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About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment
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okay sweetheart I am not saying that it was a "bad" idea to have sex at such a young age. Because I am 15 and I did a couple weeks ago too. I was really scares also because I was supposed to get my period last week. My mom has been on my case cause I didn't get it yet. But then I got my period this morning. It was a relief. Just wait for awhile until 1 or 2 weeks after your missed period (if you have one) and then (i know this is a really scary thought to think of but,) just go to your mom or dad. I know it sounds like a scary thing to go to your parents about this subject but they will understand eventually. They were your age once.
your welcome :D..
x33 Kady-May
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that was your fault at having sex at 14! no suggestions! sorry! maybe abortion
kathryn
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First of all that kid must be a retard I`m sorry but he should have used a condom because I'm sure he knew if he didn't what could of happened.Well just take a test and if it is positive the only thing you can do is probly talk to your mom about it and he should talk to his too.Then decide what you are going to do.If you don't think talking to your mom is a good idea then talk to a friend and they will help you out alot.Take the tes as soon as possible that way you don't worry forever. Good Luck and I hope everything turns out okay.♥
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Hey Hun
Hey well you might not be pregenat u might kepp getting the feelings because your worried to much and worring can cause pain but try not to think about it but if they pains do get worse go to a doctor and check and if its positive try talking to your mum about it but if she gets mad well then you need tot ell at the moment you cant really be dealing with her always getting mad tell her this is the best time you need her support and careing tell her that you would lvoe her to be there for everystep of the way but if seh dosnt are well then try your best
well i really hope i helps
take care mwa mwa : love hilda mwaz
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well, first you need to be tested if your pregnet and if you have any HIV or STD's, next if you are pregnet and you don't want to take care of it, you could take it to your local fire station and have them take care of it, no questions asked. If your not (god hopeing) i hope you learned a vauleable lession on sex, yea the media says it's a normal thing but it only is if your MARRIED. hope this helps.
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Well the best think you can do, is kick yourself for losing it.
Seriously, if you don't know the risks and everything about it, don't freakin do it. It's not hard, you can get information as easily as you wrote this question.
Since you did do it and you might be pregnant, you will have to live with the choices you made. I would absolutely suggest if you are, that you sit down with both your parents and tell them and bring the boy's parents over too so they can now and discuss you options from there. There won't be alot and there probably is going to be a lot of upheavel, but your going to have to do it and live with what you did.
I'm sorry your so scared but you really should've thought ahead. I just hope you can get everything straitened out now. Good luck.
-Ryan
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I think if the test is positive dicuss this with the KID && your parents about what to do..
Yes!!Your too young for a child but its yours && this Kid`s fault..Not the babies so like gettin an abortion wouldn`t be very fare but if you considered adoption that would be very understandable..
You might be scared to discuss this with your mother but she can`t really change anything that you`ve done or exactly ground you because teenagers are going to find a way to have sex..
I would also of suggested taking the [Day After Pill] If you would of asked about this like the same or next day..Then you would of had nothing to worry about..
If it turns out Nagative then your lucky!! && you should watch && pay attention to things you do always use protection && be responsible..
♥Dez
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If it's positive, you just have to discuss it with your mom and consider your options. Are you strongly opposed to abortion? Make sure you consider it, but look at the pros and cons of each option you have. Don't listen to the people who are against abortion as a source for information because they have a strong, not necessarily informed opinion. You're only 14, it could harm your body to have a child at this early age. Just make sure that you do what's best for you and what's best for (if it's positive) the child. Can you handle raising a child right now? Just remember in the future, no matter what, that sex is a really big responsibility, and there's a reason why people say to wait till you're older... you have to be able to deal with the consequences, and you're not necessarily able to do that at 14, no matter how mature you are.
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ok have you missed your period?
do you even have your period yet?
you should take a test and if its positive talk to your mom about it... or school counseler. i know how hard that would be but you have to do it. its best for the baby and you. dont have an abortion how would you feel if you killed something you created.... you couldnt kill a puppy could you? then you couldnt kill a baby. if you dont want to keep it try putting it up for adoption there are tons of familys that want kids that cant have them. it would go to a loving home. so take a test and see whats up.
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I understand your emotions right now, I have been in quite the same situation before.
One, you could just be playing mind tricks. Just RELAX, as hard as that is, because stressing will delay your period more. One of the months I had sex I also didn't use a condom (he pulled out...not a smart move but I'm not up for a lecture) and I was late by 5 days, probably related to stress. So just relax and, if you do turn out to be late, take a pregnancy test. If it's positive, you're gonna have to talk to your mom. If not, be smart next time. =) Any more questions, message me!
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I`m pretty sure you knew what would happend while having sex unprotected. Having him use a condom in the middle of sex will not decrease your chances of you becoming pregnant. But just talk to your mom about it. I`d say have your mom talk to your dad about it because dads can usually be a little more dramatic about this kind of stuff. If you have missed your period then yes take a test, but even if you haven't, still take the test to be sure. If the test is positive, talk to your parents and with the kid's parents too. Then decided if you are going to keep the child or not but it also depends where you live because some states won't let you have a abortion anymore. Good luck.
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Here is a good site to visit. Has symptoms and everything to watch for. Any other questions will be answered here too.
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If you are, then you will have to tell your mom. It is scary but wasn't as bad for me, when I had to do it, as I thought it was going to be.
Get the test first. If its positive and you want to talk more before telling mom feel free to email me. Put advicenators in the subject line. :)
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