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im in love with this guy havebeen together for 4yrs but i had left to get engaged to some else things didnt work out for me he accepted me back now i feel like im the only one in this relationship, he stopped communicating with me tells me he busy will call me back and he never does tells me to wait for him comes two hours later now ive asked him what the way formard he said if i think he is a problem lets go our separate ways, what do i do i dont want to lose him not now not ever.
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Ive almost encountered the same type of thing...
...if youre in a relationship, no matter how much you love this person, and youre unhappy, its never worth it...
how long do you really think it will last if your unhappy and youre both not giving in to it?
...love is like a flower, if its not nurtured and cared for, it eventually dies, no matter how beautiful the flower may be...
..my answer is, let it slip...
it may hurt at first, but hes not the only one out there to make you happy, and hes not even doing that anymore it seems anyways...
...live your life normally, be you, and youll be fine because it only hurts at first..
always remember, they say if you love something let it go, and if it comes back its yours, and thats how u know its real...
..youll know, good luck
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Well tell him how you feel..bout the whole situation..maybe he just dont wanna get hurt again.. its goin to be hard for him to trust you again..but jus try your best to be the same way as befor and show you care and love him and wont do that again to him..much luv
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You need to tell him how you feel. Just be open and honest and he will understand. Good luck!
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Tell him that you guys will have to go seperate ways if he doesn't give you an explaination for what hes doing that he owes you, he does owe you a fairly large explaination for all of this, and you need to talk to him, and be calm and say "Look, I just want the truth, I'm not mad, I'm just very confused and you'd wanna know the same if I were doing this to you, and I'd tell you when you came to me. So, I'd appreciate your honesty if you'd give it to me, but I am not willing to keep letting you do this to me." Something like that, just talk to the guy, maybe hes upset about what happened last time with you guys.
-TheTeenGirl
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Unforutunatly sweetie i think you've got to accept that this relationship is over and that you need to move or allternativly you can keep pinin over something thats not going to happen. But before you declare it over have you tried explaing the way you feel and express your feeling fully to him. If you have then say good bye sweetie and get your self a nice fella. Good Luck hope this helps. xx
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