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I have no morals! None! Like you know how you're supposed to stand for all these things - I dont! I really dont see whats wrong with cheating, stealing etc.. well I do, I understand that its wrong, I undertsand it would hurt 10000 people, but still - it kinda doesn't matter to me?! What do I do? Can you GET morals somehow? Cause as it is I'm doing VERYTHING including hacking, stealing, cheating, lying, and stalking to get the guy I want!

Please help?

hmm i guess you could try seeing it from the person you are hurting's point of view.... like what if it was you that was being lied to you or what if you were the one who didn't have money to support your family because someone steals from your store? just put yourself in someone else's shoes & see if that helps.

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I haven't been to church in 5 years which was when I was 9
well I'm agnostic and I'm going to church tomorrow with my boyfriend and Its alright with me I don't mind
but when i was 9 and went to church I wore dresses
Well I'm about about 15 now and I'm not going to wear a dress especially I'm going to be hanging out with my boyfriend all day I don't want to be all dressy
So I was wondering if just jeans and a regular t shirt would be fine but I'm still not sure what should I wear?
thank you

I guess it depends what church it is... some are much more strict than others & you don't want to feel out of place. If you really want to wear jeans, wear nice ones... no holes, rips... darker wash if possible & a nice top with minimal cleavage...t shirts aren't usually acceptable. you could wear 2 layered tanks and then a button-down or polo and then after church take off the top layer so you're casual while you are with your bf. shoes...flats are good but so are "nice" flip flops... not like simple old navy flip flops but maybe something nicer if possible but if not, that should be fine. if you need any more outfits, let me know. i've been to way too many places of worship haha

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I'm going to describe how I dress and I would like you to try to classify me as whatever typical highschool clique you think i sound like.(prep, goth, etc.)

I have several vera bradley purses and I carry them often, I own 2 lacoste polos, but that's all the designer stuff i have. 99% of my clothes are from american eagle, Delia's, A&F, Aero, and Hollister. I also have some emo items from hot topic that I don't really wear that often though. I have really fair skin but I wear black eyeliner and black mascara. Always. I don't always wear jewelry, but a lot of times I'll wear a necklace from AE.


so what do I sound like to you? Oh, and if it helps- I'm always involved in theater. I don't know if that matters though.

I don't like labels either but if i HAD to put you into one.. i might say "prep". butttt you do theater so taht changes things haha. i'm also involved with it and from what i've seen, theater people are more "themselves" than most so i would just say that you are yourself & wear what you like...making you labeless aka the way to be.

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i have a chocolate phone, and i got a chord with it so i can upload music to my playlist on there. but, i lost my that chord that uploads the music on there =[. anyone know if i can get a new one, and where? or something else i could do? thanks.

i think you have to buy the music pack again... another option would be to maybe borrow someone's chord. i think all verizon phones that can have music use the same cord. i think if you buy a mini memory card you could use just that but i'm not sure how that works... sorry.

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Hello, thanks in advance for any advice.

One of my best friends' mother asked me to "babysit" her daughter (my friend's sister), but since she's in 7th grade and i'm in 9th (this fall), it wouldn't really be like babysitting...as much as just hanging out because we're so close in age. Shes coming over here, I think, because her brother will be home (my friend) at their house, and it would be weird. She wants to let her daughter out of the house for awhile, I guess, because she and her brother don't get along too well when theyre home alone together. So she's coming over around 1-2ish until 8.

Aaaaaanyways..............to my question. What are some good things to do with a girl that age? Last time we just played cards and watched TV. but we were at her house - I don't really know how to be a good...."hostess" I guess.

We have a pool, a friendly neighborhood to walk, and my mom might take us with her shopping - but other than that, what is there to do?

Thanks much :>)

you could play in the pool or lay out and get tan or read magazines and talk poolside, go for a walk, do her hair, watch tv, make friendship bracelets, bake something, eat, look through yearbooks, make a craft, go shopping and take pictures of everything you try on. you're pretty close in age so you'll probably like doing anything you want to do. give her options and then just do whatever.

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My grade 8 grad is tommorow and I got a grad date on friday. The prob is I wasnt able to get a boutennier for him since it wouldnt be ready if I ordered on saturday morning. I was wonderring, is there anywhere I can buy an already made one?

A lot of flower shops inside of grocery stores can usually make them quick for you. I usually ordered them the day before i needed them so you should be ok.

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Hey! I was wondering, what are some really cute and flirty perfumes? Also, can you tell me where i can find them. Prices arent an issue, as long as its under $100.

coach, live, curious, heiress, princess, escada

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Do you think it is safe if me and my friend both go to NYC together? We're 15 and we live in NJ but it's kinda close & we can get there by bus.

We've gone to NYC like a lot of times but never by ourselves.. & We know how to get around, but it's like.. do you think we will get kidnapped or something? I haven't really heard of that happening & with so many people why would they take us..? But idk, what's your opinion?

Hmm.. I would say get a group together. maybe more than 2 people & plan your activities. i think your parents would be more comfortable letting you go see a show & it at the mcdonalds on the same street then come home than just oh, we're gonna shop & walk around..know what i'm sayin? just go during the day or maybe have parents come into the city but not follow you/go to the same places as you.

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Ok so my boyfriend is in lots of sports and when ever the team wins his coaches take them out to Hooters. which i kinda have a problem with that cause i dont want my bf looking at other girls like that. and i no that its what guys do but it hurts me ive tried talking to him about it but he still keeps going anyways. What should i do?

don't worry about it... just because he looks at them, doesn't mean he's gonna flirt/get with them. think about it... he could see girls at school that look like them but he's with you, right? you can't stop him from going.. that's just being possesive and if you keep that up, he'll end up leaving you. so really, just chill & don't be hurt by it. it's not a strip club... it's a restaurant with hot waitresses.

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ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for a year on thursday (next week) and this is what we're going to do, but i wanted to know if it seems weird or anything...

we were gonna go out to dinner at our fave restaurant (don pablos) and go see a movie and get each gifts and stuff... but instead, we both just got back from a cruise, so time is dwindling down to go shopping, so we decided to do this: there's this place like 20 minutes from my house called 'the promenade shops at saucon valley' they have lots of stores, a red robins and some other smaller places to eat, and a movie theater. it's like an outdoor mall and is really cool. we were gonna go there and go to red robins, and catch a movie. but before eating and the movie, we were gonna go shopping for each other but together... like pick stuff out for each other, but together. for a few reasons, one cause we'll both be there so we'll be sure we like it, two cause it's alot easier, and its just more convienant. now is that weird or strange? i think it's okay but i just want some opinions =) THANKS ♥

by the way we're both 16 and he has his liscense but no car... but he can probably get one to use for the date lol

that's not weird at all! that actually sounds fun and it takes the stress off! it's better than guessing or buying each other something lame.

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what are some modern bands that are like similar to 60's/70's hippie music?

thanksss =]

I love hippie music... honestly, I don't think there are any bands today that really live up to those bands. the closest i can think of off the top of my head would be Jet... sounds like the beatles...sort of.

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i dont know if i can ask a question like this. its kind of important-ish..

while in school, how do you guys use the bathroom if youre doing number 2? and if it might get noisy and there are people in there, especially for girls the ones who loiter and stare at themselves in the mirror and apply their makeup?

is there a solution to this?

do that before & after school whenever possible so you don't have to at school.
if you absolutely have to, go in a bathroom that's usually not busy (like by the theater, gym..).

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are oberlin and miami good colleges?

Miami, Ohio? yes. I think Oberlin is too.

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I never drank before yesterday but my friend had a bottle of gordans london dry gin and i took i big mouthful and swallowed it at once. I felt really sick and was about to throw up. It tasted like wood and my throat was all tensed up. I looked on the back of the bottle and it said 40% vol something. Am I allergic to alcohol or is gordans gin just strong? I did not throw up in the end. 13/m

It's hard liquor... it was just a bad idea to take a whole mouthful in at once. It's cheap too so it's not a great feeling...you're not allergic, you're just inexperienced. you're 13, don't start getting into that stuff yet.

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what are some songs about summer that ARENT rap or R&B?

Most Kenny Chesney songs are about beaches & summer... like "Summertime".
Pink floyd - "school's out for summer"
Mungo Jerry - "in the summertime"
The ataris - "boys of summer"

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Recently my feet has been very sweaty like water since im so nervous about ym grad tommorrow and my heels are higher then 3 and a half inches.

I jsut learned how to walk in them and im so scared i'll fall down the stairs or something since i fell down once during rehersal

what can i do?

You could try putting clear package tape in them if it helps you... like put the sticky side down but maybe the plastic will make your feet stick more. try it and see if it works. if it doesn't, you could wear hose?

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Whenever I go out in public.. I kiss my boyfriend, like a few pecks and hug him. People always tell us to get a room..
but it's only a kiss!

Why are they saying that? It's making us look bad around everyone else. It's not like we are having sex right in front of them or anything sexual like that.

Has this happened to anyone else?

People just say that to be funny... not to point out that you are being inappropriate. Yes, it happens to almost everyone... my boyfriend said it to a couple next to us at a dance when they were doing it and called them our "roomies" the whole rest of the night.

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what's a good straightener that works really well? ****PLEASE**** do not say *CHI*, *SOLIA*, OR ANY STRAIGHTENER OVER $45. sorry if i'm sounding overly-dramatic, but i really have like no money and i need a straightener badly and never in my life will i spend more than 45 or 50 bucks, (not even 50) on a straightener. thanks so much!

I use the remmington "wet2straight" & it works like a dream on my hair. it was $23 at target.

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I know that leggings and short denim skirts have been a trend and probably are still a trend for some people. I wear leggings whenever I wear a short skirt because they're just more comfortable. I don't have to worry about my skirt lifting up when I wear leggings. But... is this look still in style? I saw a whole bunch of people wearing it at my school and this year at my school, but ever since my friend said it looked tacky I've been noticing less people wearing it these days. I still wear it. I just don't want to look like an unfashionable weirdo. Is this look still "in" at your school? Tell me what you think.

Right now, it's not "in" at my school but it might come back in the fall to keep warm. it's summer so not many people wear them. if you lke them tho, go ahead and wear them.

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okay, has anyone on this site been accepted to the book of who's who among american students? I have, and I just wanted to know how much impact it has over scholarships, if you know? Also, do you think that it'll affect me if i don't take AP (college) classes my junior year, but take it my senior year? Does anyone know any scholarship sites? and when should i start applying?

That's definatly a scam... no impact whatsoever.
I think as long as you take AP classes sometime, you should be fine.

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