Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 7:16 pm
This girl and i have been realy good freinds since the day we met(she was in 7th and I in 8th). last year we started liking eachother and then we ended up dating for like a week or two and then she ended up moving to a town 45 minutes away so we stopped dating. we sorta lost contact for a little but but then reconnected and picked up our friendship where it left off. well she then again moved all the way to texas(i live in california) and we lost contact all together for a while. Once again we reconnected and started talking more and soon she moved back to the town 45 minutes away from me. now that she lives there agian weve been talking almost every day on the phone or online and we even got to see eachother the other weekend for the first time since the summer. We both want to see eachother more and since the other weekend old feelings have arrisen and we both REALLY like eachother again(i havent stopped thinking about her since). we both want to date but the distance seems sumwhat of a setback since she doesnt drive because shes not old enough and i dont either because im busy to get my license. we both really care about eachother and want to be with eachother, and im there 100% to making the relationship work if she commits knowing that the distance will be a setback to seeing eachother regularly. should we try dating a see what happens? would a long( but realatively short) distance relationship between us work? i would greatly appreciate your help and advice.
Karen answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:40 pm: If you two love each other and know that things between you two may work out in a relationship again, then by all means, start a long distance relationship with her. Long distance relationships can work out if both people are committed and communicate with each other. If you two want to go another step further and start this relationship, then I think it may work out between you two. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you want to start a long distance relationship with her. If you ever do start one, stay in touch with her and communicate with her as much as you can. Good luck!
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
punk_rock101 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:14 pm: long distance relationship work sometimes, i mean give it a try, who knows, maybe it will work out for u guys. if it doesnt, then just go back to being friendz.hope i helped;)
XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:07 pm: personaly i hate long distance. but if you both like each other and stuff why not? i mean if it doesn't work out at least you will know that and not regret not going out with her for the reast of your life. [ XoUkrainianBabeXo's advice column | Ask XoUkrainianBabeXo A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:04 pm: you both really like each other so i think that you guys should try dating!! it wont hurt! wen you both r able to drive then you can see each other a l0t more but for now you can continute talking on the phone and online a lot. im sure nothing can go wrong in your realationship and if something does you both can still be friends and you both r still going to like each other. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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