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she kinda took my dude....
I met this girl keesha on my track team. We got hella close, went 2 a concert wit her, her parents helpd wit my big ol party, stuff like that. Well I had been talkn on & off 2 this guy 4 about 3 years. It didn't really go any where bcuz he kinda [this is RUDE] isn't on my level, but he's sweet! So I made a mistake &told keesha about him like how I KiNDA like him but not really. So 1day keesha tells me that they're GOiN OUT! (N I look way better than this bytch. We like 2 different species! :-D) Tell me iS iT WRONG 0F ME 2 CUT THEM BOTH OFF? (Me n dude were kinda friends too) I wasn't mad @ keesh @ 1st, but later I realized she didn't give a shyt about us 2 jus go wit my dude!
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well i know this is'nt wat you wanted to here but you had your chance for 3 years and you did'nt do anything..
**well maybe the dude did'nt know you liked him
**maybe keesha is being a bioch and just wanted to take your guy..
**but the wrong thing to do is to cut them both...just be like okayy w/e..and say your over the guy..and go look for new ones..
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I'd have to agree with juicyloverxo12, pretty much said what I was going to say.
Also, Keesha didn't know about you and this guy from the get go so it would be illogical to assume that she didn't ever care about you as a friend because all she was after was this other guy. I also have to point out, when someone thinks of me as a different species I'd find it quite offensive and it's not something I'd expect from someone who's supposed to be a friend. The fact that you've always thought this way of her (and it's not a recent change after she started going out with this other guy) I think the best thing is that you do cut them both off and just not talk to them again. I think if either of them are after a friend they'd be able to find someone who really IS a friend.
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I think that the guy you liked/or still like shouldn't be cut off...he didn't know you liked him...he didnt know about any of this...I dont think that you should totally cut her off...you should ignore her but dont all the way cut her off...cus it sounds like maybe she's a family friend a little? I dunno...but even then you may need to see her like at skool and stuff...just dont even mind of her.Let me know if you can how this helps!Bye!
Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Breezy:)
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Yeah, its wrong to cut them off.
1. Dude probably didn't know you liked him.
2. You told Keesha you KIND of liked him, but NOT REALLY. You gave her the impression that it would be okay to go out with him when you said not really.
Also, just because you think you look better than her and just because he's not on your level doesn't mean the relation ship can't go anywhere with Dude. Sounds to me like your pretty conceited about yourself. Maybe he didn't want to talk to you for sounding so conceited all the time.
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I think it would be wrong of you to cut off contact from both of them. If you say he's not on your level, then that means you don't want to go out with him. And if you don't want him why can't Keesha? I don't think she really meant anything by going out with him, since you said you didn't really like him. If your still hurt talk to her about how you feel. She'll understand.
However, I must say if they really like each other, let it be. You didn't seem to like him that much, so if she's head over heals let her have him.
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