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Ok so i love my boyfriend and everything we have been going out for 9 months but its like i want to expiriment with other guys instead...its like im sick of him... i have a guy in mind his cousin... but he has a girlfriend.. but i think he would break up with her for me because he walked in on her cheating on him
what should i do
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If you're bored with him, it's not fair to be in the relationship in the first place! AND the fact that he's talking to other girls in that way, and endangering your safety. Hmm, yeah, break it off. I don't suggest going out with his cousin though >_< Just because it'd complicate things and it'd be weird if your boyfriend ever came up with the cousin. I dunno, do what you wanna do, I can't stop you, but I think you should go to a club and try finding other boys to meet and learn to 'GET TO KNOW' ;) Haha. =)
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Well you may love your boyfriend but you might not be IN LOVE with him anymore. You need to find someone that excites you, and treats you like the princess that you are. No guy is perfect, but you have to find the one where u can see past his inperfections. My opinion is that you shouldn't go for his cousin because it may cause problems in the family, and people will look at you as being kind of a messed up person because people are very quick to judge. Just be careful because if you break up with your boyfriend for another guy and you decide to want him back, he may not be there, especially if you get with his cousin. Just do what you think is right, and what will make you happy in the end.
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Hunny, if you're even thinking about it...get it over and done with ahead of time. The more time you sit wasting thinking about what you're going to do is time you could be spending with the the other potential boyfriend. Also, you just might become too attached to your soon-to-be ex. I think that if you've thought about it clear the thought and put it into action. I've been in a similar situation before so I'd say go for it. It may not turn out the way you'd like but who's never heard of testing the waters?
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honestly i recommend not doing it.
first of all if you have something good..why ruin it? it might get boring but thats how relationships are sometimes.
second of all, if you really are sick of him..don't go for his cousin..that could get extremely ugly. plus what if his cousin doesn't want to go out with his cousins ex cause he thinks its mean...then you end up single...
its just not a good ides..either pick a completely different guy or just stick it out with the current guy.
this probably isn't the answer you wanted but i think you should consider it.
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This has the potential of getting very complicated. I think first of all that if you are 'sick of him' then you just break things off and be done with it. It would just be less complications all around. I'm not really sure what his reaction will be if you say you want to go on a break for a while so you can both see other people. Ask yourself what's the chances of you even wanting to go back to him afterwards anyway? If their slim to nothing then it's just better to break it off so you don't have him waiting on you, that way he can just move on and you an do the same. As for his cousin this is where it might get a bit weird. It's one thing telling your boyfriend you want a break to see other guys but then telling him that one of those guys is his cousin, it might not sit right. It's just the fact that it's his cousin (I'm not sure of his relationship with his cousin but all my cousins and I are pretty much like brothers and sisters) so it could be very awkward not just for your boyfriend but even for his cousin. I think on that part you may just have to see how it goes with his cousin and your boyfriend but personally I would vote against such action, it may just cause more problems not just between you and your boyfriend but also between him and his cousin. On a side note, although he may have caught his girlfriend cheating on him for all you know they might actually be in the process of trying to fix things and such so deciding you want it to be him and he willnow agree because of what happen with his girlfriend and him might be premature. Either way on what you decide to do though I will say good luck but decide carefully on what you want to do.
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Prepare for a backlash is what you should do.
Do you really think that it's a good idea to break up with your boyfriend to go out with his cousin?
Not only that, but you're willing to try and break up this other couple for your own benefit.
I mean, really think about what kind of person that makes you.
To be quite honest (and rate me as low as you want for this, as it's worth it) but you seem like a horrible person and you don't deserve either of them.
EDIT: And thre's the low rating. No feedback though? I'm quite upset. Prepare for a long and lonely life by the way. Also, don't forget that the rating is supposed to be for the quality of advice, and not for expressing distaste for advice you didnt want to hear. If you thought you were that right in doing it, then you wouldnt have posted the question here - and then if you only wanted people to say "go for it" you shouldnt have bothered asking if you're just going to ignore anyone who says "don't" anyway.
2nd EDIT: You're 15 years old and you stated in your question that you love him - not that he's a total bastard. You're right, I don't have a man, this is because I'm a heterosexual male, who has been engaed to be married in a relationship that lasted 3 years previously, which kind of beats your 9 months and now I'm bored attitude. Also, judging by your mixed messages feedback, it would appear that this other guy is a much older man - which just makes you a jailbait whore anyway, so I guess my assumptions were correct. I'm not a nasty guy, I just hate skanks who're only out for themselves. Also, how can you accuse me of judging people when you judge this other girl so harshly? Oh, and if he was such a bad guy, you wouldn't be talking about getting bored of him, you'd be more concerned about your own safety and would have got out of the relationship a long time ago. Save the sob story, you're still a terrible person.
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