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What's the difference in prices for a 30g iPod video and an 80g one? No links please, just a simple answer. Thanks in advance. (link)
Apple doesn't sell iPod 30 GB anymore. An 80GB costs approximatley 250$ in american money. Now, Apple makes a 160 GB which costs $300 in american money.


why do I have to wear glasses? (link)
so that you can see
no offense but this is one of the wierdest questions ive ever seen
if you dont want to wear them buy contactss


what does it mean when a guy eats a girl out?? vis/versa.. what does it feel like??
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its when a guy performs oral on a girl
vice versa...a girl give a fuy a blowjob (performing oral)
if you ever dont know what something like this means, go check out ubrandictionary.com
especially since your not supposed to use graphic languages on here
(so yeaa if you still dont know what it means by performing oral on a guy/girl go search it on urban dictionary)


I'm apart of an Interact club at school and we are required to do two community service projects per semester (I think that's how it goes). As seniors we are required to do more than the underclassmen. My friends and I (about 4 of us) want to volunteer at a retirement home or a hospital to help sick children or something along those lines. Who would we have to contact to do something like that? Would be allowed to volunteer at a place like that? We want to spend time with people and play games with them or listen to them talk, just be there and "hang out" with them. What if we were to do something such as cleaning a strip of the highway? How would we go about doing that? Would there be specific dates in which we could do it or could be do it on our own time? We have to have a "supervisor" type person sign off saying we actually performed community service so I guess there would be someone that we would have to contact... Any ideas on what we should do and who we should contact. The club advisor said there wasn't any set amount of hours as long as there are two community service projects. Thanks in advance! (link)
Solidadvice pretty much has it down so I won't repeat what he/she just said. Another thing you might want to think about though is a Charity Walk. My class is doing a Walk For Autism next Saturday. What you would do is search for charity walks in your city, go to the website, start a team and get as many people to join as possible. You can either walk to event or you can do volunteer type things like hang out water, watch children, whatever else they might want you to do.


Is it bad to drink? (link)
Yep its not drinkable!
And its verrryy bad for you health.
It would be like drinking detergents :/


okay i like this guy and he likes me and we're not going out because i cant date yet and he said he'll wait for 2 years to date me but we cuddle a lot and stuff and this guy friend who has a gf likes me saw us hugging and stuff and he was like "if your not going out why he be grabbing you and when he calls you your like a pet to him you go right after
not to be mean but if you really werent.. then i am ashamed of you cause you should KNOW better soo do you really let a guy do that to you when ur not together? just think about it" what is he trying to say? am i being ****/easy? i like him but then im kinda confused because i like this one guy too >.< any advice? (link)
i think your question is if your being too slutty...? well if yes, then noo you are not
your hugging, that is completely fine. especially considering its someone you have a thing with
people in my school like finger and handjob without going out, which im against. personally, ive made out with people i dont date before, but thats as far as id go.
so trust me... you HUGGING is nothing big at all and that other guy is being a jerkk =]


Anyone know any free online psychic's ?
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www.free-online-psychic-reading.net/

theres onee =]


I'm 15/f (sophmore) and this guy who is a senior has hung out with me a few times and as much as I hate to say it, I'm completly smitten with him, (no this doesn't happen a lot). I'm not sure if he's playing around or if he's really interested. Examples: brushing off the imaginary dust on my shoulder and going back to make sure he "got it all", or whenever I laugh or talk or anything he's always looking directly at me. Am I losing it here, is he just being a nice guy? How do I tell the difference between a nice guy and one who might be interested?

AoS (link)
Wait it out, if he gets closer he probably likes you. It's hard to tell, everyones different! Guys usually end up liking there friends after time, so chances are you might like him later.


i just made cheer captain for my high school jv squad. two other girls are both co-captains. im super excited, but im kind of worried..i dont want to let my coach down and make her think i dont deserve it, but i dont want to be too pushy to the other girls and make them hate me haha. anyways, please give me any advice you can think of about certain things to do, not to do, and all that other good stuff thanks!! :D (link)
first off...congratulations!
what you do is you need to be helpful, not bossy.
just help people out and be a leader, but dont get cocky and think your THE leader, because that will make the other players hate you, as well as (especially) the other captains.
just be nice and dont worry about it
i think your overanalyzing it haha
i hope you have a good seasonn =]


ok well you know how when guys get horny and stuff they get boners well what do girls get? (link)
they get "wet"
basically there vagina lets off this "natural lubricant" that makes sex easier
im trying to be as ungraphic as possible here, but if that didn't answer your question... ask me again!


My boyfriend that I've been dating for a couple of months dips. He used to do it A LOT more than he does now and he says he's trying to stop (NOT for me, for him), but I don't see much progress.

I was doing some research and it says that one can of dip has the nicotine of 60 cigarettes, so I can only imagine how hard it is for him to quit. It doesn't bother me as much as it did in the beginning, but there's just one thing that I constantly think about.

I know there are horror stories for cigarettes, alcohol...all that after school special stuff...and I'm not a "goody-goody" by any means, but seeing videos and pictures and hearing stories about people developing mouth cancer or even getting parts of their jaw removed scares me to death. He's only 18 and he's been doing it for two years.

Here's my question: How can I help him quit? Every time I bring it up I feel like I'm nagging him. How can I just help him along in a subtle way that will actually work without sounding like a nag? (link)
honestly.my brother dips and his girlfriend told him that if he doesnt quit she wont kiss him .and if he continues to do it she said she would break up with him .(but she didnt mean it)she only said that to him because if he truly love her he will quit.....so just tell him that you wont kiss him.then he'll get tired of not getting them from her.so then if he keeps doing it,tell him that you will break up with him.but dont mean it.but make it sound like you mean it.......hope it works for you.


Ok, so I think my hymen might have broken, but I'm still a virgin. I'm only 14, and sex seems like a scary thing to me. I think it might have broken while putting a tampon in. Later this month, I have a doctors appt, for kidney stones, and they have to go up inside me. I'm worried that if it really did break, they'll tell my mom. She would freak out. I don't think she'd believe that I've never had sex. Do you know maybe what I could do? Like, what I could maybe tell her?
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hymens can usually break when using tampons, and can even break from activities like horseback riding
so even if you did break your hymen, it could be from a lot of activities (like masturbation too...but thats also awkward)
annddd the doctors will not tell your mom because it is illegal to tell parents things like that without the consent of their children
and if your mom does find out just say, "i always use tampons" -- and she'll most likely believe you, because tampons commonly break hymens.


does anyone else think it is dumb how girls wear low-cut tops and expect guys NOT to stare? they get offended when they do but theyre the ones that are like trying to get their attention?? (link)
i agreeee
its also like when girls wear pants that say "juicy" and get offended when guys are like "hey...nice ass"
they buy the shirts to get attention, but when they realize it they like kinda freak out? its an identity-finding thing
i hope that helped


hey
im 15/f....&& i think there is something 'not normal' about my virgina...&& cz of this i am insecure and scard 2 do things with bois.
my inner labia seems 2 be bigger than my outa labia so it lyk drops out... so yk i have wrinkly lips faling out of my virgina:S
nd my virgina seems 2 quite big frm the side....shudnt it b flat [the bit os skin where ur pubic hair grows]
also should i be shaving my pubic hair?
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1) Its spelled vagina, not virginia
2) Don't do things with "bois" if you don't even know what its called, or what its supposed to look like. like, not lyk.
3) I didn't really get your description too well, so if you need to know if its normal looking just search Vagina on Google Images. (Not porn, you can like search a picture, like a drawn picture so that it's not illegal.
4) Shave if youuu want. Not what someone else wants. (But I prefer shaving)


Alright, well usually I'll agree 'age is just a number' but this situation...

My friend is a 15 year old girl and she's dating a 12 year old boy. I mean, yeah age is just a number but this is weird. People usually say on here 'Remember someone who is older wants a different kind of relationship' and that's true. A 12 year old boy has just left his "Girls have cooties" stage for gods sake!

Well my question is, do you think it's right that they're dating? Or is just me thinking it's wrong?

Also should I just let her be happy, or should I say something? If so, how should I put it? (link)
wow, a 12 year old? you sure hese out of the cootie stage?

haha i doubt hese really mature enough to handle a 15 year old. thats what a sophomore/freshman dating a 6/7th grader? i mean... its okay i guess. just really stupid...


F/15

Every since the begining of this school year I've been feeling really depressed. There are a lot of different reasons why. First of all, I dont have many friends. I have one close friend who I hang out with everyday, but sometimes she blows me off, which is understandable, to hang out with other people, and I wonder the halls alone, feeling like an idiot, wishing I were at home. I live in a small town and go to a small school so I already know everybody and its hard to make new friends when you're a sophmore in high school and everybody is separated by "levels of coolness".

Last year, life was great. I was a freshmen and I was dating a junior, who I fell for. We broke up after about 4 months and we pretty much lost all contact. Thats what hit me the hardest. I still love him but hes in love with his new girlfriend. I keep thinkin that I'll never find another guy because I've been single for months and everyday I tell myself things will get better but they never do.

I hate waking up everyday knowing that it will just be another sad, pathetic repeat of what happened the day before. I want out of this life. I want to drop out of school. Or move. Or die. I dont care anymore. Ive never felt like this before and Im really starting to scare myself. I keep thinking about killing myself. I've thought about it a couple times before but I always knew in the back of my mind that I would never do it. Now im not so sure.

Usually I would talk to someone about how im feeling to try to work things out but i have nobody to talk to. asking random people for advice on the internet is pointless too....i dont even know why im doing it. I just want to die. I want to stop hurting inside. there are so many other things going on in my life that i cant even explain on here because I dont want to tell anybody. I hate it so much.

please..........does anybody have any good advice. nothing like "try to make more friends" or "you'll get a new boyfriend, just put yourself out there" i need to hear something real. (link)
I used to live like that, hating day after day. I didn't have many friends, and it felt really horrible, just standing there or wandering the halls to kill time. I've felt suicidal many times before, and it's such a horrible feeling, to be unloved or unwanted. I still struggle with friends today, but things have gotten better

If you want to talk just ask, I've been through a lot lately. Stuff that movies are made of, and it's still troubling me. Family, friends, school, relationships, they're always nagging at me. I need some one to talk to also, maybe we can help each other out?

my myspace is myspace.com/kylega, or you can ask me for my e-mail on feedback, or inbox. I'd be more than glad to help you out.

I'm a 16 year old sophomore, I can cope, or at least try with many things your going through.


if you have sex with your boyfriend, that's not considered as "a whore"... right? (link)
it could be
like if you guys were only dating for a week and then you had sex with him then yea some MIGHT consider it whorish. but the fact thats he's your boyfriend like is fine
so noo =] (unless you did it too soon, and you both werent ready)


i need some advice on makeing out.
like whats too much. etc.
what do i do w/ my hands??

thanx. :] (link)
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=how+to+french+kiss

but basically its just like a lot of kisses, where you stick your tongue out, then close it and do it
if you dont get what i mean by that type in making out of youtube

aanyways with your hands, put them on his neck, hair, chest, and sometimes bicepss

hope that helped!


How long does it take for alcohol to start messing with your brain? (link)
I'm assuming meaning like how long will it take to get drunk after drinking some alcohol?
Well depending on how much you drink, but normally only about 5-10 minutes.
It's pretty quick
Unlike drugs...which takes like an hour to get high


why is it that sometimes when i type " (link)
if you have a space before and after itll turn into a heart
like this




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