well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??
Yes she should of asked you by now apparently she dont care.. but um maybe you can get a job and buy em yourself your 16 and old enough too.. but why should you care if she laughs i mean she a very immature mother if she does that in the first place just tell like you need something wow if she laughs no big deal if she tells people its also no big deal cause who cares.. jus let her no and ignore her..much luv dez
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both of my ears only have one pericing, and i want to make alot of other peircings myself but im a little scared and i kinda, dont know how to do it. i want to do my cartiladge on the top and another hole by my first hole on the lobe. but i want to get an industrial (its like a bar that stars at your cartilage and ends somewhere on the bottom somewhere, im getting that professionay done if i have the guts) so i dont know if thats going to interfere with my peircings. i wanna do it myself but im not sure what teh steps are. does anyone know how/have experience? or are there any sites with pictures and explanations for me (someone who is realy slow). ive never done anything like this before and any info would be great! thanks!
well i pierced my ears myself..um my first step was to get a marker and mark where i wanted the hole at and made em even so it would look right.. anyways after that take ice and numb your ear.. now when you pierce it ima be truthful to ya you will probably still most likely feel it butit wont hurt promise.. anyways make sure you pierce it where you put the mark at... also if you dont wanna do that you can get a kit like at walmart and it some with like a little gun thing and ear rings and you can do it your self..much luv dez
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What do people think of a guy getting there ears pierced? IM not talking the lobe im talking the cartilage
on black guys i think it looks fruity and stupid on some white guys it jus looks better..much luv dez
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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well um hand jobs theres nothing much to it.. like really if your doing something wrong your dude will help ya out trust me my baby did..um anyways about givin head well im not real sure bout it.. cause ie never done it..um when he eats out no its not going to be weird.. you might think so at first but once he gets into it you'll be alright and you'll enjoy.. hope i helped much luv dez
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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!
play music that always is kinda fun..much luv dez
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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks
i guess it can be possible... you can love and have feelings for somebody no matter what the distance is..much luv..dez
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Everyone sayd first loves never die well i believe that.. I met my first love when i was 12 and i haven't forgot about him since im 17 now ! Everytime i date a different guy all i think about is him.. When i was 15 we started dating again.. But his parents made us break up because he was too old for me or so they said..Anywayz now i haven't seen him since and i can't stop thinking about him ! What should i do because i don't have his # or address??
Maybe try to look him up.. by his name and what ever other information you have on him.. also um maybe if you know somebody from back in the day you can try and talk to and see if they know anything..much love dez
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okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
signed,
confused
Well if you dont want to be with him.. then just stay single.. you might miss him a lil bit but you'll probably get over it.. he sounds like he likes a lil bit of drama in your relationship so thats probably why he did that.. you can do better then that and you dont need a lil boy thats going to play games.. and not be truth ful to you and talk bout whats on his mind
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so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost
Maybe you should try both.. im sure your former step mom dont hate you she probably jus was really mad or something..jus call her and see how she's doin or something.. and your real mom do the same.. i mean i know you dont wanna fuck up as a mom and i know where your coming from with that cause my dad is a fuck up.. but jus call your mom and anyways and see how things are going and talk bout something that you know about her.. but if something goes wrong with talkin to either of em then i wouldnt try anymore and maybe you could try makin an older friend that could be kinda like a mother figure like a neighbor.. or even somebody in your family like an aunt or something.. hope i helped and best of luck to you..much luv dez
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My friend just got this new girlfriend... and Im sooo happy for him and everything... but im just afraid that he is gonna leave me and stuff for her. I just want to be reassured that he wont leave me... he says that he wont.. but you know how people say one thing and do another. What should I do?
**Inneedofhelp**
Well sometimes he's going to wanna spend time with his girl alone you know..? with out you around.. but sometimes you around should be okay.. but i wouldn't be like annoying or something when your around him..much luv dez
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ok soo my face is fine in the mornign wheni get ready for schhool, but then by the end of school my face is soooooo oily, what can i do, besides pound more powder on, cuz i hate to wear a lot of make up, its jsut really shiny, and gross.. but yeah like i i ahte wearing tons of make up, i jsut wear anough to loook natural, and nothing works i've tryed translusent powder,a dn all taht and i do clay masks liek evry three days, what do yuo suggest?
Go buy a oil free acne wash for your face.. i use this velocity stuff from mary kay it works real good and i also hardly ever have acne and my face is never oily.. much luv dez
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me!
Well i cant really tell you exactly if you love him or like him or whatever.. cause you should know this.. if you liked him or loved him you wouldnt be confused on your feelings for him..Much luv dez
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ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together?
Some i guess are in their mid teens like 15-17 but im not real sure cause like you said its when thier ready.. much luv dez
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I always have to be perfect in every single way. That's just the way I am. Well, now that i'm getting older i feel very uncomfortable wiht my body. I weigh 97 pounds and i am 5'3". I'm worried my thighs are to jiggely and my butt as well. I'm also very uncomfortable wiht my bra size, i'm the 32 AA,=, and i hardly fit in that. Well, yesterday i was making a list about all the things i liked about my body and hate about my body. The only thing i liked was my eye color, and i have evrything else. Please help me!! What are some excersizes that i can get my whole bpdy toned up AND HOW CAN I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH MYSELF!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Um sounds like you might be under weight.. but go to a gym and work out or something..run and work your stomach out.. um you should like your body the way it is..much luv dez
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Well, I'm a 14/f, and I really don't know how to describe this, but I'll give it a try. Randomly I would get these pains right under my right breast near the ribs, and i would get a pain on the are right above my left breast, on the chest, not actually on the breast area. I was just wodnering if anyone might know if this is something to worry about. I know it's not cramps, but I'm not too sure what it might be. If you can help, please do so. Thank you.
your breast could be growing.. but go to the docter to find out.. cause im not sure im not an expert but i really would find out before it could get worse or something hun..much luv dez
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ok ive been "going out" with this guy "Adam" for about 3 years now, and i am truelly in love with this kid. You wouldnt believe. He has told me that he loves my, and all that jazz, but the outher day, he told me he waas falling for another girl. Not as hard as he fell for me. he was all like " i just thought you should know, and i still love you more than anything, and i still wanna hang out, because you are the only girl i have fun with" My question is, should i really be woried, and another thing is i dont know how to talk to him about it. I rate high!
Well i know i would be worried if my baby told me that.. so i guess you should be worried.. i mean he sounds like a good guy from what you said and that he does love you but i would tell him like how you feel about it.. and i would ask him if he thinks he would hook up with this female.. or think that his feelings might become strong for her.. you should find this out so you know if you should worry.. you also wanna look out for yourself so you wont get hurt..Much luv dez
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How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it?
Just tell him like it is.. you can always break up with somebody with out bein mean its not too hard.. jus watch your tone of voice and everything should go okay..much luv dez
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alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
please help!!
um kid your kinda weird.. but um no your not pregnant.. much luv dez
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Okay, there's this guy I like named Brandon. There's also my best friend Alyssa who loves but always says that me and him should go out. She's even wrote him a letter (w/ out me knowing) saying the we should go together. But he didn't answer. She made me before admit to liking him (but I really didn't but I only said it to make her happy) but then I had told her that I didn't. Now, she likes someone else, and me and Brandon has had some tutor time.... so I am now attracted to him more than ever. I jux dunno what to do cause she likes him. She told me that she thinks he likes me and that she totally fine with saying that. But I don't if he really does like me and, if he does, what should I do???
you should go with him.. if you like him and she doesnt care then go with him.. she apparently dont want him or she wouldnt be tryin to hook you and him up.. if she wanted him bad enough she'd be gettin her holla on and not tryin to help you out..much luv dez
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when someone calls you on your cell phone and it says "ID restricted" is there any way to find out who it is? cause sometimes i get prank calls. Like if you called the operator would they tell you.
they might be able to tell you.. call and see.. but um maybe when this happens and your cell says that then maybe not answer it.. cause it childish to waste your time on it..Much luv dez
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