as crazy as this may sound i am a columnist here and i have seemed to top myself with this question it is about myself when i was in secong grade it was this boy i really liked and we would flirt but nonthing more and went like this until 4th grade then we went to diffrent school earlier this year i went to a diffrent school but had to move and he was there and we went back to flirting and everthing else and sonner or later he asked me out and i said no because i did not know if he was playin or not even thought he seemed serious and i did not want to look dumb now that i am at another school i miss him really bad and i feel like it is my fault that we are not together what should i do?
Well is there a way you can talk to him...?? if so maybe talk to him.. and tell him how you feel.. i think you should of said yes weather he was playin or not.. then if he said he was playin all you had to say was you was too.. so try and talk to this guy..Much Luv ~*DEZ*~
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Please help me. Theres this girl at school that i like. I asked her out about 3 or 4 monthes ago and she sayd "i dont want to ruin our frendship by going out so for now thats a no" should i ask her out again? does she even like me? wat should i do? PLEASE HELP ME
Sounds like this girl might like you but not in the way you want her to.. sounds like she only likes you as friends.. i mean not to hurt your feelings but thats an easy way for her to say she's not interested in you more then friends.. maybe you should try to ask another girl out..MuchLuv Dez
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i've been living with my best friend for about a month (on and off), my parents are getting a divorce and they've been fighting a lot so we desided that i should stay with my best friend. (we've been friends for 4 years), lately me and her have been fighting a lot, but over nothing. i dont' what to do cause i don't wanna go home but i dont' know if i should stay at her house... i'm a 15 year old female... please help...
- friend in need.
Mayeb you could stay with a family member for a while.. my best friend lived with me for 6 months and we had fights.. actually i couldnt wait for her to go home after that while.. but sometimes during that period she stayed with her unc.. maybe you could do something like that.. or maybe go away for the day to spend time with other friends to just get away for a little while.. or go visit your parents for a while you don't have to stay there all day just to visit.. ~*DEZ*~
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ok well i've been hearing from friends that my bf is goin all out for valentines day. like were goin out to eat and then movies and then he has something for me. and im nervous bout the whole thing. cuz i don't know exactly what were doing yet. i mean should i be nervous? its the first like real date we will be going on. cuz we usually just came over to each others houses. so should i just get over it or should i be nervous?
There's nothing wrong with being nervous.. and even if you try to get over it your going to be nervous anyways.. you cant help that..Just be excited or something also.. much luv ~*DEZ*~
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ok im haveing a serouis problem i really like this guy but he has a gf and we went out once but then he dumped me and i miss him im supposed to see him tonight but with his gf and im serouisly clueless urs truley clueless
Well he wants to be your friend maybe except that.. you guys might have something later on but right now no need to be clueless he's hangin with you as friends not to get his holla on..~*DEZ*~
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I shave down there and when I do it, it always bleeds!! And then when I get out of the shower it looks really gross because it has a lot of red dots and all! I use a sharp razor...I try and go slow...and I use either conditioner or shaving cream to shave with!! Does anyone know how to prevent this from bleeding or getting ingrown hairs?? Thanks!!
DOnt shave for a couple days and dont shave going upwards..shave going down.. and continue shaving with conditionor it works good or shaving cream.. maybe you shouldnt use a really sharp razor..and wait a couple days so where it was bleeding at will heal and let it grow out a little bit then shave it..~*DEZ*~
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a guyy and i were really good friends and he said he was gonna ask me out and stuff and then he asked out some other girl!!! now he tells all my friends he likes me a lot and when i asked him if this was true he said yes and then said he is just going out with her to see if he really like me so i dont have to waste my time.... should i just give up even though i like him a lot?
Well tell this guy to stop playin games cause thats wasting your time.. tell him you dont have time to be waiting up to see if he really likes you.. ~*DEZ*~
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Hey yall im in need of help. I cant explain how i feel fo my friend riana. but i cant stand when people talk bad bout her.plz help and tell me whats goin on i think im in love. but i dont know if she likes me.what should i do.
Talk to this girl.. maybe try to tell her how you feel.. you probably do care for her.. and love her.. jus let her know.. but dont jus come out and say you love her.. tell her that you have feelings for her more then friends..~*DEZ*~
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I like this guy. We flirt a lot, but he really likes someone else. Some people said he likes me, but i know its not true because of how much he likes this other girl. i know its not a cover up because, you can easily tell how much he really does like her. anyway, we have these dances on friday nights like once or twice a month. There's one tommorow (feb 4) and me, him, and the girl he likes will all be there. He's already saving a dance for her. She said she doesnt like him enough to want to go out with him, plus she wants to be single. She dumped her boyfriend a few weeks ago even though she still loves him just so she could be single. Im really not sure what to do, i was going to ask him to dance tommorow, but if hes gonna be dancing with her, than i dance with me would mean nothing since im obviously no match for her. what should i do? should i just forget about him and move on?
No get you a dance with him anyways.. forget she probably missing out on a good guy.. jus get your game on when you go to this dance and dance with him.. it can be like a friendly dance..~*DEZ*~
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OK guys please answer this.. girls u can help too...
for v-tines day i think im getting my bf...
sliky boxers... cologne... and maybe like a movie gift certificate?
is that totally stupid???
if so tell me... and also can you guys give me some ideas on somthing to get him!!
thanx in advance!!!!!!!!!
**Sammie**
That sounds good for a guy..better then what im getting my boyfriend for valentines day.. but that sounds good.. he'll like..~*DEZ*~
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heyy, omg i am really gud frends with my frend...and well she has everything i have ever wanted..like shes so hot, has no pimples, darklong thinck eyelashes...and well nice hair...all the guys i like fall 4 her, she says she likes them after i do FIRST! then wen they ask her out, she says NO!! and i have told her 2 stop flirting with my crush but she does it even more...how do i stop the crazyness?!!
Well just dont tell her bout who you like.. keep it to yourself and try not to hate or be jealous of your friend im sure your beautiful in your own way and beauty isnt always on the outside its inside too,, ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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I have intense hair flaking. The skin on my scalp is coming off and causing dandriff. Its really gross and a few people asked me if I had lice and I said no its just hairspray but the fact is I dont even use hairspray.. This is really gross and Im constantly worrying about it so I dont know what I should do..
Go see a doctor about this.. they probably can suggest a good shampoo or give you some kinda medication for your scalp.. ~*DEZ*~ THUGGIRL041790
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okay i have HORRIBLE mensrtual cramps and i got my period just last night and i ended up going to the emergancy room because of the pain, i threw up and everything. i got home and i felt better and i took a nap but i woke up in pain again ive already takin every medicine that i can...please help :( how do i get rid of the EXCRUSIATING cramps?!?!?
I get really bad cramps too and get really abd back pains and couple times people thought i was having a miscarriage but i have to take four ibprophen or 800mgs for the pain and i do okay for a lil while but my doctor suggested that to me.. just so you dont think im some kinda drug addict.. but maybe go see your family doctor bout this hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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I love to go out with my friends all the time, we go to dances, out to the mall, and stuff like that but latley my mom has been asking me to take my sister with me. ITs kind of anoying because when i go out with my friends im with a whole group of guys and girls, and i dont always want my sister near me. I mean i love her to death but im sick of my mom asking me if she can come. What do i do?
(14/f)
Tell her how it is.. just make sure your not rude or mean about it.. jus talk to her about it and how you want to go out with your friends with out her.. tell every now and then wouldbe okay but not all the time.. get your lil sister to make friends her own age and go out with them.. ~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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A dark bruise has appeared on my left breast. i didnt hit it or anything, it just appeared. it started off bluish and now the background is yellowish.Im extremely worried and dont know what to do.what could it be?
well your brest could be tender or something or maybe they bruise easily.. i wouldnt like really worry about it cause you probably did something to it and didnt realize it cause i have it happen.. but itf it like happens really often and you know your not doing anything to cause it i would go to the doctor but for right not dont worry.. its probably no big deal right now hun..~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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i've been having a really tough time with gettig over my ex boyfriend because he was everything to me- but i Need to move on- no question about it. SO theres this new guy and i like him and he likes me a lot too. But somtimes he's shy and i want him to like open up. The reason for this is because he's never had like a realy gf! which is different, but its not like he's a geek or anything, he could've gotten plenty of girls but he's never really liked a girl that much.. he's kinda picky i guess. So should i go and try this guy out? cuz he's so fun to be around.. maybe it will make me stop thinking about my ex. What about this shy thing tho? Help please =D thanks so much- i'll rate
Well yes you should give this guy a try.. and the shy thing will eventuallty go away he hasnt had a girl really so he's going to be like that.. jus talk to him and like make him open up play round with him and stuff you know flirt so he will feel more comfortable around you.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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okay for you older high school students...i`m a freshman in H.S. and i was wondering do you think when you do your eyeshadow you should just find one really good color like a certain shade of bronze that looks really good, or should you wear eyeshadow that matches your clothes?
well dont just choose one eyeshadow cause it will get old.. but dont match eyeshadow with your clothing cause it wont always look good with your eyes.. but a bronze color looks okay with most things but if you wear bright colors likeyellow or green it isnt going to look right.. i'd wear like a light white eyeshadow with something like that.. and i wouldnt jus wear eyeshadow i would also wear eyeliner so it stands out more.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?
Signed
Should I give up?
Well never give up on something.. and dont listen to something someones says.. follow your heart.. not what somebody says hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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im 13/f my bestfriend is 13/m and i like him so much!! he knows i like him but he wont ask me out! no one will ask me out because im "uglY" but the guys ive been out with say im beautiful but i dont think so anymore. my self esteem went down, i use to think i was so pretty but the guy i like dosnt like me! but i look alot older than what i am so i get all the older guys but i dont want older guys because they want more from me! how do i get him 2 like me? i know thats a stupid question but ive known him 4ever and ive liked him forever and he use 2 like me 2
please help
thanks
Maybe he has known you too long to like you like that.. he might not look at you the same way you look at him.. you cant exactly make somebody to like you either.. it has to come naturally.. not by you looking like something doing or saying something sweetie.. if nothing happens more then friends then enjoy your friend you have with him and maybe something will happen later..hope i helped ~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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i liked this guy and all of my friends knew about it. i was talking to my friend one day and she said that he had a girlfriend and today i was asking my friend who she liked and she said that she was going out with the guy that i like. i'm really mad but i dont know if i should tell her.
Well dont tell her your mad about it.. you might want to talk to her about it tho.. i mean she didnt know that you liked him.. but if you talk to her then maybe you wont be so mad bout it.. and its just a guy sweetie dont be trippin over him.. but dont get all childish over this guy.. he most likely isnt worth it.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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