heyy! i have a question okay so i met this girl and we hung out one time and we ended up going to the movies ((oh and my cousin came along too shes 15 also) and my friend is like ohh yeah jake and kevin were wondering if they could come too and ive heard of them but just never hung out with them before so im like yeahH! and so yeah they're the ones like like to do stuff with girls haha..yeaaaa..and my friend is very outgoing and not shy around anyone! and im the total opposite sometimes..mostly around boys and so this kid jake put his arm around my friend and they cuddled and held hands and i was on the other side of her and my cousin was next to me..and kevin was on the other side of jake..haha yeah sorry confusing! but i guess when me and my cuzin left kevin is like gosh why didnt u friend cuddle with me haha? but i think im scared to get close to a guy and then im also not outgoing like my friend but i dont want them to think im shy!! and im also like not very comfortable with guys very much..like doing stuff with them..ive only madeout with one and i dont know i just feel really werid and uncomfortable..but i wanna do stuff ..if you get what im saying.. i feel like such a loser thoo i wanna go out and meet new people but im soo shy when i first meet them..and i have like no guy friends :( pathetic i know! and everyone says 'flirting' but im not outgoing enough to do that...what do you think i should do?
SORRY SO LONG!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Monday January 2 2006, 1:22 am: Aw. Well this is very normal. Girls do get shy around boys. But you shouldn't be! Just think of how different your life will be. You'll get more guy friends & boyfriends. Having guy friends is so much fun. Litterally you can NEVER get bored when your around them. You should really flirt. Don't be so shy. Just talk to them & get to know them and let them get to know you too so that way you can feel comfortable with them. Maybe learn a few things from your friend. Look at how she's so outgoing & she flirts. Being shy can make you hold back on doing things & miss opertunities(sp haha). Don't be shy. Practice around someone your really close with and be outgoing. =)
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