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well, i have been having bad luck lately, and i dont know why, because last year i could basically go after anybody that i had wanted to go after, and had achieved what i had been wanting almost every time. this year is way different, because i have had only one, and that is crazy.
I dunno why, but i have had quite a few turn downs lately!
Heather
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You have to take your time dont go after someone you like then the next day just pick someone else try having a long term realationship it doesnt matter how many you can get in a day/week ect. as long as you have some one it shouldnt matter if you can get alot of ppl you like
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Hun,I dont know what your beliefs are,but I need to tell you some things,you make your own luck,there really is no such thing as "good" or "bad" luck,your just trying to create excuses for your latest dating rut.Just calm down,and wait,the dating game will pick up again,sooner or later.(Maybe your getting all the turn downs,because the rate you go through guys,you know,guys have feelings too.)
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Okay, this could be for a number of reasons. The more guys you date, the higher your status amongst them. Therefore, perhaps the guys are now starting to feel intimidated by you and feel they couldnt match up to the standards of the other guys you've dated or what you expect from guys in general, determined by what you've been able to get before.
Also, you may have created a reputation for yourself of being a player or (im really sorry to say it) a slut if you have went out with lots of people as your question kind of implys. This would put off other guys from dating you.
What I'd suggest you do is play it down for a while. Don't be as flirty and dont try to go after anyone in particular. Concentrate on yourself and having a laugh with your friends. Then in time guys will see what a great person you are and you'll have the male attention again, just try not to let it get to your head and end up in the same situation as before.
Hope this helped, good luck
Sapphire Lily xxx
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