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painful?
ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and lately we've been talking about sex a lot. We both think that we're gonna end up getting married and living happily ever after! so anyways... We both know that we'll probably end up having sex sometime in the next 5-8 months... and i have some questions. I've heard that a hurts the girl the first time, but how bad? We've talked about this also and he told me that whenever we do end up having sex that he's gonna keep checking on me and making sure that i'm not in too much pain and if I am he'll stop. Don't get me wrong. I'm not worried about having sex. I'm just worried about how much it's gonna hurt. And also what's the best position to use for your first time?
THANKS
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It really all depends on the girl. Some say it hurts a lot some say it doesn't hurt at all. It seems like your boyfriend is a good guy and that you feel ready for it. If you still feel worried you should try a vibrator first and see how that feels. For the first time, missionary is probably the best position. It's guy on top and girl on bottom. It's the simplest and probably the best for the first time. Once you start to feel more comfortable you can try new things.
xoxo
ali
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It does hurt the first time, but not bad. Don't be scared because if your too scared, it'll hurt even more. So try relaxing and being comfortable. Maybe before you actually have sex, get him to finger you, to "losen" you up a bit. The best position would be him being on top. Just tell him to go slow and not be so rough on you. I'm sure he'll go gental and everything will go great.
♥ Krissy
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Well hun wait till u actually feel right when your ready your ready! But it's not to painful jsut kinda go easy and steady. And if he'll stop just kinda go for it.
Good luck!
Maddy~
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Well yes it hurts but truthfully it isnt nothing you cant handle.. i mean i was on top for like the first second he put it in me but i hurt and he was like baby ill get on top so it was much better when he was on top i was more comfortable and it didnt hurt that bad but it still kinda did i mean its not something you'll cry bout you might make a face like oochie or something.. but the next time it will be better cause you'll be more comfortable and everything.. but you still might hurt for the first few times..much luv
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