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i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

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i want a airbrushed shirt but i don't know where to go to get one done...i want to get one over the internet...thanks

Do a Yahoo search for "airbrushed t-shirts" and theres a lot of places you can get one from for like $10. You can get them with your name on them, or pictures, that type thing.

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hi im the one that asked about the cosmogirl magazine.. i have a few questions.. okay well

1. is it going to be only $8 because thats what it said or is there going to be tax
2. and what is the money order?
3. do i give the cash to the bank or send the cash to cosmo girl
4. so if i give the money to the bank for cosmogirl and they give me money order or whatever ..all i have to do is send the money order to cosmo girl right??

please help lol

Ok well, there should be no tax. A money order is basically something like a check. You give the cash to the bank and tell them you need a money order. And yes, all you do is send the money order to cosmogirl! Just wait for the bill to come, but I'm sure you knew that part!

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Hey guys, like you know how what you've searched gets saved on google so if i write in "C A" then "CAT" will appear if Ive searched it before ? Yeah how do you get rid of that so it doesnt save what Ive searched? Is there some way i can make it so that nothing gets saved on other pages too, not only google?


Thaaaank yoouuu!

In the search box, type in "CA" and when cat appears use your DOWN arrow to go down to the word "cat" and when the word is highlighten hit DELETE on your keyboard.

-mayonnaise

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this is totally wierd and random but: okay i just suscribed to the cosmogirl magazine and i said bill me later.. so what does that mean? cause im going to pay in cash and im guessing that when the subscription is over they will send me the bill but how will i send it?? im sorry but im not that brilliant.. can someone help me please? i will rate high

You are going to have to get a money order form the bank, all you do is give them the cash and they give you a money order, then you send it in. The bill should come after you're first couple of magazines!

-mayonnaise

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Well theres this guy....

I'm sure most of you are tired of seeing that, my apologies.

Anyway, I've known him for almost two years now and hes one of those guys who teases me all the time, in a friendly way and I'm starting to fall for him.

It's just that when I'm not around him I want him more but when I'm actually near him I dont want anything to do with him.

Does anyone have an explanation as to why I feel this way? I don't even know if I like him or not.

Thank you very much. =)

Ugh, don't we all just hate when that happens? So anyways, all I can tell you is to just wait a while and see if you're feelings for him grow. My sister was like this over a guy for 3 years, and they are happily married now. So, just wait a couple of months and see if you really do have feelings for him, and tell him to lay of the jokes for a while :/ I'm pretty sure I didn't help much, but I hope I did...

-A.P

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Is it just a myth that you can masturbate too much?
If it isn't, what are the consequences of it?
How much is too much?

I'd appreciate real medical answers instead of just guesses or rumors, but I'll take anything. If it makes a difference, the question is for someone m/21. Websites would be great. Thanks.

Sue Johanson is a sex expert on Oxygen. She answered this question a few weeks ago. Her answer was No, you can not masturbate to much. The consequences are basically none, you're just pleasing yourself. (i hear snickering) And no, there is not to much. Masturbation is actually very good for your health! Sadly, I have no websites, but I'm pretty sure a doctor/sex expert knows what she is talking about.

Hope I helped.
-A.P

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Ok guys...well you see...I think I might be pregnant....I haven't had my period since like Feb. so I'm pretty sure I am..but my problem is..that I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19, and I really actually want this baby, because ya know if I was able to lay down and have unprotected sex..then I am able to take care of my baby...but, I'm just afraid that my mom is going to freak out and call the cops on my boyfriend and he is going to get thrown in jail because of the age difference. I'm so confused and I don't want an abortion and my boyfriend (whom I love) to be in jail...so, if any one has any advice..it is GREATLY appreciated!!!!

Well first I would like to say I can relate, being that I am 13 and my boyfriend is 20. You're age difference is not illegal. Well, in NC it would only be illegal if you were say 12 or 13.

First of, you're mom could not get him thrown in jail. Because you were willing to have sex with him, therefore it is not "Statatory (sp) Rape"

Second, you and your mom should be proud that you are willing to take care of the baby. Because most people would just get an abortion and bam, have sex, get pregnant again, another abortion, ect.

Third, before you talk to your boyfriend or your mom, it would be a good idea to buy a pregnacy test. You can get them at the Dollar Tree or Dollar General, and they work just as good as one from CVS. If its positive, talk to your boyfriend, then you and your boyfriend should talk to your mom.

I have had the same experience. At the time it was a couple months after my 13th birthday. I actually was pregnant, but I lost the baby 4 months into the pregnacy. My only advice to you is to buy a pregnacy test and if its positive, sit your mom down and talk to her about it. I'm sure if you tell her you will take full responsibility (sp) that she will take it just fine, and not flip out.

Hope I helped!

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My teacher hates me. I can't say a word in her classroom, even when everyone else is talking. I don't like here either. She's my lest fave teacher. Is there any way i could make her like me as a student.

I had the same prob with my 8th grade english teacher. I simply just told her I hated her. Which didn't really help. I ended up getting in a fight with a girl in her class. So I am now homeschooled. My advice, is to just go in, and ignore how stupid she is. Focus on something other than her stupid self, such as the hot boy sitting across from you. Worked for me. I doubt this helped, but I hope it did!

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Hey, I know you hate love questions but this is extremely important to me so if you could help.. it would just be highly appreciated =] =]

So, I'm planning a get together with a few of my friends this Thursday. One of my girl friends and one of my guy friends. I also wanted to invite my crush, Calvin, who I've liked since September. We've went out one before(January), and I've liked him since September.He lives up the street from me and I want to invite him, but I'm very shy and I dont know if I should call him or just walk to his house on Thursday. Help please?

Thanks

I am also very shy. I actually had the same prob last night. Except I just wanted to ask one specific person to the movies so I wouldn't go alone. All I did was ask if he would do something for me. He said sure. Then I simply asked if he would go to the movies with me. His reply; sure. So maybe you could do that. But I'm supposedly "funny" so I dunno. But thats my suggestion. Or you could just simply flat out ask him if he would like to go.

Hope I helped.

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i had sex with one of my really close friends last night. we used to hangout alot and hook up once in a while but last night he had a bunch of people over and we just did it. please dont judge me, thanks but im goin to a bonfire tonight that hes like hosting because its near his house and i just want to make sure hes not going to tell alot of people and not make it a big deal.. what should i say when i see him tonight.. should i pull him away from everyone

If I was you, I would just call him on his phone and tell him how you feel about everything. And ask him if he would please not tell anyone, or brag about it.

Hope I helped!

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My priod omes in realy wierd cycles. I will normally always have cramps and nody pains before and durring it and i have major mood swings durring and after it also. its actually gotten to the point where my mom had to buy me herbal pms pills for my mood swings but they dont help that great. I herd that birth controll actually helps ur periode and alot of girls take it to controll their periods but im not sure on if i need them or not. plus most girls that i know of that use it for this reason are like 17 and there bodys are fully developed unlike mine since im not done developing. Is it ok and should i ask my doctor to get some?

You will have irregular cycles for the first couple years of your period. Perfectly normal. I'm 13 and I'm on birth control for my period, but my boyfriend is 20, so I use it for both purposes. But you should really talk to your mom about it, even though its extremly embarresing. I can tell you birth control has stopped a lot of my period pains, and stopped mood swings. Hopefully I helped, since I'm young and am on them.

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ok i am 13 female and i am very mature for my age. i mean mentally and physically. when it comes to actually having sex i dont want to do it but i love to masturbate. i was wondering how do i control my "needs" to masturbate? if i was to get caught i would be in sooooo much trouble. so please help me contain my urges.
thanks in advance. i rate high for good answers.

I have actually seen this answer once before, in a Dear Abby column. In her words, it is completly natural and normal. In mine, all I can tell you is a lot of girls masturbate at 13, but even though that you may think you are ready for sex, you really arn't. Trust me on that, I found myself losing my virginity to a 20 year old (I was 13) But stick to masturbating, and when you find the "right" guy, you will know when to have sex. Trust me on it. Well, I hope I helped!

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