ok well i've been hearing from friends that my bf is goin all out for valentines day. like were goin out to eat and then movies and then he has something for me. and im nervous bout the whole thing. cuz i don't know exactly what were doing yet. i mean should i be nervous? its the first like real date we will be going on. cuz we usually just came over to each others houses. so should i just get over it or should i be nervous?
Karen answered Friday February 4 2005, 10:09 pm: It's normal to be nervous about these kind of things but try not to be because if your boyfriend finds out that you kind of know about his plan, wouldn't that ruin the excitement of it? You need to be surprised on Valentine's Day, when he brings you on this date. Try to think that your friends were just lying, even though they weren't, so you won't be nervous. Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Friday February 4 2005, 8:13 pm: no dont be nervous, and dont think of things that your bf will do for you, trust me, if you hear hes going all out for vday, you want to be really suprised and really happy dont ya?! you shoulnd't be nervous at all! xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday February 4 2005, 8:00 pm: There's nothing wrong with being nervous.. and even if you try to get over it your going to be nervous anyways.. you cant help that..Just be excited or something also.. much luv ~*DEZ*~ [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
TiCkLeD_pInK540 answered Friday February 4 2005, 7:07 pm: don't worry. it's pretty normal to be nervous when you know your going to be with someone you like, even if it's all out or not. i think that's really sweet of him to do that for you. so if he's planned it out, things will be easier for you so you won't have to be so nerous on the date. you have every right to feel nervous, but if you want to seem more calm, just make sure you've prepaired yourself. plan your outfit ahead of time and get advice from your friends on what they think about it. then just make sure to bring breath mints with you (since your gunna eat, then sit next to each other at the movies.)i think though that once the date gets going you'll feel more relaxed and can mellow out during the date. just be open and feel confident in yourself, you can do this! I hope it all goes well! let me know if i've been as helpful as possible!
Cath answered Friday February 4 2005, 6:20 pm: Hi Sweetie,
Should you be nervous? It doesn't matter because if you ARE nervous you will be nervous even if I tell you not to be. Well its okay to be nervous... it just depends what you do about it. If you feel so nervous that you wanrt to puke and stuff well then you may want him to hint at what surprise he has... but if you just feel nervous because you don't know what to expect, but you can handle it pretty well, then you're OK.
Take good care! Hope everything works out! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
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