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Hi. i'M ASHLEiGH.

i HAVE A W0NDERFUL B0YFRiEND 0F 0VER 0NE YEAR. ♥

i L0VE HiM T0 DEATH! ♥

HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

S0 YES, i AM 14. N0, I'M N0T JAiL BAiT.

i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

S0 i'M PRETTY MUCH 0N AN ALL LiQUiD DiET F0R THE NEXT TW0 YEARS.

i D0N'T GiVE THE BEST ADViCE iN THE W0RLD, AND i ADMiT iT, S0ME 0F iT SUCKS, BUT AT LEAST i TRYED.

FEEDBACK iS ALWAYS APPRECiATED T0 HELP ME iMPR0VE. :D

i'M N0T G0iNG T0 GiVE A SUCK UP ANSWER JUST T0 GET A G00D RATiNG, SURE i CARE AB0UT MY RATiNG, BUT GETTiNG 0UT G00D ADViCE iS M0RE iMP0RTANT.








[ADDED: JAN 9, 06. I'VE BEEN SICK WITH STREP FOR OVER 3 WEEKS, AND GOT HOSPITALIZED LAST WENDSDAY. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN I'M GONNA BE ABLE TO GET ONLINE AGAIN, CAUSE MY LAPTOP IS DYING FAST. SO PRAY THAT I GET WELL SOON.]


{JAN 23, 06. HEY. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL MONDAY. I HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND STUFF. ANYWAYS, I'M BETTER NOW. SO I'M BACK!}

advice

Ok i started dating a 23 year old when i was 13( Grose Huh) i like him...we dated for like 6 er 7 mounths, when he said he was movin for a new job er sumin like that!well we had sex before he left on friday night.i got pregnant. i called him right away. he told me to get an abbortion i said ok but i didn't really. well he seen me when i started to show. and confronted me. i told him the truth! ever since then he calls me randomly on everyone elses cell phones so i don't kow who it is...and like when i cruise mainstreet he follows me!! What do i do?

First off, dating a 23 year old at 13 is not gross. I'm 13 and my boyfriend of over a year is almost 21. Anyways to the point, the first thing you should do, is tell him where to get off. Then take out a restraining order, so he can't call or follow you around. Cause what he is doing is against the law. Also, he could get put in jail for fucking a 13 year old. So, I hoped I helped, if you have anymore questions just leave me a message in my inbox, cause I know all about the dating people way too old for you laws and crap.

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ok look. ive been having periods for like over a year now. and like. every time i use a tampon i leek with in 30 min to an hour... even if i use the super ones. and its not like i bleed a whole lot either. just regular.
am i doing somthing wrong?

You could not be inserting the tampon in far enough. Theres a place on beinggirl.com that tells you how to put one in and all that good stuff. Maybe you should check that out. But more than likely you just are inserting it correctly! :D No need to worry.

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um..... this may be a wierd question but i'll ask it. when is about the age girls start shaving their legs?

Def. not a wierd question. Like everybody else has said there is no "age" I started when I was 11. Most girls start shaving when they get in 6th or 7th grade.

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Im 14 9th grade and im homeschooled. The local high school is having the prom. I feel really left out especially when prom comes around. My mom wants to homeschool me through high school, but I know I dont want to be. My question is can someone help me to make my mom feel more comfortable with going to school? Homeschooling is great but I just want a little experience at school. (And I want to go to prom!!) Help! Thanks

I'm 13 and homeschooled, and I'm in 10th grade. I can tell you that there is proms for homeschooled people, because my state (North Carolina) has about 20 homeschooled proms and they are so much better than the ones highschools have. So what you need to do is do a google or yahoo search on "homeschooling proms" and you should be able to find ne in your town.

And if by some chance you live in North Carolina then go to www.nche.com



hope i helped!

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how do you make a advice column like the web page where you can see what questions people answered. how can you make one?

Go to the front page (advicenators.com) and look where it says "start your own column" or something like that. and click on "Register"

That should work!

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I went to the tanning salon yesterday for the first time. I went into a low pressure bed for 20 minutes and I got a little burned. Not to the point where I don't want to go back again. I'm planning on going back tomorrow but how long should I only stay in for? And I wasn't using lotion or anything. What do you suggest for someone who got kind of burned?

You shouldn't been allowed to stay in for over 5 or 10 minutes since it was your first time. If you decide to go back just ask for less time.

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year but we have been sexually active for three months. He broke my virginity. And he takes care of me so I won't have to work and quit school. But his sex is very aggressive and I really don't like it most of the time. He even freaks me out by some of the things he tells me. Like he is going to let his boys get some of me and stuff like that. What should I do. I love him and he takes care of me. I don't have anyone else but him what should I do???????????????????????

Just tell him to slow down or to take it slowly. It sounds really hard to say, but in reality it isn't. He should understand. Most guys say that (about letting his boys get some) and trust me, if he truley loves you he won't, and I doubt he is serious. Its just another line guys use.

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okay so my nose has blackheads and i wanna get rid of them my friend said "elmers glue" does anyone know if that works? i dont have enough $ for pro-activ and those pore strips don't work.
16/f

Try using Noxema. Theres a kind for blackheads that works really well, and its only about $5 for a bottle and it last for about 3 or 4 months. All you have to do is wash your face with it in the morning and at night and they should go away in about a week or so.

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hey im a 26/f married,and i recently found out that im pregnant and i need some creative ways to tell my parents and my inlaws, im my parents only child so my pregnancy is really going to be exciting for them and i'll be the first pregnant out of my husbands family too so i need some thing really good and creative. thanx a bunch

My sister took the ultrasound pictures and framed them in a picture frame, wrapped it, and gave it to my mom as well as her inlaws for Christmas (she got pregnant around that time) So, if you are far enough along you could do that for Mothers Day.

Oh, and Congrats! Hope your pregnancy goes well! :D

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hey! So heres my question, I am in 8th grade and my school has this "end of the year 8th grade formal"-ish thing. I just recently(as in like the last 3 days) started going out with this really great guy, and we are going to formal together. He is very nice and really sweet and isn't a perv like most 14 year old guys. So anyway, at this dance I think I might be wearing a strapless dress, and because im kinda skinny and dont have much boobs(im in like the biggest size you can be in a A cup, small I know ok geez) Do you think a strapless push up bra will make it look like i have more boobs? I know this guy wont care casue he is really nice, but I dunno I just want to look "sexy" haha. thnx so much! -marsbars

Ha, you don't have the smallest boobs. I'm also 13 and like the smallest A. Anyways, I strapless push up bra will do the trick. That, and sometimes I smaller size dress. (just make sure, if its smaller that you look good in it and it doesn't look to small) But really what you should do is buy a strapless push-up bra and wear it when you go pick out your dress, that way you know how good or bad you look.


:D

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hi im 13/f. i was wondering if anyone knew a good deodorant or antiperspirent. i sweat under my arms all the time even when its cold and its embarrasing in school can someone give me tips on what to do about it? ill rate high thanks in advance

I agree with the person under me. Try using Ban, it works really well (being I have the same prob.) and plus it smells really good :D

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What's a quick way to store a site/story link for quick retrieval in future compositions, using Win 98?

Go to the top of the page and click on Favorites then Add to Favorites, then when the box comes up click Ok

Fast and Simple. :D

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My Mom read my journal/diary and found that i had had sex before, (not anymore) and she went ballistic. She is now taking me to a gyno tomorrow, and i really dont want to go, (besides, im not haveING sex, I had it once before) and shes putting me on birth control. I was wondering , does she have any right to force me to do these things? She cant force me to go to the gyno, and she cant force me to have birth control right? (Birth control being a shot of hormones) I dont want these things to happen.. Do i have a say in what happens to me? 14 yrs old and obviously female if that helps.

Since you are only 14, she can force you to do that. If you were 16+ then she couldn't. Keeping a diary or journal is a horrible idea, but good at the same time. If you really want to keep one then just get one with a lock and keep it in your purse.

-*mayonnaise-

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Hey Mom, i'll try to make this sweet and simple.
I kinda want my underwear back.
I'm not exactly sure why you took them, but i have an idea. Maybe you thought i was trying to 'impress' somebody? Maybe for punishment? Maybe you thought i was growing up too fast?
i'm not exactly sure but i think its one of those.
I just wannna let you know i'm not trying to impress anybody.
Its kind of a personal preference, its more comfortable & stuff.
i don't like, show people or anything, like some people i know.(aka sluts!)
I don't know, do you want me to earn them back?
well write back.
mmkay
bye


is it good? i don't want to sound like a smart aleck though. and i don't wnt to beg her either.
is this good? any revisions i should make?

Its good. One thing you should change is the mmkay. Just cut that out and its all good :D

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What is the difference between a walmart brand skateboard and a pro skateboard?

A Wal-Mart skateboard is a piece of crap. Correction-Piece Of Sh*t.

If you want a half-way decent skateboard for a low price go to ccs.com

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Last monday my ex and I broke up and now he's telling everyone what we did in our relationship.He calms he " hit it and quit it" which means he was just with me for sex. So it all back fires on me.But instead of just sitting here and letting him say that.I started to tell people that I "hit it and quit it". Does that make me a slut or does it make me look stupid?i really dont have a choice.

I swear this has happened to everybody at least once in there life. The best thing to do is just say that he is lieing and yall never did anything cause hes ugly or you didn't like him that much or something in that area.

*mayonnaise**-

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Ok so I have been seeing this guys *Jim* for a little over a year and I really love him. We makeout all the time, he's gotten up my shirt and just today he fingered me many times and I gave him a blowjob. Now I know this may not seem like alot to you but for me it is and that might be just because I`m 13. Now I have a question would you consider me a slut? How much do you think he likes me. (I am his first girlfriend, first kiss, first everything)? please answer this i am so nervous and scared.

You're not a slut. You would only be a slut if you did that with several guys. As for you feeling like it is a lot, well for a 13 year old it is. But like don't feel bad about it or anything. Most girls lose their virginity at 13 and all that good stuff. So don't be like ashamed or anything. (which I take it that you aren't?)

Its obvious that he likes you or he would never had kissed you, and the fact that you were his first kiss makes you even more important to him.

So, Please, don't be nervous or scared. I hoped a helped..:-/

*mayonnaise**-

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So I'm 15. And I'm a female,
is there something wrong with me?
I'm attracted to older guys, I'm sure they dont like me. Or wont ever, but I find myself wanting older guys, like they seem more appealing to me, because like ALL the guys in my grade are so imature. I wish theyd grow up. I dont know though.
I just hope its nto wrong for me to like odler guys? Because I have no interest in any of the guys in my grade =/

I totally feel where you are coming from. There is nothing wronge with that as long as any of the guys want to start having sex. I found myself in the same situation you are in, and resulted in being raped by a 21 year old. So just as long as you are careful, there is absolutly nothing wronge with it!

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so as most of you know i WAS in a relationship with a abusive guy and i told him that i want to break up with him..and he brok two of my ribs...and gave me a cuncution...:-(

but on the flip side hes goin to juvey!! and i realized (thanks to ALL of u!!!!!) that he was an a** hole. plain and simple..and all i get are threatining letters/phone calls..but what i am afraid of is his friends. his friends stick by him 100%..and my house got TP (toilet paperd) and lilke a dead rat was on my door step (says my mom) and like i got threating letters in my locker saying "bitch if u tell ill kill you" or "we know you told hoe, were ganna do what jake did" (jake rapped me.)

so PLZ help!!!!

The very same thing happened to me in January, and resulted in me being homeschooled. So, what you can do is take the letters to your local police department, and the people sending you those letters can actually go to Juvi and/or get a criminal record. Even if they were not serious in those letters.

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does anyone know what age it is legal to get a belly button ring in new york?
gracias!

I got mine when I was 12, but I live in NC and my mom signed for it. The legal age to get one is 18, but you can get one before then if your parent signs!

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