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NOT FAIR
Last monday my ex and I broke up and now he's telling everyone what we did in our relationship.He calms he " hit it and quit it" which means he was just with me for sex. So it all back fires on me.But instead of just sitting here and letting him say that.I started to tell people that I "hit it and quit it". Does that make me a slut or does it make me look stupid?i really dont have a choice.
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I swear this has happened to everybody at least once in there life. The best thing to do is just say that he is lieing and yall never did anything cause hes ugly or you didn't like him that much or something in that area.
*mayonnaise**-
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Sure you do- you can take the moral high ground and not hit back while still staying confident and happy as you always were. People will have more respect for you and it'll make him look like a total jackass a)for being so immature and b)for letting someone as good as you get away.
Say you're sorry he feels that way or feels he has to spread that kind of crap-as far as you were concerned there was more to it than that- but you're perfectly happy now and capable of having fun and a life without him.
Don't sink to his level and it'll serve you better in the long run. If guys think you "hit and quit" your ex they'll worry you'll do the same to them and make them look stupid and so probably avoid you for the next few years anyway. Or ust think they can use you for sex too.
In the meantime make yourself feel better by putting rotting fish in his car/house/locker, the little cretin deserves it.
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To be honest... it makes you look like a slut. I would recommend you stop saying such things if your reputation at all matters to you.
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If you want to get back at him, you could just tell people that the sex was terrible on his part, and you were so embarrassed about it that you had to let him go.
What you're doing now is just making you look worse. C'mon now, do the stereotypical woman thing and turn it around on this guy.
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Honestly I wouldnt have just said nothing,
because rumours only grow if you let them,
if you ignore them they will eventually die down & become old news. It doesnt make you sound stupid that you said that, I mean your right, he's making you seem easy, and stuff. but guys are idiots like that, they want to make themselves seem big, better, and cool. But we all know they arent.
But overall let your ex know somehow how you feel maybe? if your not on talking terms (I dont htink you are)then act like you dont care.
Your real friends will know you didnt do anything.
hoppped i helped.
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hey, it makes you look bad when you say that. yeah its going to make you look slutty. instead say something like " i didnt really like him that much anyways". you shouldnt have been giving him sex anyways. but you did and now you ahve to pay the price. cait♥
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