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asking him out
So tomorrow is the last time I'll see this guy I like cause its summer vacation right, and we just go in for a quick second.
I've been crushing on this guy for a long time now but we've never really had a long conversation or talked to eachother, outside from the classroom work I guess. But I always catch him looking at me -especially at the last school dance, then there was that one time he sat behind me during a presentation and he kept nudging me in the back.
Whatever, I figure "hey why not? If its a yes, then BOOYAH, if its a no then you have 2 months to get over him" sorta thing.
What should I say?
I was thinking just
"Hey, do you want to hang out this summer? maybe catch a movie or something?"
Something simple?
I don't want to scare him by coming on to strong.
Idea's?
Please don't say "You should be friends first" or "Flirt more" cause I know that but its kinda late for that now, and I'm asking him out to try and make a friendship not neccessarily become his girlfriend right away.
THANKS
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Wow, its funny you should mention that! I've been through something completely similar! :)
There was this boy Dave, he was in my Studay Hall and Lunch. I mean I have looked at him a few times during both periods and have caught him looking at me. It feels awesome, dosent it?! Anyways, over Christmas break actually, he had added me to his myspace. We kind of talked and I came to find out he liked me! I was excited beyond belief! After we'd talked for a little while...a few weeks later, we were dating! :) Never in my entire life have I ever been so happy with someone, ever.
I'd say talk to him, kinda ask questions in a flirty way. Ask him for his number. And compliment him! Dont go over the top with it, but I've noticed that guys like that little hint you like them. Not only does it tell them how you feel, but it makes them feel a lot more confident around you. Then maybe once he feels like he can be himself (although he should be already) but I mean as in a less-shy kind of way, you two just might hit it off. I wouldnt go straight to the point though, that might give him the "desperate" vibe. Take things slow. Once you've gotten your point across hang out with him, find out what he's like. Things could work out excellently! <3 Good luck, and I hope all works out well.
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You have a good attitude! Good ideas! Perfect way to ask! You sound confident and he sounds like a nice guy who wouldn't be rude or anything...! Sounds excellente! Go for it!
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You seem to already know what to do and how to handle the situation it seems. You just need a push. :P You already said about not wanting to come on too strong (very good idea) and about not necessarily becoming his girlfriend straight off (very good plan) so just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime over the holidays. If he says yes then exchange numbers and such and wait a few days then txt/call him up and see if he fancies meeting up and hanging out or something. It will be light (so your not comin on too strong) and the most important of all it will give you the chance to get to know him outside of school to see what he's like. That way you can let the friendship develop and if anything more comes of it then all the better. :]
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just be like "hey. you seem like a nice person and i'd like to get to know you better. wanna hang out this summer?" something along the lines of that. or, be mysterious - get a pen &write your name&number on his arm, smile&say "call me", and walk away. good luck.<3
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