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am i being slutty?
okay i like this guy and he likes me and we're not going out because i cant date yet and he said he'll wait for 2 years to date me but we cuddle a lot and stuff and this guy friend who has a gf likes me saw us hugging and stuff and he was like "if your not going out why he be grabbing you and when he calls you your like a pet to him you go right after
not to be mean but if you really werent.. then i am ashamed of you cause you should KNOW better soo do you really let a guy do that to you when ur not together? just think about it" what is he trying to say? am i being ****/easy? i like him but then im kinda confused because i like this one guy too >.< any advice?
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woman,you need to sort out your feelings.You cant like two guys at the same time becasue your gonna end up being unfaithful to both and losing both.Whats goin on here *speaking honestly* is that the guy that said hed wait to date you is surpriesd youd do stuff like that with a guy your not even with yet,while this guys being true to you to the point where he wants to wait for two years JUST to date you.He might get a really bad impression of you and not even wana get with you anymore.I dont think your slutty,i just think what you did mighta been.Please think bout this so you dont end up regreting it.
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i wouldn't exactly say it's slutty, but technically it's not right. if you're not together then you probably shouldn't be doing that stuff, but then again you're not allowed to date yet. all i can say is take it slow. don't do too much with that guy or it will be considered slutty. take it slow. you're probably young, you have plenty of time.
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how old are you first of all? and you can date with out your parents finding out just keep it on the D.L(downlow) and i have alot of confodence and pride and i dont care if ppl touch me so no your not being slutty unless your having sex with him or hard core making out and touching in public but if he touches you or you him in a flirty or friendly way no its not slutty and id tell you friend wit a girl friend to not be jelious hes taken!
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If you enjoy, or would like to be, cuddling and hugging your male friends, you are going to have to know that some people are going to call that 'slutty'.
Is it? Not if you don't think it is.
If you are comfortable and feel fine, then tell your friend he needs to show a bit more respect, or else keep his comments to himself, because you know exactly who you are, and you are not a slut.
I've been called a whore for carrying on friendly conversations with a guy about my strange attraction to Alan Rickman... some people are just hyper-critical.
Know Thyself. Accept that other people are going to think, and say what they like. Go ahead and tell them to put a sock in it.
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Tell your guy friend, that /hugging/ isn't reserved for boyfriends only. Friends can do it too.
He's overreacting so he must be jealous...
Unless he saw something else.
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i think your question is if your being too slutty...? well if yes, then noo you are not
your hugging, that is completely fine. especially considering its someone you have a thing with
people in my school like finger and handjob without going out, which im against. personally, ive made out with people i dont date before, but thats as far as id go.
so trust me... you HUGGING is nothing big at all and that other guy is being a jerkk =]
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The other guy is jealous.
You're not being slutty at all. It's not your fault you can't date yet. You both like each other, so what's the problem? Keep it to the level you are - hugging's fine. Save other stuff for when you are in a relationship.
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