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Please Help Me
Please help me. Theres this girl at school that i like. I asked her out about 3 or 4 monthes ago and she sayd "i dont want to ruin our frendship by going out so for now thats a no" should i ask her out again? does she even like me? wat should i do? PLEASE HELP ME
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well ask one of her bff and see if she still likes you or if he has moved on
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Ha.. you crack me up. But usually when people say "I don't want to ruin our friendship," then mean, "I don't think of you as a boyfriend." Since she said, "So for NOW that's a no," then that means, "I don't think of you as a boyfriend, but who knows.. one day she suddenly may be like, "HE'S THE ONE!" Wait for her to speak up. But in the meanwhile, you should do a little flirting, but don't make her uncomfortable.
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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Well, depending a lot on the situation, it's not always a good idea to keep asking someone out. But it's been a while so I think it would be okay to do so. But still, I'd suggest first asking if she liked you because when you ask someone out again when they've said no before, sometimes they can feel as though you aren't listening to them. So, just ask if she likes you now and instead of asking her out, ask her if she'd like to try going out sometime or try a relationship. That might work out better. But ask her if she likes you first.
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Sounds like this girl might like you but not in the way you want her to.. sounds like she only likes you as friends.. i mean not to hurt your feelings but thats an easy way for her to say she's not interested in you more then friends.. maybe you should try to ask another girl out..MuchLuv Dez
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When you asked her out 3-4 months ago, she told you that she doesn't want to ruin your friendship be starting a relationship. But she did say that "now that's a no" so that means there could be a possibility of going out with her. I wouldn't ask her out again because like I said before, she doesn't want to ruin the friendship between you two. She may like you but then again, she may not. Try talking to her and ask her if she would ever go out with you or would like you some day. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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She likes you as a friend and I wouldn't ask her out unless you really want to because she obviously feels like if ya'll go out then ya'lls friendship will be ruined.
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