My guy friend i'm like in love with or something...idk
Question Posted Saturday March 18 2006, 8:59 am
Ok, well, my friend...RG, I have known him since kindergarden and we're in 7th now. And he's in my 2 longest classes ((We have blocks at our school)) and sometimes we have pe together.Well, everyone thinks i like him. I supposively act like i do...but secretly i do. I don't know why. I just got over him, because i knew he'd never like me but here i go fallin for him again. I don't know what it is that attracts me to him so much. He's tall, ((6'1)) he <u>alwayys</u> smells good, and makes me laugh. He smiles whenever I laugh or laughs at me whenever i giggle because he's tickling my ears. He's gotta girlfriend. I guess he seems to be happy with her. Everytime I see them hug I just want to rip her hair out. Yeah jealousy I know..I guess it's hard for me too move on i just don't know what to do..
Additional info, added Sunday March 19 2006, 12:03 pm: no i haven't told him how i feel, i've done it before and nothin really happened. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Saturday March 18 2006, 9:08 pm: have you tried telling him how you feel? because maybe he thinks thats just how you are; flirty. but he doesnt know thats how you really feel. it seems like he likes you too but has a girl friend so hes not putting himself out there for you. but idk. i just think you should tell him that you like him and see what he has to say about it.
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lovingthesunnx0 answered Saturday March 18 2006, 5:37 pm: ohkay well there are only two options we can think of ... 1. tell him how you really feel and see what happens ... or 2. wait it out until he breaks it off with his girlfriend. if it was meant to be with you two then he will break it off eventually.
xOViLLYxO answered Saturday March 18 2006, 3:52 pm: It's normal to feel a little jealous.You shouldn't just stop everything just because he has a girlfriend.The way I see it is this. Mk well I'm going to be honest..I think he likes you but doesn't want his gf to find out.You two flirt a tons.And you can't just hide it all so you have to call him or talk to him about this.Tell him you like him but don't want to ruin it for him & his girlfriend. You never know what will happen til you take a chance! Good luck with everything ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
Chicagostar113 answered Saturday March 18 2006, 12:03 pm: well... i remember how 7th was. Any way if he does like you try and make him jelous by having your self a boyfriend. If that doesn't work everytime he touches you get kinda annoyed or mad becuase if you just let him have fun with you and tickle you too much you'll fall even harder for him.Still on the boyfriend idea just start hanging out with another guy and become good friends with him (kinda like playin hard to get). No use crying over one lost friend in high school you change friends all the time you can't get worked up about each one. [ Chicagostar113's advice column | Ask Chicagostar113 A Question ]
HectorJr answered Saturday March 18 2006, 11:55 am: Be his friend and be there for him. Just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean you aren't allowed to be his friend and still like him. Does he know that you like him? I think you should tell him, but let him know that you aren't going to try to break him up or hit on him or anything.
I think you should just see him as friend for now, and if you do like him then thats ok, just try not to push things with him or get so mad when he's with his girlfriend - you need to respect him for that. Don't let it get to you but keep looking, as in if you think you might have feelings for some other guy, then don't totally shut down your friend RG. So if you plan on being his friend do so, and try not to let his relationship with the girl interefere or mess up your friendship; relationships might come and go, but friendships are the ones that stay forever. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
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