ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?
Well you would of miscarriage.. but you should go to the doctor and see if the baby is okay and see if your okay.. and you should press charges on him.. and get a restraing order on him to stay away from you and your unborn child..much luv
[view]
okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know.
yea they can tell cause they can tell if you been messed with.. its okay tho.. much luv
[view]
Hi, i am new to this place but i do have a question. I am a 20 yr old male.My girlfriend wants to be friends cause she does't have the time in her schedule. She doesn't call it breaking up. And i feel like huh? When did she first feel like this. And now i am doing my best to get her out of my head but i still like her very much but i don't want to talk to her about it cause shes tired of hearing it. So for now i have been staying away from her. Ever since then i have been in a depressed phase and i am cranky as hell, but i do not think she cares enough about me as i do her, cause it seems her life and career are more important than i am to her. Can you tell me what i should do?
Well try to move on and what your doing is good.. cause that will help you more.. and might make it a little easier to get over her.. but she isnt worth like tryin to get back if she has better things to do, and if she liked or loved you enough she would of made sure you was in her schedule.. im sorry to hear that.. it must hurt.. but um i hope i helped and best luck to ya.. much luv
[view]
ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and lately we've been talking about sex a lot. We both think that we're gonna end up getting married and living happily ever after! so anyways... We both know that we'll probably end up having sex sometime in the next 5-8 months... and i have some questions. I've heard that a hurts the girl the first time, but how bad? We've talked about this also and he told me that whenever we do end up having sex that he's gonna keep checking on me and making sure that i'm not in too much pain and if I am he'll stop. Don't get me wrong. I'm not worried about having sex. I'm just worried about how much it's gonna hurt. And also what's the best position to use for your first time?
THANKS
Well yes it hurts but truthfully it isnt nothing you cant handle.. i mean i was on top for like the first second he put it in me but i hurt and he was like baby ill get on top so it was much better when he was on top i was more comfortable and it didnt hurt that bad but it still kinda did i mean its not something you'll cry bout you might make a face like oochie or something.. but the next time it will be better cause you'll be more comfortable and everything.. but you still might hurt for the first few times..much luv
[view]
Ok so at school there is this really hot/nice guy. We talked to eachother before but not alot. He has a girlfriend but he has told a few people that he likes me too. He also says that hes going to stay with his girlfriend. But one day at PE he came sat by me there was no room by me so he asked my friend to move over so he could sit by me. I kinda do and kinda dont want them to break up. i just hate it because i cant ever get a boyfriend. I really like this guy what should i do???
Jus talk to him.. tell him you dont wanna be led on or anything and then your hopes be up like ya'll gon get together then it doesnt happen.. jus tell him you like him and what not.. but tell him also you respect that he dont wanna break up with his girl friend..much luv
[view]
is it bad to pop your knuckles? Some people say it is and others say it isn't...
Well my grandma has hand problems with her fingers and has had surgery.. but she still pops her knuckles and its a habit thats hard to stop and sometimes peoples knuckles pop by themselfs.., much luv
[view]
do you think it's better if a 17 year old dates a 25 old?! or do you think it's better for me wait until i'm 27 and he's 35?!
No i think its okay.. i mean he is alot older.. but if you wanna wait til your legal then jus wait one more year.. but i think its fine..much luv
[view]
okay.. i like this guy.. and at my school its really easy to get kicked out because its a charter school... well.. he hasnt been there in a few days... and i was hearing rumors that he got kicked out... so.. im in theatre and i asked my principle and told her that i need to know if he got kicked out because hes like.. the main charactter in the play... and she said.. " well.. im not guaranteeing anythyng... but i would start looking for someone to get a new role.." i like him so much.. and i never get to see him outside of school... i dont know what to do.. should i try to convince my principle to let him stay?
No dont try that jus wait and see if he comes back.. if he doesnt come back then you should comunicate with one his friends or somebody who knows him and see how you can get ahold of him..much luv
[view]
im in love with this guy havebeen together for 4yrs but i had left to get engaged to some else things didnt work out for me he accepted me back now i feel like im the only one in this relationship, he stopped communicating with me tells me he busy will call me back and he never does tells me to wait for him comes two hours later now ive asked him what the way formard he said if i think he is a problem lets go our separate ways, what do i do i dont want to lose him not now not ever.
Well tell him how you feel..bout the whole situation..maybe he just dont wanna get hurt again.. its goin to be hard for him to trust you again..but jus try your best to be the same way as befor and show you care and love him and wont do that again to him..much luv
[view]
i am a 21yr old female and have a huge sexual disire for sex everyday cn not find a man to satisfy me i need help...
um.. maybe get a dildo or viberator.. much luv and good luck..
[view]
i have recently had a coldsaw but my girlfriend wants me to give her oral sex but im concerned that if it is not gone completely she may get infected. is it safe?
DOnt do it.. cause a cold sore is a form of herpes..much luv
[view]
my mom said she would buy me birth control pills and to just tell her if me and my boyfriend are gonna ahve sex because she knows him and she likes him and weve been together for a while...were thinkin about it but i just wanted to know how effective against pregnancy is a birth control pill?? is it safe to use a condom AND birth control at the same time? and should i just tell my mom or just do it behind her back because i heard you have to go to the doctor to get the pills...thats embarassing
Yes its save to use a condom while on birth control..that might be the best actually cause if like you miss a pill or mess em up or something..but for the first month your on em make sure you do use a condom cause i dont think it takes effect for a month..Jus let her know..thats what she wants you to do.. apparently she's a parent you can go to for things like that..much luv
[view]
i am deeply in love with a girl, im 13m and shes 13f, but the thing is i will never be able to go out with her or even get to see her that much. this is all because i moved away, and when i say moved i mean like far far away. after knowing her for a year and loving her for about half of that time, i can just never get her outta my head or stop thinkin about her. she knows how i feel about her but i only get small chances to evre see her agian. but i personally think shes the one... i have no clue wat to do... and i wont give her up...
Well kid your only 13..your not sure if shes the one..how you know she the one..you probably do love her but you will eventually get over this girl and move on..much luv
[view]
My sister is sooo annoying whenever i eat popcorn she goes "POPCORN HOGG!" I like popcorn but not THAT much. She is soo annoying. What should i do???
Tell er to shut up..much luv dez
[view]
Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it?
Well you should shave it anyways..much luv dez
[view]
I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way?
you are apparently a young one..to be talkin like your a loser.. but it hurts the first time and it isnt suppose to be wild and crazy idiot..its suppose to mean something to you and the person you have sex with..much luv dez
[view]
i comfort eat a lot, how can i stop this its starting to make a difference in my weight. thanks appriciate it
eat healthy foods..much luv dez
[view]
I have been really sick since thursday and iam terrified of doctors. the probelm is that i get really high fevers and they dont come down . is there any medication that i could take that would not only bring my tempurature down along with getting better? (i have the flu)
Take tylenol..advil..they should bring your temperture down..much luv dez
[view]
I want to stop biting my nails but I don't know how to. I've tried before and it never seems to work out. My mom tells me to sit on my hands but that doesn't work. I've tried chewing gum and yet I still bite them and my nails are too short to paint. I've even got my nails done before and when I take the fake nails off and my real ones are long they just break off. Any suggestions?
i have the same problem and trust me i do it so much.. um and i also hate doing it cause it dont very nice if i bite em too short..but i try to keep my nails done so i dont bit em even tho it drives me crazy so i chew on plastic and stuff.. i chew on stupid shit but even tho i do that i still wanna bite my nails.. um i thinks its a horrible habit and its jus going to be really hard to stop..much luv dez
[view]
im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do
There isnt no wrong way to kiss.. jus do it and dont think about it..do what he does you should be fine hun..much luv dez
[view]
|