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Ok, well, my friend...RG, I have known him since kindergarden and we're in 7th now. And he's in my 2 longest classes ((We have blocks at our school)) and sometimes we have pe together.Well, everyone thinks i like him. I supposively act like i do...but secretly i do. I don't know why. I just got over him, because i knew he'd never like me but here i go fallin for him again. I don't know what it is that attracts me to him so much. He's tall, ((6'1)) he alwayys smells good, and makes me laugh. He smiles whenever I laugh or laughs at me whenever i giggle because he's tickling my ears. He's gotta girlfriend. I guess he seems to be happy with her. Everytime I see them hug I just want to rip her hair out. Yeah jealousy I know..I guess it's hard for me too move on i just don't know what to do..

It's normal to feel a little jealous.You shouldn't just stop everything just because he has a girlfriend.The way I see it is this. Mk well I'm going to be honest..I think he likes you but doesn't want his gf to find out.You two flirt a tons.And you can't just hide it all so you have to call him or talk to him about this.Tell him you like him but don't want to ruin it for him & his girlfriend. You never know what will happen til you take a chance! Good luck with everything ♥

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I Know this question may sound stupid... butt how do you flirt?.. Cause im kinda shy

It just kinda happens you act like you like them..just tease them and act like you have a crush on them.Since you shy it might be a little harder but just act like your in love with them and lead them on.It's funn ♥

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Hello my name is Rachel. I am 13. I met this guy named Bret recently. Hes amazing and exstremly hott. We've been talking and he told me he likes me. But theres a three years age diffrence you see hes 16. So I dont know if were gonna date. Hes past girlfriends have been models and exstremly pretty..Its not that i'm ugly but I cant compaire to them. He tells this girl Mellisa that he loves her so much they talk all the time but they are just friends. I guess maybe i'm getting jealous easy. But I dont know what to do cause I really like him but i'm not sure if i have a chance or anything. Help Please?

I think you have a good chance with him. Age doesn't really matter.You shoudln't even worry about that Melissa girl she probly is a best friend of his.Just flirt alot with him and I know for a fact you will have a good chance.It's okay to get jealous everyone does it. ♥

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alright so, me and my bf have been together 2 months. . . im falling in love with him.. you may think oh thats really fast, but then again you cant help who or when you fall in love.. ok but i dont know if he loves me to.. my best friend tells me he does.. that it takes two people. and im scared to say it cuz i dont know what he will say back. . . so what should i do basically

If you really love him then I think you should say it and not worry if he will because when he is ready he will do it. Even tho I'm sure right when you say it he will too.If he told your best friend he does then he really does. ♥

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14/f...ok so I know this guy named Warren. We recently made a bet that I would go a whole day without listening to his ipod. I lost. And the bet was that whoever lost would have to give the other person something. He said on the phone that he wanted a kiss from me and today was my chance but I was nervous when he mentioned it to me and played dumb. He said that I knew what he wanted and I said no I dont just tell me and he said nevermind. Now I'm afraid that I wont get a kiss from him and I don't know how to bring it up that I still owe him. Any ideas?
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Aw that's so cute.I would do it when he least expects it,if he didn't want a kiss he wouldn't even made a bet so don't even worry about it. Do it when he will least think about it. ♥

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I cant put songs on my ipod for some reason now becuase it has a lock sign at the bottem when i plug it in . How do i take the lock off? it wont even let me click on the songs .

I'm really sorry but I don't know much about iPODS..so sorry ! ♥

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Okay i realli like this guy and he says he doesnt want a gf but i realli want to be his gf also a couple weeks ago he told me he liked me how do i find out if he still likes me or should i ask him out???


Help please ♥

Don't just wait around you should tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way and tell him you like him a whole bunch if he told you a couple weeks ago I don't think he would change his mind so yeah go for it! x-o

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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks

Yes it's normal.Alot of girls feel like that about an ex not all but many do.The only thing you can do is be honest with him and talk to him because he can feel the same way about you because most ex's always have a little thing for each other. x-o

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how comes when i try and download a song from limewire it keeps saying in the bottom bit that it needs more sources?

It always does that to me too and I have no idea why but what you do is right click it and it will say get more sorces and click that and it will just continue to download normally.

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About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment

First of all that kid must be a retard I`m sorry but he should have used a condom because I'm sure he knew if he didn't what could of happened.Well just take a test and if it is positive the only thing you can do is probly talk to your mom about it and he should talk to his too.Then decide what you are going to do.If you don't think talking to your mom is a good idea then talk to a friend and they will help you out alot.Take the tes as soon as possible that way you don't worry forever. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out okay.♥

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I'm 13 and I've liked this guy for a year now, and I'm beginning to wonder whether I should tell him I like him. I doubt he likes me back in "that way", but I'm 99.99999...% sure that he likes me as a friend. We're good friends. Not like unseparably devoted best friends, but we talk a lot. I'm not sure whether telling him how I feel is a good idea. Can anyone give me their thoughts?

A year is a really long time so I think you should tell him. You have nothing to lose.And don't think bad thoughts because if you think positive it's more likely to happen.I think he will like you back because a year is a long time and in that year he prob. learned alot about you and you learned alot about him so I think it will all work out ♥

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Ok, so me and this guy were going out, and I mean everything seemed pretty good. We both loved each other, or at least I thought he loved me. But then we broke up, because he said that it felt weird, and that our love felt like we shouldnt be together now, but in the future. And he told me that he was raelly messed up in the head about this whole thing, as was I. So we broke up, and we hadnt talked for a few days, then I find out he already has a g/f and he's already had relationships with her before. So, I've been having a difficlut time letting go of him, because I really do love him, and I want him. But EVERYTHING, and I mean everything reminds me of him. And so its sorta difficult to let go, when everything reminds me of him. So what do you guys think I should do? Because right now, I am real confused about if I should let go, or just wait for him? And what are some good ways to let go of him? Like how am I supposed to do it, cus I've tried alot of ways, maybe I'm trying to let go to fast...Thanks for any help, I'll rate 5's for all answers.

13/f

Aw!I have had that happen to me before were every song,every picture,everything just remind you of him.You can't really do nothing about it because you will end up getting more and more hurt.I know this seems way out of the way crazy but you just have to move on.Try to find someone new hang out with your friends more and over time you will for get about him.Just ignore him for a while and he will realize what a heck of a girl he was missing out on and if he loves you he will come back.But meanwhile try to find someone new.Your young so you shouldn't even worry about it because you have a while lot of stuff ahead of you.I hope I helped and don't worry!! ♥

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I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, and I don't know what's going on in her life anymore. I want our friendship back, but I don't want to fight about it again and have it be even worse. What can I do?

That always happens and it sucks. That will happen alot with friends they just start to slowly grow apart.When girls get boyfriends they always make them 1st and don't take that the wrong way because friends always important but guys sometimes get them all to there selves.I'm sure she isn't doing it on purpose.This won't start a fight but call her or sit down with her in person and tell her exactly how you feel.She might not even realize it til you really talk to her then it will hit her.Tell her you didn't want this to be a fight but you really want to go back to the old times. ♥

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Hi, this is going to make me sound really messed up. Sometimes I laugh uncontrollably when a situation doesn't call for it. Today for example my parents were fighting, and I just started laughing. I didn't find it funny at all and I was really upset about it, but I couldn't stop it. It also happened once when my friend told me her mother died.. I laughed as I told other people, even though i felt awful about what happened..
Is there something wrong with me? I hate not having control over my reactions like this.

Oh my goshh!! I do the same thing and I never stop laughing..It's just how you are and nothing can really change that.Maybe it's just something you do when you just don't want to stress over it.Nothing is wrong with you.Your perfectly fine.♥

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My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice.

Aw well maybe she just doesn't want to screw up a really good friend ship.What I would do if i was you go back and talk to the girl and ask why she said no.Then tell your friend the story but make sure you say it in a all around nice way and just be there for him because he might get sad or something. ♥

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What does wishing on 11:11 mean?

It's just like when you see a shooting star you see it and make a wish .. it sometimes comes true and sometimes doesn't &hearts

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One of my best friends likes the same guy as me. Well my and my crush (Ross) have been talking alot latley and he told me he likes me. I don't know how to tell her that he likes me. I don't wanna sound like I'm trying to rub it in her face, but I don't want her to find out from like gossip or something so I want her to know so she doesn't get her heart broken, but what should I say?

Don't ever hide anything from a best friend so just tell her that he likes you and the feelings that you two have for each other can't change and no one can help the feelings for each other.Just tell her not to get mad and I'm sure she will understand ♥

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i'm going back out with my boyfriend after he cheated on me. but i know he won't do it again! a lot of people tell me that i'm stupid.... "once a cheater always a cheater!" but i love him so much and know he won't do it again! WHAT DO I DO?!

Aw well people may call it stupid but dont even listen to that if you know its right for YOU then go back out with him.But talk it out with him and let him know how bad it will be if he does it again most guys just do it over and over again but if you really sit down and talk to him I don't think he will. Just do what ever your heart tells you is right..give him another chance ♥

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Hey. first off i am in 7th grade and 13.
Okay so not to sound cocky or anything.. but i'm really popular at my school. and i have this friend.. who let's just say is not as "fortunate" as i am... she is very nice and very cool. and most of the guys like her (as a friend) but shes not how you say.. pretty.. or hot. Well.. her and I both like the same guy. So I promised that i would never do anything in regard to the guy that would hurt her.. like i wouldnt go out with him or do shit with him.. well over the weekend i went to this friends house and i did "stuff" with him.. stuff that would DEFINETLY get her pissed off.. but the thing is.. i really like him alot.. and so when he started feeling me up while we were watching a movie.. i just kinda went with it.. and well you can imagine where it went from there.. i wasnt even thinking of my friend at the time tho! i was just thinking of being with the guy i like. well obviously my friend found out.. and she got SOOO mad at me.. i have tried EVERYTHING saying sorry i mean i honestly dont know what to do. what do you think i should try to do in order to get her to forgive me?

I had the exact same problem.Even though she is your good friend you shoudn't of promised her you never will like him but I understand why you did.You can't help your feelings for someone.She will be mad at you for a while that's just how girls are.I see why she is mad but she is over reacting,just talk to her and tell her that you can't help your feelings for him and you love her to death but if she was a true friend she wouldn't care.So you just have to sit down and talk to her and be calm about it.If that doesn't work just let it go and she will come to you sooner or later. If anything else just IM me or ask.♥

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ok..so im affraid that when i get my first kiss, i wont know what to do...like....how do you make out and stuff?? i know it sounds pathetic but i need help =\

Aw well I know you might be scared or afraid but to be honest there isn't a certain way to kiss or make out,it just happens.Just don't slurp and you'll be fine I know you probly like ugh she isn't helping me but it just happens! If anything else just IM me ♥

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