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Who loves who more. Why do people always think that if your in a serious relationship then the guy loves the girl more then the girl loves the guy?
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This is a bit off topic, but I can tell you that guys are more likely to go "insane" over a girl than girls are likely to go "insane" over guys. I'm not saying this to be sexist, but rather because, from a psychological point of view, when a male is committed to a girl, he is COMMITTED. ]
You don't see guys 'falling in love' much. As to the opposite hand, girls think they're in love before they even get into a relationship with the guy they like. I'm not saying guys don't commit to relationships, but a lot don't. Lol. So I guess when a guy admits that he's commited and loves the girl, that it necessarily has to be more than the girl loves the guy.
Honestly, that's the biggest piece of bullshit I've ever heard. The guy or girl you're in a relationship with is always going to claim to love you more, but it's not about who love's who more. It's just about the love you two form together. :) And whoever thinks that should get a new opinion^_^
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More than likley it's because you don't see guys falling in love with every girl they get with, girls on the other hand, think they're in love with everyone they date. especially if it lasts two months or longer. guys either have to be brought up right or love pretty strong to not cheat or leave the girl for every little thing. don't get me wrong, there are girls that are like that too, but not as many. ]
I've always thought, from observations and such, that it is harder for guys to remain commited in a relationship that it is for girls but I have personally never thought serious relationship = guy loves the girl more. Generally I actually catch myself thinking, "How can this guys girlfriend put up with this guy?" Hehe. :] ]
I don't know anyone who thinks that.
I guess whoever thinks that might think it because it's harder for boys to make a commitment than it is for a girl. So with that idea they might believe that the guy's commitment is stronger and more sincere than the girl's, but I don't believe that's true. Love should be sweet and happy, not a competition of who loves who more. So whoever you know that thinks that way needs to grow up. ]
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