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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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ok well i'm 13/f and i just found like a bald spot on my head! i mean i have hair that covers it up... but there's like a quarter sized bald spot when i lift my hair up... what could be the cause of this and is there anything i can do? this is so embarassing and weird! please help- i rate

Probably because you pull your hair too tight.

For example, if your wearing your hair in a pony tail, and you make your hair up in the front SUPER tight, then it can cause bald spots. Don't really know how, but it just does.

You just need to wear your hair down more often. And just cover your bald spot for the time being, until your hair grows thicker & longer.

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WARNING: THIS STORY IS KINDA WEIRD AND GROSS BUT ITS TRUE AND I NEED SOME ADVICE!

Well i accidently pinched my behind hard[long story] so now i have this bump on it and it hurts so can someone tell me what it is and how to get rid of it please!

It's probably just a really big bumpy bruise. You can't get cancer or anything. So don't be freakin out much.It'll probably be gone 3-7 days. Bruises take a long time to heal. Next time, don't pinch your butt..Just for safety. ♥

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okay well this might seem weird to some people..but i like my little brothers (younger by 2 years) best friend. his best friend is hot, sweet, smart, GORGEOUS...all that..but i think it might be a little weird. i mean were friends and all but the thing is i dont think anything would happen since we're a different age! first of all : do you think it is weird? 8th & 6th grade. And second of all: what are some things i can do to drop hints??

THANKS!!

Aw.

Well..just a tad. Because people will probably think "Woah she's an 8th grader & she can't get a guy her own age..HOW DESEPERATE!" But if you really like him. Then go out with him..And maybe flirt with him.


And play battle ship & color with Crayola crayons..

Haha just kidding =) That wasn't apart of the advice. But yea. Just flirt =)

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hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?

Nope. There's no way that he would be able to know if you don`t tell him..

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Well i really need some good quotes about love. does anybody have any good ones or good sites? I need the quotes kinda quickly but i can wait a little.
I rate
Thanks in advance
Quotless in Chicago

http://www.xanga.com/LiVe_LaUgH_LoVe_Nd_Be_LoVeD

http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net/

(For that one ^, it SHOULD be on the side )

http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES

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I want my hair to be less frizzy and big..what can I do?
I have to get a hair cut and get more layers since parts of my hair are dead. I've tried using gel and hairspray but it makes my hair curly.. And that just makes it more frizzier than it was before. I dont know what to use. Is there some product or hair treatment that I can do? It seems like if I try to straighten my hair..it'll poof up. >__

For your curly hair to frizz it down a bit there is this product by John Frieda

Frizz Ease Hair Serum Extra Strength Smooth & Defrizz.

It should look like this
http://www.folica.com/images/uploads/8/1058-fe_hserum.gif

Sorry, it's not bigger. You can buy this product at drug stores like Wal*Greens.

If your going to straighten your hair, I use Bed Head "HeadBrush". Basically you can buy it at any place where they sell Bed Head. But i bought it at a salon. It's just a spray but not like a sticky spray. It smells really good too! It gives it shine though. That's it. But it gives your head a really pretty smell lol =)

If you do get a haircut or not, just go into any salon & say what your problem is & they'll recommend something. They'll probably want you to buy something expensive, but just look if it seems good for your hair.

Also, for your curly hair, DON'T brush it.Brushing your hair can just make it REALLY poofy & frizzy. Just comb it & put moose on it. It gives it volume & it just kind of sticks it down. But don't over do it because then it'll just become one sticky mess.

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I really feel awful right now so I'll sum it up. When I got to my last class today a friend told me I was really stained. I went to the bathroom and i had blood on the back of my pants. It's so embarrasing. I feel like becoming a hermit crab. Share your experiences with me please.

Woah lol so you want to hear an embarassing story?

Okay well it started about like..8th grade and i DID NOT KNOW I WAS ON MY PERIOD! So i was wearing these khaki pants & IT STAINED MY WHOLLLEEE ASSSS!! lmfao & so then all the guys saw & they started laughing & i was soo embarassed that i was crying a little and i ran to the bathroom & one of my friends was like "woah its like a volcano erupted!" lmfao so i got mad at her & when i came out of the bathroom with my p.e shorts on..everyone was still laughing but then i found it funny & started laughing a little. so then one of my good guy friends STILL won't let it go & im a sophomore in highschool & he's like "holy shit remember when you stained your ass in 8th grade" and people call me bloody mary until someone brings it up and its just gay...lmao

Don't worry. Just laugh at yourself =)

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i picked this out to show a girl how much i care what do you think?

I'm not sure if you know or not
But I really do love you a lot.
You still hold a special place in my heart
And you did, right from the start.
But when he came along and took your breath away,
I was devastated and didn't know what to say.
I spend my nights crying, time after time,
I spent my days lying, saying I was fine.
Little did you know, my heart was crushed inside,
And on that day, a little of me died.
But with her, you look so in love
'Cause you are an angel from above.
I now have to teach my heart to move on,
For, you are now forever gone.
But about one thing I am unsure:
Why it can't be me, and not him?

One problem

"But with her, you look so in love"

Change it to him =). So then it could look like
"But with HIM, you look so in love."

Unless i read it wrong & it's suppose to be like that...


But other then that, ITS FUCKING CUTE!!

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me and my best guy friend have been friends for a long long time. he let me know that he has cared about me for a while. i like him too and told him that. we are going out now. but i dont want anyone to know right now. only because i broke up with my ex a lil while ago because i was apparently all over my new bf. so it would be bad to have this get out right now. my question is... is this a bad sign already if i dont want to know about my blossoming love.

Nope not bad at all. I do that too sometimes. You just probably don't want to be considered a skanky whore & be all over the school. If your new boyfriend is okay without telling anyone just yet, then keep it unknown a little longer. But if he's not then just say you guys are going out if anyone asks.

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Hey! Does anybody know when Paris Hilton's CD comes out?! Thanks so much!

She's making a cd?? Woahh..thats weird..

I don't know the answer to your question..but i have a question! =)

Does she sing good??

Haha..i feel bad for not answering your question.. =(

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what are sum programs to download any type of music?

Limewire. It's free & doesn't have any viruses.

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what goes best with a black tube top..

- dark blue jeans
- denim mini skirt
- or white white

thanks. i rate 5's

Dark blue jeans & denim mini skirt both go good. But i would prefer the denim mini skirt better.

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

Aw. There's nothing wrong with it. It's cute. If you guys like each other then be together. Age doesn't matter..Well it does, but freshman dating a junior isn't that extreme.

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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks

Being friends with benefits is that you can still hook up with other people. And yet you can always go back to your "benefit" person. It's different because being boyfriend & girlfriend, you have to committ and not cheat on each other.

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Ok theres this boy and i really like him but theres this girl i have known since ever and she is such s butthead cause like everytime i tell her who i like she goes and starts flirting and stuff with him! it makes me so mad! and after awhile she ends up goin out with him and she goes and rubs it in my face i cant take it anymore! and this has happened with every single guy! does anyone have any ideas for me to get noticed or asked out by this guy?

Like everyone said, stop telling who you like to her. Flirt with whatever guy you want. Be confident & try & talk to this guy whenever you can. Hang out with him whenever you can too. Don't obsess though because thats a major turn off to guys.

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All right.....My friend went out with this guy for like 2-3 months and he broke up with her and she was not ready for it and she was heart broken!! Now she still wants to go out with him! And that is all she ever talks about!! She wont stop so what i am basically asking is...What is some advice i can give her to stop talking about the guy!!??

Well the sad part is that she didn't expect it. And maybe that's why she's talking about him. Be there for her. But maybe just go out with her to hang out & talk to some guys.

Or, you can tell her how she just keeps on talking about him & that it's really getting annoying and she should stop.

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Sorry i dont mean for this to be perverted..If u masturbate by rubbing (as opposed to sticking fingers "up there").. does it stretch u out?

Umm..I don't think so. I don't know i don't masturbate..Sorry. But maybe ask someone else. They might know.

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Hi! I just finished my shift at my job today. This married lady that I work with is trying to set me up with a guy that knows her husband. They met him at a New Years party and he asked her if she knew any cute, nice girls from her work that would want to go out with him She said he is 32 and owns his own computer business. She said he is a really nice guy and wants to date a nice girl who has no kids. He's had problems with on line dating (and so have I)

I am 28 and have never been married or have had children. I told her I am quite shy and havent dated anyone in a long time. She said he is shy too. She is going to phone him and we (me, this guy, her and her huband) are going to meet for coffee.

Do you think he sounds like a nice guy that won't just try to sleep with me?

I rate high!
thanks
p.s it was my new years resolution to get a bf this year!

Yup. Take a chance. If you don't like him, you can always find another guy. But if you don't go, then you'll never know what he is like! He sounds really great. From what you said up there ^.

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15/f

heyy! i have a question okay so i met this girl and we hung out one time and we ended up going to the movies ((oh and my cousin came along too shes 15 also) and my friend is like ohh yeah jake and kevin were wondering if they could come too and ive heard of them but just never hung out with them before so im like yeahH! and so yeah they're the ones like like to do stuff with girls haha..yeaaaa..and my friend is very outgoing and not shy around anyone! and im the total opposite sometimes..mostly around boys and so this kid jake put his arm around my friend and they cuddled and held hands and i was on the other side of her and my cousin was next to me..and kevin was on the other side of jake..haha yeah sorry confusing! but i guess when me and my cuzin left kevin is like gosh why didnt u friend cuddle with me haha? but i think im scared to get close to a guy and then im also not outgoing like my friend but i dont want them to think im shy!! and im also like not very comfortable with guys very much..like doing stuff with them..ive only madeout with one and i dont know i just feel really werid and uncomfortable..but i wanna do stuff ..if you get what im saying.. i feel like such a loser thoo i wanna go out and meet new people but im soo shy when i first meet them..and i have like no guy friends :( pathetic i know! and everyone says 'flirting' but im not outgoing enough to do that...what do you think i should do?

SORRY SO LONG!!

Aw. Well this is very normal. Girls do get shy around boys. But you shouldn't be! Just think of how different your life will be. You'll get more guy friends & boyfriends. Having guy friends is so much fun. Litterally you can NEVER get bored when your around them. You should really flirt. Don't be so shy. Just talk to them & get to know them and let them get to know you too so that way you can feel comfortable with them. Maybe learn a few things from your friend. Look at how she's so outgoing & she flirts. Being shy can make you hold back on doing things & miss opertunities(sp haha). Don't be shy. Practice around someone your really close with and be outgoing. =)

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can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager

No.

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