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Hi, i am new to this place but i do have a question. I am a 20 yr old male.My girlfriend wants to be friends cause she does't have the time in her schedule. She doesn't call it breaking up. And i feel like huh? When did she first feel like this. And now i am doing my best to get her out of my head but i still like her very much but i don't want to talk to her about it cause shes tired of hearing it. So for now i have been staying away from her. Ever since then i have been in a depressed phase and i am cranky as hell, but i do not think she cares enough about me as i do her, cause it seems her life and career are more important than i am to her. Can you tell me what i should do?
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I'm closer to your age and when my heart got broke and i was torn down. I never once felt sorry for myself. Pick you self up and start doing and activity you stopped doing when you got with her get yourself back out into the single enjoyable life and show her whats shes missing.
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well yu mite think this is a stupid advice thing because im like 13 but ii think yu should give her some space shes probably goiinq thru a hard time n like yu probably aare thinkiinq well i could help her thru it? right but sometimes when a girl/women is goiinq thru a hard time she just needs to be byherself to figure somethiings out.. n since its not really "breakinq up" just hang out go to the movies or mall just do frii3nd things im sure once she gets out of this phase yu guys will hook up again ;) hOpe ii helped xO
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go to a strip club, get some booze ,and have a lap dance.
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I think you desserve a girl who can fit you into her schedule. Your right..it does sound like shes putting her career first. I would respect her for being honest with you..because being in a relationship when the other doesnt feel the same is no fun. Your 20..which is still young. Live the single life..try and get out with the guys.This shoul get your mind off of her. Its going to take time for the pain to get better..but for now try and stay active. Maybe join a gym..go out with friends a lot..enjoy being young. A girl who can fit you comfortably into her schedule will come along eventually..and its going to work out in the end. Stay positive..and be patient because yours will come along.
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If her life and career are more important that you to her, then you need to move on. If she is tired of hearing you trying to talk to her about this, then you need to move on and forget about your feelings for her. There are other girls out there that care more about someone than their life and career. If you know that things between you two could work out, then you could just wait until she is settled with her career and life but that may take a while. Since she wanted to be friends with you and she didn't actually break up with you, then she may need time to think about things that are more important to her than you like her life and career but that's really uncalled for, since you love her. Just do what you think is right.
-Karen
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Well try to move on and what your doing is good.. cause that will help you more.. and might make it a little easier to get over her.. but she isnt worth like tryin to get back if she has better things to do, and if she liked or loved you enough she would of made sure you was in her schedule.. im sorry to hear that.. it must hurt.. but um i hope i helped and best luck to ya.. much luv
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You really have to move on hun. If her life and career is more important, why try to fight to get her? It doesn't seem like your going anywhere since she did choose a different path. Sometimes people have to go different ways to find out if they're ment to be or not. Just let her go her way and you go yours. Maybe you'll meet someone who is actually worth your time and one that will give you her time. And if you and this girl are ment to be, it'll find a way. But for now, try moving on and dating new people. You never know, your Miss.Right could be right around the corner!
♥ Krissy
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it seems like shes over you, so you just have to see that, if shes thinking more about her career and her life than you, then theres a chance that there might be someone else you dont know about. or maybe she just doesnt feel about you the same. i think that you should just give her up.
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i think that you should move on. i know that you really like her but you need to move on. you need to find yourself a better girl who will acaully have time for u and other things. dont worry about it to much because you will find someone else that you like. x0
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