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i love everyone i dispise Racism and shallowness i love people for who they are not how they look, BUT since september i joined a 6th form at my school (i went back for further education) and in that time i fallen out bad time wth one of freinds (she stole my new 70 quid hoody and was freekin freezin that day) but yeh any way i try to be unlike other men by trying to actually be freinds with some one before i ask them out (ime 16 btw) but i am in a 6th form art and photography group with 9 othr girls they hardly take notice of me although of the things i do for them like i am good with electronics so i plug in and charge all the cameras fix computer errors with the camera's and only one person in that whole group noticed because she nominated me for helpfullness award (i was well happy ^_^) but the rest of them seem to not give a one ton tin of shit about me or anything i spend loadsa time with all of them but i dont get noticed. but thats not quite what bugging me, i dont want to become bitter like my dad he doesnt trust any one he has a bad temper and to tell you the truth i tihnk this is how he was when he was a kid he never talks about when he was a kid and now hees grumpy ooverweight and mad all the time :( i really dont want to be like him i want to be known as the guy who helps is happy the guy you can talk to i keep a bunch of secrets about loadsa peopel i know i havent toldany one but i cant tell them anything because they will tell theyre best freinds who will tell other people so i keep everythin bottled up most of the time and thats not healthy... ime dragging this on sorry but its all coming out. please help thanks a ton in advance (link)
Write it all down on paper, draw, paint, sing, anything to get a release. Bottling all of that inside is probably messing with your emotions so sometimes you can be sensitive and other times totally grouchy and uptight. It's really good that you don't want to follow your father's footsteps, but it's okay to not always be the nicest person. Everyone has their grumpy days, but you just have to go with the flow. Talk to someone about it. It's better to get these things out, and to tell you the truth, I'm the same way. It's a hard habit to break, but try your damndest. You seem like a nice guy, so don't let other people get you down. Just make sure your not holding everything inside of you, it can get the best of you.
Hope I helped


my friend and i like the same guy...and i told him how i felt and she didnt and he didnt go for me...no big deal...but then she was talking to him on msn and he said what would you do if i asked you out??? and i would be proud and happy for her but i cant tell if i still like him, i thought i was over him but when i found out that she liked him i just felt something come over me like hey you still like him...but i cant tell if im just jealous or not...i dont care if he likes her and they date i just want him to be happy with what he gets..apparently me n him wasnt meant for each other, but how can i tell if i still like him or if it is just me feeling like my territory is invaded because i stated my feelings buit he didnt go for me, and she dont do nothing and she might get him?? (link)
It seems like you just want what you probably can't have, but if you like him and your not jealous try thinking about how he makes you feel. When your around him do you get weak in the knees? Do butterflies invade your stomach? Are you constantly at a loss for words and stuttering uncontrollably? Do you feel that you have to look nice for him and blush when he sheds his attention onto you? When you daydream, does your mind automatically wander to him? When a love song is played on the radio, does it remind you of him?
A little advice though, if he isn't "into you" in the way you may or may not be intrested in him, why wait around for him? Go for the other guys who are available and sweet. Don't get hung up on one boy, if he likes your friend, just look the other way, be happy, and move on. Hope I helped and that all works out for you in your favor!


my friend and i like the same guy...and i told him how i felt and she didnt and he didnt go for me...no big deal...but then she was talking to him on msn and he said what would you do if i asked you out??? and i would be proud and happy for her but i cant tell if i still like him, i thought i was over him but when i found out that she liked him i just felt something come over me like hey you still like him...but i cant tell if im just jealous or not...i dont care if he likes her and they date i just want him to be happy with what he gets..apparently me n him wasnt meant for each other, but how can i tell if i still like him or if it is just me feeling like my territory is invaded because i stated my feelings buit he didnt go for me, and she dont do nothing and she might get him?? (link)
this happend to me too but not with my friend it was with my SISTER and the guy asked her out instead of me i just figured that i should be happy for her i was still really sad that i didnt get the guy but the next best person in my book did so what i did was sit on my bed thinking about what happend and then i realized that i didnt even like him so maybe you should just think about what happend you might end up like me i hope that you guys work it out good luck merry christmas


my hamster had 7 babys she couldnt even fit through the tubes. i thought they were only suposed to have 3 or 4? the dad hamster shredded up the first baby. ther is a ball on the top of the cage and she had them all in there but its gross theres nothing in therre excep blood poop and the hamsters it stinks so bad and it happend today. what else do i do for the babys? all the babys and mom are laying in the ball and it stinks so bad do i clean it or not if so how?!? they are teddybear hamsters. my mom says their fine but i dont think so. any advice on anything for the lil babys. i have the dad ina tote no top but he can reach most of the way up i dont want him to get out and it was the largest tote. help on anything PLEASEE (link)
woa...i am not an expert, but i dont think its right for the dad to rip up the babies! try to keep him away, make sure the mother has food to eat and dont go near the babies while the mother is around, she might bite. also, try to put the food close to the mom (not right next to her) because she will mostlikely not go away from them. you can also call an animal store like pet goods.

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Gerbils-Hamsters-2005/teddy-bear-hamster-babies-6.htm

there is some good info on that site! best of luck, and CONGRADULATIONS!!!! you are an aunt now! :-) enjoy it!


my hamster had 7 babys she couldnt even fit through the tubes. i thought they were only suposed to have 3 or 4? the dad hamster shredded up the first baby. ther is a ball on the top of the cage and she had them all in there but its gross theres nothing in therre excep blood poop and the hamsters it stinks so bad and it happend today. what else do i do for the babys? all the babys and mom are laying in the ball and it stinks so bad do i clean it or not if so how?!? they are teddybear hamsters. my mom says their fine but i dont think so. any advice on anything for the lil babys. i have the dad ina tote no top but he can reach most of the way up i dont want him to get out and it was the largest tote. help on anything PLEASEE (link)
well the only thing i can think of is get maybe 1 or 2 more cages sorry good luck and merry christmas


im not sure this is really an injury.....

i was wondering if there is anything to get rid of acne scaring besides covering it up with make up. and if there is where can you get it? (link)
well sorry but the only thing i know that works is have surgery my friend had it but what is wrong with covering it up with make up its fine sorry i couldnt give you much info good luck and merry christmas


f/15

Christmas is RIGHT around the corner and i have NO clue what to get my boyfriend. almost everything i, or my friends, can think of, doesnt work because a) he wont use it b) its impersonal or c) its not "him". i think he'd be happy if i got him something gay, but i want it to have sentimental value, you know?


also,
-we've been dating for almost a year now.
-plays lacrosse and football
-hes a little bit of a partyer
-kinda preppy but not mega preppy
-tough
-doesnt like to shop much

so thats that. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
and i have to have it by christmas, cause im eating christmas dinner at his house. :/



thank you for any help! (link)
well i got this kit where you can make your own colown and im making some for him i found it at tuesday morning good luck and have a very merry christmas


Me and my bff have been friends for four years now and we also have a bff who weve known for three years. Well two of those years were fine but Bff 1's other bestfriends started picking on me and threatening to beat me up. When i told her she ignored me and said i probally deserved it but when i talked about them she got super pissed off and stopped talking to me for days. Then we graduated middle school and my bff 2 got put into foster care and then it got super worse with bff 1. She would invite our other bff over for a huge slumber party and not me even though our friend lives three hours away and i barely get to see her as it is. Then my friend started getting mean and rude, usually she was so picked on in middle school i thought she was gaining confidence in her new school that i don't go to. But she suddenly became bff's with three guys who used to beat our other best friend up and so when we all got to go to the mall two months ago and they were there she quickly ran over to hug and kiss them even though my other best friend was so hurt that she forgot what they did to her. Then i got into drama and our other friend did too and they came to one of my plays and then bff 1 said she couldn't make mine but she always goes out of her way to go to our other best friends and after learning about a play, the wizard of oz which is our other best friends fav, she took her without asking me to come. Then bff 1 said shed come to my new play and would be taking our other bff so i was so excited. But then two hours before show time i got a call from a tearful bff2 saying she couldn't go because bff 1 wanted to go shoping with her other bff's and wouldn't pick her up. Then the next day she promised to come and bring bff2 but found out her bf was doing a play and went to that instead. I was so pissed i quit gs and emailed her about all the crap she gave me and she said it was because bff2, blaming it on her and told me that bff 2 was lieiung about getting beaten up because her bff's wouldn't do that. AAnd then i ended up apologizing and she said we'd hang out over vacation. but now i don't know if i want to be her friend anymore after the way she treated me and my bff. What should i do? (link)
Wow that was confusing, but I think I understand. What I say is forget her. Just move on and find friends who will be there for you whenever, forever. She did a lot of crap to you, and pretty much ditched you more than once. Sounds like you need to find some other friends. I know how hard this must be to try to seperate yourself from a friend of 4 years [Trust me, I know] but you don't deserve that. I wouldn't suggest hanging out with her, she obviously needs to learn how to treat her true friends(you) more nicely, and until that happens, let her go. You guys probably had some good times, but not all things last, and I believe that everything happens for a reason, so get away from all of that drama.
Good luck, hope it all works out and that I helped!


How do you make a preffered list on myspace for your blog? (link)
oh just look carfally it has a little button for it its pretty easy to see good luck and merry christmas


ok to cut the chase and get straight to it, i hate my dad, i allways have and just when i think hees changed he hasnt and that wont ever change with the way he is, Ssooo does any one know a good way to calm myself down after he has peed me off so badly because breathin excersises just aint workin any more.


it all started a few days ago when my dad bought a newish laptop and installed all this stuff on it, we had a couple of arguments then because i KNOW what im doing i installed like 4 different wireless internets before, but today just got to me so badly, he came in said were installing some anti virus thing because my brother (who has downs sindrome a mental disablity) has been downloading stuff that can give me spy ware and viruses, all i said was "yeh but..." and instantly my dad starts his roar on humanity about how hees TELLING me its going on there, he doesnt spend ANy time at all on this computer i know where to and what to do (sorry to toot my own horn but compared to what this fat idiot knows its legendary) i have never ever tried to fight back with him but tonight just blew it i screamed at the asshole, and 2 days before xmas... this isnt what its about this hasnt ever happend to my family, but if you can see my point as well as his (if there are any)... yeh thats abotu it, sorry for the badly written last sentance, ime gonna go blow the hell outa sumin (link)
thats kinda like my dad only mine is wors he will scream at me if i cross my legs what i do is meditate it feels like your on a roller coster some times it feels so good you shoold try it it really really works good luck and have a merry christmas


This is only my view. My dad and I are close. My mom hates it. Anytime my dad does something for me she get mad. My mom drinks and smokes (cigarettes and weed). My dad just drinks beer during sporting events or movies. My mom accuses my dad of cheating when she is the one cheating. She fights him, destroys his stuff and kicks him out. One time she bit him in his sleep and poured bleach on his face. My dad does nothing. He is either a punk or scared. My mom and me is different. She hated me since I was about 8 and decided i didnt wanna be a lawyer but wanted to be in the music industry. I didnt wanna be in a choir but dance and cheerlead. So she would smack me around for no reason. She kicked me out back in August. I been surviving since. Now I want to go home because of the holidays and i miss my dad and brothers. I miss being with my good side of the family. I dont know to get back in the house because my mom dont want me back (link)
Go home. If your mom doesn't appreciate your presence she's going to have to deal with it. You deserve to be with your dad and brothers for the holidays, maybe you could go and ask if your dad and brothers could go hang out with you for a while? Forget your mom, she needs to chill out. You are apart of their family, and if you show up at their house, and your mom turns you back around, stand your ground. Don't leave until you are reunited with the ones you love, even if that pisses her off.
Good luck, hope I helped and happy holidays.


so yea i asked u a question before but you werent really good at giving advice. Here is your second chance:
find me a recipe that is really sweet...like a desert but i am lactose and tolerant and am alergect to nuts! good luck! i will give you a five that WILL go on your public rating if you can do this for me!
thanx
xoxo (link)
Yeah, sorry about that. But here's some recipes you can try out...


Lactose Intolerant Cinnamon Rolls Recipe
For Rolls:
Pillsbury Specialty Hot Roll Mix
yeast packet (comes with roll mix)
1 cup of hot water, 120° to 130° F.
¼ cup and 2 tablespoons softened
lactose-free butter or margarine
1 egg
2 tablespoons of sugar
2 tsp. cinnamon
For Glaze:
1 1/3 cup powdered sugar
1 to 2 tablespoons Edensoy
vanilla soy milk
½ tsp. vanilla
1) Heat oven to 375° F. Combine roll mix, sugar, and yeast packet in a large bowl. Mix well.
2) Stir in hot water, butter, and egg until dough pulls away from side of bowl. Turn dough out onto lightly floured surface. With greased or floured hands, shape dough into a ball.
3) Knead dough for 5 minutes until smooth. To knead, fold dough over towards you, press down and away with heels of hands. Rotate dough a quarter turn; continue kneading. Sprinkle additional flour over surface to reduce stickiness.
4) Cover dough with large bowl; lest rest for 5 minutes. To shape, roll dough into a 15 x 10-inch rectangle. Spread ¼ cup softened butter evenly over dough. Sprinkle with mixture of 1/3 cup sugar and cinnamon. Starting with 10-inch side, roll up tightly, pressing edges to seal.
5) Cut into 12 slices; place, cut side down, in a greased 13 x 9-inch pan. Cover loosely with plastic wrap and cloth towel. Let rise in warm place for 30 minutes.
6) Uncover rolls and bake for 20 to 30 minutes or until golden brown. Cool 1 minute, remove from pan.
7) To glaze, combine powdered sugar, lactose-free milk, and vanilla. Blend until smooth and spoon over warm rolls. Makes 12 rolls.
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Lactose-Free Cheesecake

Base:
1 cup graham wafer crumbs
1/4 cup sugar
1/4 cup melted lactose-free butter

Filling:
500 grams lactose-free cream cheese
1/2 cup sugar
3 tablespoons flour

4 eggs (separate yolk and white)
1 tsp vanilla
1 cup lactose-free milk
1 tsp gelatin
1) Grease a round spring form pan.
2) Mix base ingredients and press mixture into bottom of pan. Set aside.
3) For filling, mix cheese with sugar and flour. Add egg yolks and mix.
4) Add lac-free milk. Mix (low speed on beater). Beat egg white and fold into cheese mixture. Egg white should be stiff.
5) Pour into crust. Bake at 325° for 1 hour or until golden brown or developed a crack in the upper crust.
6) Before topping the cake, allow to cool for ½ hour then chill in the fridge for 3 hours to set the gelatin. Top and enjoy!
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RICE PUDDING, Lactose Free
Ingredients:
1/2 cup long grain rice
11/2 cups water
1 lemon peel
1 cinnamon stick
1 quart LAND O LAKES® Dairy Ease® lactose free milk
3/4 cup sugar
1/4 tsp salt
1 tsp vanilla
powdered cinnamon
Procedure:
Using a 3-quart pot, boil rice, cinnamon stick and the lemon peel in cold water at medium high heat.
Continue to cook until rice is soft and most of the water has evaporated.
Remove the cinnamon stick.
Add LAND O LAKES® Dairy Ease® lactose free milk, sugar, salt and vanilla extract.
Continue cooking at medium low heat, stirring often until it thickens.
Remove the lemon peel.
Serve in 8 dessert dishes and sprinkle with powdered cinnamon when serving.
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If those don't satisfy you, I don't know what will. haha. Sorry about the advice, but I try just like everyone else, just please don't hold that against me. Thanks. And have a great holiday. Hope I helped and made your sweet tooth happy :]





My girlfriend keeps tellin me that she cant have sex with me because she is on her periods ,is she right or is it just a trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex (link)
A] its gross B] it doesnt feel right C] it feels like youre cramming your finger into a bloody cut on your arm D] its not clean and right in the bible to do it while shes on her period E] its her body, not yours


What is the Gifted and Talented??

My Moms getting paperwork in the mail about me joining like a club for smart people. And I get good grades but Im not smart... I donno know.
And like someone said if u stay in it its a good way to get scholarhips for colledge.

I dont even know what it is? And I know people who are in it and there weird people... I dont wanna be a weird person! (link)
omg do not get in the gifted amd talented program i know a girl who was in that pprogram her whole life untill this grade and now she freaks out because she isnt conciderd gifted anymore please dont go there do you want to know what they teach you there...they teach you how to deal with people that arnt as "smart" as you so you really shouldent go cause you could get really freaked out in collage and get bad grades and take drugs and think of killing yourself please if god put you here on this earth than you were ment to stay good luck i hope you dont end up there and merry christmas


okay so i heard a song in the hookah bar and i can't figure out the name of it.

part of a verse was like
"i smoke like a hippie back in the seventies"

bla bla bla "then i get high" or something like that

its really bugging me.

help? (link)
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=87156126

2nd one.

Eh?


Basically what the title is. I'm having trouble knowing whether or not I should take the next step for fear of being rejected. If I knw what to look for if he likes me then I may be more confedent to take the next step.

Thanks

(link)
if they mess around with you and my sisters crush actualy told me him self that he liked her so yeah if he tells your sister that he likes you im pretty sure he does good luck and merry christmas


im babysitting 3 boys tomorrow nite. i have no idea what to do with them!!!!
any suggestions?
-i think one will be asleep by the time i get there.

15/f (link)
You didnt say what theyre ages were. or what time.
so if its at like 7-12 or something, then you probably will only have to pay attention and you can just put them to bed
if theyre older, like 8 or 9, then just put them to bed at like 8-830ish. and if they say their bedtime is like 9 or 10, then say its that late, and that you forgot the time, and they need to go to bed or something
anyways what to do with them... just ask them if they have a puzzle or something. or ask them about christmas. drawing is always good, and you can tell them they should make their parents christmas cards. or holiday cards.
hope that helpss =]


can anyone recommend a piano piece that's sad, slow, and mournful? i'm looking for a piece to play and i'm a sucker for anything slow, minor, and with weird harmonies :) thanks! (link)
i like quicker songs, but the two slow ish songs ive played are by debussy. one is called reverie, and the other claire de lune. theyre both soo good. but they are extremely advanced, and you didnt say your level of experience


18/f

ok so im still a virgin but the guy i like isnt. do guys care if a girl they date is still a vigin or not. (link)
ive never met a guy that didnt like a girl cuz she was a virgin.
most of the people i know like them more actually, because if they have sex, theyre excited that they get to pop the cherryy haha
it makes them feel special, and they dont have to worry about being good because your unexperienced.


theres this cute boy in my drama club. i dont know his name, age, or sexual preference (cause most of the guys in our drama club are gay). hes really quiet (and so am i!!!)
how do i get up the courage to say and wat can i say that wont make me look stupid.
any advice PLEASE
guys advice appreciated--, how do u like grls introducing themselves
THANKS (link)
well you could say hi and introduce yourself and ask him a few quistions about school and then he will problay do the same and then you guys will start talking about other stuff and then there you have it boyfriend and girlfriend if it happend to me it could happen to you good luck and merry christmas




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