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i love everyone but sometimes i feel a little used...
i love everyone i dispise Racism and shallowness i love people for who they are not how they look, BUT since september i joined a 6th form at my school (i went back for further education) and in that time i fallen out bad time wth one of freinds (she stole my new 70 quid hoody and was freekin freezin that day) but yeh any way i try to be unlike other men by trying to actually be freinds with some one before i ask them out (ime 16 btw) but i am in a 6th form art and photography group with 9 othr girls they hardly take notice of me although of the things i do for them like i am good with electronics so i plug in and charge all the cameras fix computer errors with the camera's and only one person in that whole group noticed because she nominated me for helpfullness award (i was well happy ^_^) but the rest of them seem to not give a one ton tin of shit about me or anything i spend loadsa time with all of them but i dont get noticed. but thats not quite what bugging me, i dont want to become bitter like my dad he doesnt trust any one he has a bad temper and to tell you the truth i tihnk this is how he was when he was a kid he never talks about when he was a kid and now hees grumpy ooverweight and mad all the time :( i really dont want to be like him i want to be known as the guy who helps is happy the guy you can talk to i keep a bunch of secrets about loadsa peopel i know i havent toldany one but i cant tell them anything because they will tell theyre best freinds who will tell other people so i keep everythin bottled up most of the time and thats not healthy... ime dragging this on sorry but its all coming out. please help thanks a ton in advance
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Write it all down on paper, draw, paint, sing, anything to get a release. Bottling all of that inside is probably messing with your emotions so sometimes you can be sensitive and other times totally grouchy and uptight. It's really good that you don't want to follow your father's footsteps, but it's okay to not always be the nicest person. Everyone has their grumpy days, but you just have to go with the flow. Talk to someone about it. It's better to get these things out, and to tell you the truth, I'm the same way. It's a hard habit to break, but try your damndest. You seem like a nice guy, so don't let other people get you down. Just make sure your not holding everything inside of you, it can get the best of you.
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They probably do notice you, but won't show it (for whatever reason). You need to pick one you like, and show that you notice her. Talk to her. Ask her questions about herself. By doing so, you're demonstrating to her that you're interested. What should you talk to her about? Well, you have photography in common. What else do you have in common? Find out by talking to her.
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