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Abusive BF


Question Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:39 pm

so as most of you know i WAS in a relationship with a abusive guy and i told him that i want to break up with him..and he brok two of my ribs...and gave me a cuncution...:-(

but on the flip side hes goin to juvey!! and i realized (thanks to ALL of u!!!!!) that he was an a** hole. plain and simple..and all i get are threatining letters/phone calls..but what i am afraid of is his friends. his friends stick by him 100%..and my house got TP (toilet paperd) and lilke a dead rat was on my door step (says my mom) and like i got threating letters in my locker saying "bitch if u tell ill kill you" or "we know you told hoe, were ganna do what jake did" (jake rapped me.)

so PLZ help!!!!


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trina answered Thursday April 13 2006, 6:41 pm:
ok you need to tell the police what is going on that is so totaly wrong of them they do not need to be doning that stuff next time you geta letter show the police and if you still have the other ones show thoughs to. i hope i helped

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mayonnaise answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 5:02 pm:
The very same thing happened to me in January, and resulted in me being homeschooled. So, what you can do is take the letters to your local police department, and the people sending you those letters can actually go to Juvi and/or get a criminal record. Even if they were not serious in those letters.

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someone1234 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:47 pm:
These guys are threatening your life! You have to call the police and no one will call you a baby for it, trust me this is some serious stuff and these guys are a**holes! Im glad you got away from that old boyfriend, stay away from these people and never be by yourself. They gave good advice here by saying to take the notes as evidence. Dont ever communicate with your ex, EVER, if he calls dont accept the calls. Just get to the police, you have to make sure nobody will hurt you again, you sound like a great girl and you are very brave. Dont let these a**holes ruin your life.

please get back to me and tell me how everything went, I wish you the best of luck and Im sure everything will work out just fine.

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Julie174 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:23 pm:
Hun this is serious, tell the police. Tell your principal. Tell your guidance counsler. Tell anyone you can before they hurt you. Seriously, GO TO THE POLICE. And for evidence, bring the notes they leave in your locker. Hope everything works out.

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Milena answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:09 pm:
You must tell the police. Get the guys' names and tell. Tell everyone you know. Just get the word out there. Stay by your friends or an adult at all times. I know people will say you're a baby, but it's for your own good.

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itsz_JESS answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:08 pm:
you should definetly tell someone about this maybe the guidance councellor or something? maybe even contact the police ..maybe you can talk to your ex and tell him to stop because you two are not together anymore and you'll leave him alone and hell leave you alone.. hope that helped but good luck!

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JerseyGirl819 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:07 pm:
save the letters and go to the police, the police can help and give you a restraining order or something. Dont worry about it just tell someone but im proud of you for breaking up with that guy, it takes guts

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