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i cant tell


Question Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 9:44 pm

my friend and i like the same guy...and i told him how i felt and she didnt and he didnt go for me...no big deal...but then she was talking to him on msn and he said what would you do if i asked you out??? and i would be proud and happy for her but i cant tell if i still like him, i thought i was over him but when i found out that she liked him i just felt something come over me like hey you still like him...but i cant tell if im just jealous or not...i dont care if he likes her and they date i just want him to be happy with what he gets..apparently me n him wasnt meant for each other, but how can i tell if i still like him or if it is just me feeling like my territory is invaded because i stated my feelings buit he didnt go for me, and she dont do nothing and she might get him??

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Additional info, added Saturday December 22 2007, 9:48 pm:
just found out they are datin and i am like really happy but kinda iffy... :(.

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orphans answered Saturday December 22 2007, 10:25 pm:
It seems like you just want what you probably can't have, but if you like him and your not jealous try thinking about how he makes you feel. When your around him do you get weak in the knees? Do butterflies invade your stomach? Are you constantly at a loss for words and stuttering uncontrollably? Do you feel that you have to look nice for him and blush when he sheds his attention onto you? When you daydream, does your mind automatically wander to him? When a love song is played on the radio, does it remind you of him?
A little advice though, if he isn't "into you" in the way you may or may not be intrested in him, why wait around for him? Go for the other guys who are available and sweet. Don't get hung up on one boy, if he likes your friend, just look the other way, be happy, and move on. Hope I helped and that all works out for you in your favor!

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orphans answered Saturday December 22 2007, 9:53 pm:
this happend to me too but not with my friend it was with my SISTER and the guy asked her out instead of me i just figured that i should be happy for her i was still really sad that i didnt get the guy but the next best person in my book did so what i did was sit on my bed thinking about what happend and then i realized that i didnt even like him so maybe you should just think about what happend you might end up like me i hope that you guys work it out good luck merry christmas

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