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Does this guy sound like good bf material?
Hi! I just finished my shift at my job today. This married lady that I work with is trying to set me up with a guy that knows her husband. They met him at a New Years party and he asked her if she knew any cute, nice girls from her work that would want to go out with him She said he is 32 and owns his own computer business. She said he is a really nice guy and wants to date a nice girl who has no kids. He's had problems with on line dating (and so have I)
I am 28 and have never been married or have had children. I told her I am quite shy and havent dated anyone in a long time. She said he is shy too. She is going to phone him and we (me, this guy, her and her huband) are going to meet for coffee.
Do you think he sounds like a nice guy that won't just try to sleep with me?
I rate high!
thanks
p.s it was my new years resolution to get a bf this year!
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I think he sounds nice, trust your friend. And if he is in for sleeping with you, slap him and never talk to him again. Simple, right? And good luck with that resolution!
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well you cant really tell much can you. just go to coffee with them see how he's like and if you wanna go out more with him then do it. if he did just want sex then you'd know fast also dont give it to him untill you think you know him well enough! thats all i can say for now anyway
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At the moment you know relatively little about this guy, but this is a great oppertunity to get to know him better.
A person is much more than a list of qualities like "has a good job" and "is shy", so it's difficult to know if you'll be well suited or not without getting to know him. Dating can feel difficult when you are shy and haven't done it for a long time, but this is a great chance to ease yourself back into dating. He might not be your soul-mate, or even somebody particularly suited to you (although there isn't anything from your description of him that would suggest the two of you were incompatible), but getting out there with somebody in a safe enviornment with your friends at your side will probably be really good for you.
Take this oppertunity, but don't put too much pressure on the two of you - you don't have to find a boyfriend straight away. It's better to just relax and enjoy the process of getting to know him without feeling like you have to decide by the end of your first date whether he's boyfriend material or not. All the best.
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Give it a shot. He sounds kool. Good luck to you in that department.
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Yup. Take a chance. If you don't like him, you can always find another guy. But if you don't go, then you'll never know what he is like! He sounds really great. From what you said up there ^.
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wow your resolution could come true faster then you think. i say meet him for coffee and go from there! he seems like a nice guy!
XO KALIE
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I don't think it would hurt at all to meet the guy. Who knows he may be just what you are looking for.
Its good you will be with another couple. If it doesn't work out it doesn't but I would sure give him a look see! :)
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