just downloaded DivX so I could watch movies online for free. After the download was finished, my virus protector popped up and said DivX was a virus. Does anyone else use DivX or know anything about it being an actual virus?
Just to add to what Master_Betty said... a lot of anti virus software will pick up and give false results for various software i.e. any program designed to alter or view your windows cd keys and such will be detected as a hacker/virus program when in actual fact it's not.
If you recieve an alert fist ensure whatever you download has been from a reliable source, look for the official web sites on google entering something like 'DivX official' into the search box.
Also, if you do get an alert but you are almost sure that it's safe you can double check this by using an online scanner/checker such as Kaspersky Online file scanner. There is a limit of 1MB files but it's very useful and handy incase your in need of a second opinion. You can find the site here: http://www.kaspersky.com/scanforvirus
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Does anyone know anything that provides the same things as Limewire? All I need is a place where I can download music.
And not Ares, please.
Thanks in advance!
A search for p2p software on google will give you a huge list of tons of programs to choose from. Some of the top ones (and some I've used myself) are:
Shareaza http://compnetworking.about.com/od/p2ppeertopeer/p/shareaza.htm
WinMX http://compnetworking.about.com/od/p2ppeertopeer/p/winmxclient.htm
eDonkey http://compnetworking.about.com/od/p2ppeertopeer/p/overnetedonkey.htm
Morpheus http://compnetworking.about.com/od/p2ppeertopeer/qt/morpheusp2papp.htm
eMule http://compnetworking.about.com/od/p2ppeertopeer/qt/emuledownload.htm
BearShare http://compnetworking.about.com/od/bearshare/Bear_Share_BearShare_P2P_Client.htm
Kazaa http://compnetworking.about.com/od/kazaa/Kazaa_Lite_Free_Kazaa_and_Resurrection.htm
There's also BitTorrent which I have found to be the most reliable (and my personal fave to use) but is useless if you are after only single specific tracks.
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I am throwing a suprise party for mah friendz Anna N' Nicole. The problem is that Nicole is best friendz with a grl named Krista and Anna hates Krista. Should i invite Krista or not? Help Please
I think if both your friends will have their respective friends there it might be nice for Krista to be there as well. The best way to resolve this at least to the point that nothing kicks off is to make sure Krista understands she is being invited but she keeps away from Anna so there's no problems because problems are the last thing you need to mess things up at the party. If Krista can't do that then it's best she's not there at all. Respectively, once the surprise has been sprung you can also take Anna to one side and let her know as well that Krista is there because she's Nicole's best friend. Let Anna know you don't want any crap at the party so to keep things kool and just keep away from Krista or at the very least try andget along at least for that one night. Hopefully that will resolve it. I'm just thinking that if Nicole mentions the party to Krista afterwards (which she probably will since she's her best friend) then Krista may wonder why she wasn't even invited yet all of Nicole' other friends were. Ideally I usually get both people alone and tell them there's a party the person they hate will be there so if they don't like it or can't deal with it just don't turn up (I'd hate to have to kick someone out for starting trouble) and it usually works fine but it's a bit harder in your situation because one of the persons involved is the one who your keeping the party a secret from. Good luck though, I hope the party goes great. :]
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So tomorrow is the last time I'll see this guy I like cause its summer vacation right, and we just go in for a quick second.
I've been crushing on this guy for a long time now but we've never really had a long conversation or talked to eachother, outside from the classroom work I guess. But I always catch him looking at me -especially at the last school dance, then there was that one time he sat behind me during a presentation and he kept nudging me in the back.
Whatever, I figure "hey why not? If its a yes, then BOOYAH, if its a no then you have 2 months to get over him" sorta thing.
What should I say?
I was thinking just
"Hey, do you want to hang out this summer? maybe catch a movie or something?"
Something simple?
I don't want to scare him by coming on to strong.
Idea's?
Please don't say "You should be friends first" or "Flirt more" cause I know that but its kinda late for that now, and I'm asking him out to try and make a friendship not neccessarily become his girlfriend right away.
THANKS
You seem to already know what to do and how to handle the situation it seems. You just need a push. :P You already said about not wanting to come on too strong (very good idea) and about not necessarily becoming his girlfriend straight off (very good plan) so just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime over the holidays. If he says yes then exchange numbers and such and wait a few days then txt/call him up and see if he fancies meeting up and hanging out or something. It will be light (so your not comin on too strong) and the most important of all it will give you the chance to get to know him outside of school to see what he's like. That way you can let the friendship develop and if anything more comes of it then all the better. :]
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I met this girl keesha on my track team. We got hella close, went 2 a concert wit her, her parents helpd wit my big ol party, stuff like that. Well I had been talkn on & off 2 this guy 4 about 3 years. It didn't really go any where bcuz he kinda [this is RUDE] isn't on my level, but he's sweet! So I made a mistake &told keesha about him like how I KiNDA like him but not really. So 1day keesha tells me that they're GOiN OUT! (N I look way better than this bytch. We like 2 different species! :-D) Tell me iS iT WRONG 0F ME 2 CUT THEM BOTH OFF? (Me n dude were kinda friends too) I wasn't mad @ keesh @ 1st, but later I realized she didn't give a shyt about us 2 jus go wit my dude!
I'd have to agree with juicyloverxo12, pretty much said what I was going to say.
Also, Keesha didn't know about you and this guy from the get go so it would be illogical to assume that she didn't ever care about you as a friend because all she was after was this other guy. I also have to point out, when someone thinks of me as a different species I'd find it quite offensive and it's not something I'd expect from someone who's supposed to be a friend. The fact that you've always thought this way of her (and it's not a recent change after she started going out with this other guy) I think the best thing is that you do cut them both off and just not talk to them again. I think if either of them are after a friend they'd be able to find someone who really IS a friend.
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the sound recorder on windows only records one minute at a time, then you have to hit record again. anyone know i can make it record longer, or any free programs i can download that will record until i push stop?
Try a program called Internet Audio Mix (now known as Acoustica MP3 Audio Mixer).
You can find it at the following site: http://www.acoustica.com/mp3-audio-mixer/
An awesome program to do exactly what you're trying to do (I use it very extensively) and very easy to use too (read the help notes with the software if you get stuck since they are very helpful). You usually have to buy the full software but you can get the trial version from the site (the link I added above) which should work perfectly for what you need it for. :]
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