Member Since: February 23, 2005
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Last Update: February 23, 2005
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im in love with this guy havebeen together for 4yrs but i had left to get engaged to some else things didnt work out for me he accepted me back now i feel like im the only one in this relationship, he stopped communicating with me tells me he busy will call me back and he never does tells me to wait for him comes two hours later now ive asked him what the way formard he said if i think he is a problem lets go our separate ways, what do i do i dont want to lose him not now not ever. (link)
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Ive almost encountered the same type of thing...
...if youre in a relationship, no matter how much you love this person, and youre unhappy, its never worth it...
how long do you really think it will last if your unhappy and youre both not giving in to it?
...love is like a flower, if its not nurtured and cared for, it eventually dies, no matter how beautiful the flower may be...
..my answer is, let it slip...
it may hurt at first, but hes not the only one out there to make you happy, and hes not even doing that anymore it seems anyways...
...live your life normally, be you, and youll be fine because it only hurts at first..
always remember, they say if you love something let it go, and if it comes back its yours, and thats how u know its real...
..youll know, good luck
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okay..so i have liked this guy for about 4 or 5 months..we have gotten close to getting to know each other but we are both so shy and like i am not really sure he liked me even though i heard that he did. Then something happened and we REALLY don't talk now..not even say hi and we usta say hi before.. He somtimes walks around near me with his friends a lot..but i want to try and get to know him and atleast be frinends wit him.. He doesn't seem to be tryin to get to know me though but i do kno he is really shy. Should i try to start talking to him again or is it not worth it? and cud he possibly like me? (link)
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I really understand what youre going through...
im sure you really like this guy and POOF hes outta your life..
..there is no harm in trying to make platonic communication, which is a friendly hello, or little conversation...and maybe if you do it once, he'll do it the next time, and before you know it, you'll be friends again...
I understand you are shy, and thats not a bad thing,but be bold girl, and go for it...
My answer is yes, when it comes to a possible love, go for it...
could he possibly like you?
anything is possible, but youll never know until you try.. :-)
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