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he won't leave me alone
Ok i started dating a 23 year old when i was 13( Grose Huh) i like him...we dated for like 6 er 7 mounths, when he said he was movin for a new job er sumin like that!well we had sex before he left on friday night.i got pregnant. i called him right away. he told me to get an abbortion i said ok but i didn't really. well he seen me when i started to show. and confronted me. i told him the truth! ever since then he calls me randomly on everyone elses cell phones so i don't kow who it is...and like when i cruise mainstreet he follows me!! What do i do?
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sorry im gonna have to disagree with mayonaise down there. and im usualy the first person to say age is just a number. i mean your 13! you arent even in high school yet, and he could very well already be done with college! thats beyond wrong. i mean look at it this way, he was already trying to get layed back when you were still in dipers. 3 years ago he was twice your age. and, if there was a woman as perverted as he is, and he met her, hed be old enough to be your father. and your 13 its queastionable enough for you to be having sex with someone your own age, and had you asked about that id be advicing you againt it. youre pregnant, your going to have a kid, and your still a kid yourself. do you have your parents' support? you really do need to get this guy put away, and if you do have the baby he owes you child support. alot of it since you have no way of taking care of it yourself. though not sure how the two of those would interact since while in jail he has no income to send you. hes staking you, he could be dangerous and try to attack you, if only to get rid of the baby which he wanted you to do. seriously you need to go to the police.
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I am sorry to answer this question with answers already given; I always try to avoid that. However in this case I do not think that it can be said enough. You really should go to the police with the information that you provided here. This guy has problems, and research has shown that sex offenders (including child molesters) repeat their crimes over and over until they are put away. So if not for your own sake, go to the police for the sake of the next girl. Will the next girl be 12, 10, 8, who knows...
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What you need to do is go to the police or a trusted adult and tell them what is going on. That man is a sexual preditor and child molestor, plain and simple.
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Alright, if he's 23, he knows better than to be having sex with a 13 year old. He told you to get an abortion because he is more worried about himself getting in trouble than you getting in trouble.
The only way to correct this problem is to kill you. That's likely what he's stalking you for. He might be trying to find you in a position where you are alone so he can get rid of you (the evidence). Tell the police, and have tell your parents.
Don't go anywhere alone. I'm warning you, this man is very dangerous. I just know it.
Please contact me at krupple@gmail.com and I'll help you further.
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ok.. not to be mean .. but you have problems..not your mind.. i mean you have problems as in .. there are voids in your life and i need to give u advice. You souldn't have date him .. and well if ur parents know.. you should tell them he follows you ... go to the police.. get a restraining order.. don't have sex! i am 13.. i never had a bf... well in kindergarten.. but thats so dumb... it was for fun.. anyway... you should not have done that .... is he trying to kill you when he follows you? please i need more answers so i can help you .. contact me at prissychrissy101@hotmail.com
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First off, dating a 23 year old at 13 is not gross. I'm 13 and my boyfriend of over a year is almost 21. Anyways to the point, the first thing you should do, is tell him where to get off. Then take out a restraining order, so he can't call or follow you around. Cause what he is doing is against the law. Also, he could get put in jail for fucking a 13 year old. So, I hoped I helped, if you have anymore questions just leave me a message in my inbox, cause I know all about the dating people way too old for you laws and crap.
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