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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.




My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.

I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.

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Today my boyfriend and I were making out, and he put his hand up the back of my shirt. He has done that many times before and its fine. Nothing else happens. But today he kind of made his way to the front and tried to get up to my chest. I didn't say anything. I just kind of subtly put my arm in his way and he stopped. He didn't try again and I never told him to stop so I can't blame him, but I got really upset. I actually started crying which was weird because I don't cry much at all, but I tried to hold it back, and I told him it was just my contacts bothering me. He kept asking what was wrong but I couldn't tell him. I could only say "I don't know". I can't get myself to say the words. I want to wait a while and I know he cares about me, I'm sure he would be willing to wait till I'm ready for that. But I don't know how to tell him. He's shy about things like this when you actually talk to him about them so I think telling him face to face might be really difficult.
HOW do I tell him? When can I bring it up? How do I put it into words? What do I say to him exactly?

The best way is to just TELL him and be direct about it. Until you do tell him he won't know and this same problem will just come up each time until he starts to think he's doing something wrong. And the thing is even though he is doing something wrong (something you don't want to do) you're also partially responsible because you're not telling him.

If you can't tell him it to his face tell him over the phone or online or in a text message or something. Either way, find the best way you can tell him and just let him know what's going on. I have to say though I find it weird that this guy is your boyfriend, you've made out with him but you can't tell him this face to face because he will get shy about it. :/ The way I see it, if he can do the deed he should be able to talk to his girlfriend about it too so if you can do talk to him face to face about it. The thing is, and I only thing long term here, you can't keep on having to tiptoe around him when it comes to things like this just because he's shy to talk about it face to face. It doesn't work that way and you'll find it will just complicate things more as time goes on. I mean this was just a small issue but imagine when things get further along the relationship or if it's something really important - you both need to be able to sit down and talk about it face to face because you can't talk about everything in a text or on AIM. Sit with him, cuddle up if you want as it may make you and him feel more relaxed and comfortable and then start by bringing up that day and how he was asking you what's wrong and you said you didn't know. Then just say you think you might know what it is but don't leave him hanging - the last thing you want to do is make him think your breaking up with him or something. From there just tell him what you wrote above or, if you really want to, write it down in a letter to him and show it to him while your there. Either way, let him know and talk bout it. Showing him it and then just not saying anything about it will not solve anything. Make sure he understands you're not ready and that everything between you both is okay. Trust me once you've gotten it off your chest you'll feel a lot better about it and realise it wasn't really half as hard as you thought it might be. :]

Good luck.

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Me and this guy have been back and forth, I can't never know for sure if he likes me or not.
I told him I like him, but he never said anything back to me. But he always talks to me; always txt me; always emails me.......

We went out one night, and both got drunk.
He told me how beautiful I am, and he always loves me(yes, love is the word he used), and then he kissed me. (for really long time.....)
The next day he called and asked me what did he say the night before..........(he only remember he made up with me, but doesn't remember what he said to me!!)
Then he asked me out again for movie, but barely talked to me the whole time when we were out. I asked him why did he kiss me the first place (the night we were both drunk), he said "it just happened."

WHAT?!! I'm confused!! Does he like me or just try to get into my pants?!! Help!!

Although I agree with the other two posters about how you may not just be a conquest or a person whos pants he is trying to get into I will say I'm not so sure about the whole liking you part. From what you have described and how he has been acting (the part of him not being able to remember is a lot of rubbish - he remembers all of it) I think he's jus confused about what he actually wants with you. He's probably unsure of commitment or just how he exactly feels about you which is why it took him being drunk to make a move on you and say what he had said. When he sobered up the next day he was able to say he was just drunk and he didn't know what he did or what was said so you don't push the issue. I've known the exact same thing to happen before to friends (friends on both sides of the wall so to speak). I think the best thing to do is give him some time to sort out what it is he wants but not to push things too much since the last thing you want to do is seem to be forcing him into deciding. However, that said, you shouldn't have toput up with his drunken advances only for him to say the next day 'it just happen' - you deserve to know where you stand with him. So I will say if it happens again then ask him for an answer because you deserve that. :]

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Hey everyone, I have broadband internet but my internet is running slow at the moment.
It's not my computer, my computer is fine and so is MSN/AIM. It's just when I try to load a webpage it takes forever to load, and when I try to watch a YouTube video it takes forever to load. I've scanned my computer and it hasn't picked up on any viruses/trojans so I don't know what to do.

I have unlimited usage so that's not the problem.

I don't know what to do.

It would have been helpful if you had included what company you are with but my first suggestion is to try scanning your computer for adware since that junk will sometimes hog up your internet speed and totally kill your fast connection. If it's not that then I would suggest ringing up customer support (of the ISP you're with) and asking them what's going on.

Usually it's a problem on their end since you've already checked your own PC. IF they ask you to make changes to your computer and you are totally sure there's nothing wrong on your end let them know so they are not wasting your time. Many a times I've had them tell me to shut down and restart and do little tweaks which I know are not the problem and every time I have told them I am not a computer noob and know what I am doing - and it turned out the problem was on their end. :/

One thing you must remember as well with 'unlimited' broadband is that many of them have a fair-use statement in the contract which does place some restrictions on you. If you excessively download from the net they will strangle your connection down to a crawl (happen to me once). Try an online speed check (try using google and as well as using 'speed check' as the keywords also include the name of your ISP incase they offer their own speed checks (like Tiscali do with me) and you can use that to see how slow it's going. You can then use that to show customer support that your connection is not running up to standards for what you are paying for and they will hopefully attempt to try and fix things up if the problem is on their end.

Also note that after heavy rainfall (and during heavy rainfall) your connection can also be effected heavily. During rain storms over here I sometimes have to just disconnect the net becuase it slows down so much or keeps on phasing in and out of connection (very annoying while trying to talk to someone).

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wats the difference between platnium and just normal ps2 games??

i mean i bought some ps2 games ( i dont have a ps2 console yet getting one soon.. i know "why get games when you dont have da console? it was on special lol ) and it said platnium.

like do i need a special console to play them or something?? or can i play it with a normal ps2 as well??

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP !!

The term 'Platinum' is a status that is given to that specific title to show how popular it was on the amount shipped so rest assured you can play the game on your PS2 without any problems at all. :]

I'm not sure of the exact figures for games but for the music industry in Canada 50,000 units is gold and 100,000 units is platinum and in England (for albums) 60,000 is silver, 400,000 is gold and 600,000 is platinum.

The publishers of the game include this status on their cover art to basicaly show how good the game had done in sales. :]

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I was just wondering..
If four people are in a car and three of them are smoking weed.. does the fourth one [the one not smoking] end up with any of the affects?

Yes, it's called passive smoking. It's the reason smoking has been banned in public places (public buildings such as pubs, clubs etc) here in the UK. Although not as strong you can still suffer from the effects (which are just as bad as smoking yourself I would imagine). Some people only need a little to feel the effects and others need more so you may or may not actually feel the effects but in an enclosed space like that of a car with everyone smoking it I would say it's more likely you will feel its effects.

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anyone noe a site with auto talker for runescape??

the background was blue.. i forgot the name of the site...

it had auto fighter on it... it had 2 versions it had auto woodcut had auto click and heaps more!!

can someone find it??? please??? or if they know it???

thanks !!!

trev1993

Wow, another runescape player - I don't see many on here.

I know of the auto talker you are referring to (comes in very handy when trying to sell something in a very player heavy world). I don't actually recall the site where I had downloaded it from but if you are still after it you can download it from the following link:

http://www.thedevilsoffspring.com/autotalker.rar

This is NOT the site where you saw it (I'm not even sure if that site still exists and if it does it requires having to go through all the sites out there claiming to have runescape hacks - something I'm not prepared to do when you can very well do this yourself). Although the file is safe (I have tested and scanned it already) you download and use it at your own risk and if caught using it on Runescape it will be your own responsibility incase you are banned. :]

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I'm not sure if I'm still sick or not so what temperatures will tell me that I'm not? my body temperature measurement goes by Farenheight.

The normal core body temperature of a healthy, resting adult human being is said to be around 37 degrees celsius (98.6 degrees fahrenheit) however it must be pointed out that this can vary depending on a number of things such as where the temperature is taken from and what time of day it is taken (in the mornings when the body is at rest it may vary to the temperature at night due to muscular activity and after food intake).

Best bet is if you feel you are ill is to get further advice from your family doctor just to be on the safe side. Bare in mind that you also don't have to feel really hot (or have a temperature) to be coming down with anything so if in any kind of doubt by all means speak to a professional, like your doctor.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year. He had put me through a lot of crap... All my friend's have told me to break up with him but I never wanted to:( He is starting to get mad at me because I am not always all over him( kissing, hugging and doing other things) He has told my friend that if I dont change then he will break up with me:( I don't want that to happen because I really like him. So I told him that I will try to be all over him and stop being to shy. He has given me another chance but if i blow it this time, he said it will be over:( I really don't want that to happen! So please do what ever yeah can to help me!

To be perfectly honest I think your the one who should be breaking up with him and not the other way around. Just because you really like him do you really think he feels the same way if he's so willing to break up with you just over something so stupid? I know it's probably not what you was expecting to hear but you're being blinded by your love for this guy to be able to see how much of a jerk he is being and how much he is NOT worth the hassle. All he seems to be interested in is how much you're all over him and there's more to a relationship than that. :/ Has he been this way right from the start since you started going out with him? Frankly I'm surprised you have put up with it as long as you have if he has been but yes, I think the best thing you can do is tell him he either accepts you for who you are and how you are or he can go find someone else. You shouldn't have to change who you are just to keep him. I mean seriously - were you all over him before you both started going out? Was that why he asked you out in the first place? My guess, the answers to both questions would be no so there's NO reason you should or need to change now just to please his ego. The ultimate decision is yours to make obviously but I suspect he will eventually just find another reason to get rid of you (everyone has their own version of what love is but he seems to care more about how you act than who you actually are). You can do better than this guy.

"The hardest thing about growing up is that you have to do what is right for you even if it means breaking someone's heart. Including your own."
--Author Unknown.

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http://www.lyricsdownload.com/spongebob-squarepants-sweet-victory-lyrics.html

who actually sings it?

The song is sung by an actor/singer called David Eisley (a search in google should point you to his web site). He's appeared in various independant movies as well as some TV shows (like Beverly Hills 90210).

The song 'Sweet Victory' was sung by him and brought by the producers of Spongebob to use in the episode called 'Band Geeks' (one of the most funniest episodes I've seen). Just for the record, the track is not available as a single (at least not yet unless David decides to release it) and he had never completed the song - it's only a 90 second track/recording.

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my friend and i were at his house with all my other friends but then he told them to go away so that he could dye my hair. i was really wet when i first got there so he lent me a t shirt and boxers to wear. so when they got out of the house we were alond in his room and he kinda started feeling me and put his hands on my waist. he was all over me and even tried to finger me. he was lifting up my shirt but then i was like what are you doing?? you have a girlfriend!!!! so it kinda ended there but i dont know what to do because i really like him. the thing is maybe he doesnt like me but just wants to do stuff with me. ugh what do i do??

To be perfectly honest with you if he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you then you should think twice of even hooking up with someone like that because he could very well do the same to you as well. They all say they'd never do that to *you* but they lied once with their girlfriend already what's to say that's not all lies as well?
If he is your friend then fair enough but I think best way is to keep yourself clean of his mess and make it clear to him you don't want that to happen again. I have to admit I admire the fact that you put a stop to it before it got too far even though you do really like him. All I can really say is talk to him and tell him you don't want it to happen again. As long as he knows that you should be okay. I think overall this guy is just not worth getting involved in a relationship with (it's one thing to cheat on his girlfriend with a perfect stranger but to do it with his friend is just pushing it) because quite honestly he's madeit obvious he can't be trusted. I mean can you honestly say you could be with him and trust him not to do the exact same thing to you behind your back? I know you can't help who you like but you CAN decide who is and who isn't right for you or worth getting involved with.

"People think it is holding on that makes you stronger, but sometimes it's letting go."
--Author Unknown.

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REALLY LONG, AND IM SORRY..
but i had to tell the whole story so you would understand it.



16/f
At the end of my freshman year I became friends with this girl Katelyn. Me and Katelyn became really close, and she was my BEST friend. We Spent everyday in the summer together!!
I always had a boyfriend, Katelyn never had a real relationship.
So during the summer I was dating a kid name Bradley. He was great, and he always took me and Katelyn to the movies(of course katelyn paid her way) But I wasnt allowed to go, so i had to sneek. And I ALWAYS thought she liked that i took her along.
So comes 10th grade and we start out close, best friends, nothing is wrong. Then I start dating Marcus, I REALLY Liked Marcus, so I didnt sneek to the movies or anything with him. So I spent everyday with him(bad move, i know) So me and Katelyn start to loose our closeness. (i;m still with Marcus) So come Feb. we get into a BIG fight. Mainly bc i would sit with her at lunch, but she wouldnt say one word to me the whole time.(bc she got other friends, which are the fakest people in my school.) So we got into a fight.
Now I was in class with her old best friend. (Long story sort, Betty was a hoe our freshman year and said some guy raped her, when he really didnt. And it was at katelyn's party. ) So Im in calss with her ALL year. So when me and katelyn get into a fight, i start talking to Betty more. And I start saying things about Katelyn that at the time i would thing to myself and say "shouldnt say that" but Katelyn was my main friend, and I didnt have one after her. And I wanted a friend sooo bad. So i would talk about Katelyn behind her back(fake i know)
But now she wants to be friends again. I want to so baly bc i miss her soo much. She was like a sister to me. But i dont want to go back to school and people think Im fake and all bc of the things I said this/last year.
What should I do? Be friends with her again and not care what people say or think bc i have my best friend back.
Or not be friends with her bc of the things I said??
Please help me!.. =[

Hmm, quite a mess really but I think the best thing to do is if you're starting fresh with your friend it's to make sure the air is compltely clear between you both. So that means tell her you're sorry about things you sometimes said but also make sure you do tell her you said them out of anger or because you were upset she and you were no longer talking. Make sure she knows you've missed her and TELL her you've always thought of her as a sister. SHe won't know unless you do. Who cares what anyone thinks of you back at school (to say you're a fake is like saying you can't change your mind about who you like and who you don't - very pathetic and narrow minded). I mean ask yourself what's more important to you - having your friend back so you can both try build your friendships up again or what people at your school will say? People always talk it's no big deal (I guess in a way it's karma since people will now be talking about you in the same way you did about your friend).

Also, I know you said it was a bad idea but I'll say it anyway. Spending every free moment with your boyfriend/girlfriend is never a good idea. You should always balance out time with your partner as well as time with friends. Relationships are not a guarantee so if after you ditch all your friends and then your partner walks you're going to be left with no one.

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14/f
about 4 years ago all the guys i new at school hated me, and i cried just about everynight. slowly we became friends again, im frineds with them now. im confused aobut guys and trust, does that have anything to do with it?

I'm afraid the question is very vague so I'm not entirely certain I can give you an adequate answer. I will say though that trust does does walk hand in hand with friendship. I mean if you can't trust someone would you really call them a friend. Guys can be very manipulative anyway (as can be both sexes) but if there's one thing I do know about groups of any kind of people it's they can sometimes act like a pack of wolves or like a swarm of locusts. They will stick together and follow the lead of the others. If the minority hate someone they all hate them - most of them probably not even knowing why, it's just so they fit in. As I said though your question was very vague (did you betray someone's trust for them to hate you?) so I can't really give a definitive answer but I hope this was okay.

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what do you do when you realize you don't love your boyfriend?

this sounds horrible but im so lost
my boyfriend is so completely in love with me but i dnt feel anything for him... at all

i used to but it's been 6 months and he's lied to me so many times i just get disgusted by him now

and we've broken up 4 times and everytime lasted about a week then its back because he apologizes real well and promises to be better, it really destroys him when we break up and i never want to hurt him. breaking up never works, we always get back together! we were best friends for about a year before we ever started dating so i care for him but i don't love him, im sure of it.

i talk to him, he doesnt get it. the thing is we are so perfect for eachother but i don't feel it with him.
can i make myself love him?

If you really do feel there is nothing there anymore then you are only hurting yourself and him by actually forcing yourself to stay in a relationship that will eventually lead to just more hurt for both of you. Unfortunently just like you can't help who you fall in love with you can't force yourself to fall in love with someone. If you really want to try and help things then maybe a small break away from each other might help as well as give you a chance to think about things or maybe even having a romantic night out or something like that (something you both used to do when you both started seeing each other).

The thing is though that you mentioned he has lied to you a lot, that is a really bad thing for a relationship as it tends to eat away at the trust between the couple until it gets to the point you just can't trust the other person at all and you start to second guess everything they say or do. I believe once it gets to that point the relationship starts to take a very fast dive downwards which is probably what has been the flashpoint of the downfall and the cause of why you feel the way you do.

I think you should think things through and decide what it is YOU want. It's really nice that you do care about your boyfriend as well and that you don't want to hurt him but being in a relationship just for that reason is unfair to you and it's unfair to him, imagine how he will eventually feel when he finds out you've been with him so and so long and you never felt anything for him all that time? I won'tlie and yes it will be hard on him (as well as on you) but that's something you can't prevent. Relationships walk hand in hand with getting hurt, it's a part of the deal.

"The hardest thing about growing up is that you have to do what is right for you even if it means breaking someone's heart. Including your own."
--Author Unknown.

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i need some help....anyone know of a protection spell against curses?

There's a number of stores now on the highstreet that sell a ariety of items and enchanted items you can carry on you that provide protection from evil, protection from curses etc, etc. Generally these are Wiccan based stores and I will openly admit they are well worth a visit (we have one very similar store here where I live where they sell a variety of such charms and stones for rituals/meditation). Although many believe black magic to be nothing but a myth I do not so I would suggest, if your own spell casting fails to satisfy, that you seek out one of thse stores and simply ask them if they keep anything that would help. If not the other option is to seek out a Hindu priest who can perform a protection blessing for your boyfriend. I had this done when I was very little, reasons of which I prefer not to say nor discuss in the open, but if your boyfriend is very much in need of protection then it's the best form I can suggest.

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ok this is gonna be kinda long.. but i would really appreciate some advice on this =) okay so basically i went out w/ this guy for like a year.. then i broke up w/ him for a few reasons. and he kinda knew that i liked one of his best friends a little but that was only for like a few days. and i kinda just wanted to be single. andd my friends didnt really like him so i got pressured from them too. so yeah i did it. and i was really mean to him after. like i would just bitch at him for no reason.. i guess i did it because 1. i still liked him but i was like trying to push him away 2. he got over it pretty quickly..probably b/c i had done this a few other times 3. his friends were bothering me 4. he found a new girl like a week later (they werent going out though). yeah so anyways i was pretty much a bitch to him and i dont think i was the best gf either. and it kinda sucks that it took all this to realize that but i know its a lot to ask but i just want to be friends w/ him b/c like when you go out w/ someone for like a year you get kinda close w/ them and then its like a big loss in your life when theyre just gone. but the problem is he doesnt want to talk until the end of the summer.. and by then i dont think we will ever talk againn soo yeah what should i do? like i understand i was such a bitch to him but i apologized and some of the reasons were his fault. what should i do? sry its so long xoxo

The truth of the matter is there's not really much you can do. If you have already apologized to him and explained yourself the rest all falls on to him and for him to make a decision. If he was the one who said to wait till after summer then that's all you can really do. Thing is you don't want to keep pestering him about it either because this might do nothing but push him away instead. So all you can really do is wait it out until he decides what he wants to do. Did you also make it clear that you want him as a friend and are not asking for him back? From what you said it did sound like you're just wanting to be friends again and that's it and as long as he knows that it's good. I only say this because it's strange he has opted to tell you his answer after the summer and the only real reasoning I can come up for that is that he wants to remain single over the summer so he's free to do as he pleases and then afterwards he can mend things with you. If this is the case then I think it's unfair for you to be putting your life on hold just for his convenience.
If it's just to start talking as friends again though then I'm afraid all you can do is wit it out. :[

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Alight this is kinda hard to explain but ill try my best to make it as clear as possible.My girlfriend and I sleep together almost everynight depending on if she is at my house my parents allow this and yes we have sex. so anyway we would have sex before we go to sleep and everything would be fine but i would begin to dream about makingout with her or having sex with her or somethng sexual and when i finally like awake fromt he dream that is what i am doing.we would be making out or beginning to have sex and i dont want to sleep threw the whole thing and something bad happen or if i am sleeping near my parents to do it infront of them that would be bad so my question is why am i doing this and how can i make it so it doesnt happen even though it is kinda hot in a way. Thanks a Bunch sry for it being kinda long

Have you actually spoken to your girlfriend about this? I would suggest you talk to her and find out exact details - such as who initiates things to begin with, being the most important. If its been her every time I think you may not have much to worry about. Her doing this will obviously turn you on and those feelings will be processed by your brain in the relevant manner only for you to wake up and see it's how you really are feeling. However I will say i am saying all this based on my own personal experiences and not as a professional. If though its been you who has been initiating sex and such while you've actually been asleep I would suspect sleep walking (technically you're not walking but I believe the meaning is the same - that you're doing something in your sleep). It might be embaressing but I would suggest getting help from your doctor who can look into it for you and get to the bottom of it. I'm sorry I can't really be more definitive.

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Hey, can you guys listen to my song and tell me what you think.. And some adive also, if you have any

I'm kinda shy, so i'm not ready to share this with people I already know.

http://www.purevolume.com/songsfortheweek

thanks

*EDIT*
That's quite okay. :] I'm not saying you're a bad singer though at all, just so you know. Just that you need to work on it a little more. Don't worry about the shyness either, that will pass in time but do stick with it. It takes a lot of courage to sing and have people listen to it, even complete strangers, so do stick with it. I'd love to hear your next try. :]


The music and such is awesome. The only drawback is the vocals. They were okay but I think you can do a lot better. :] For starters you have to try and avoid singing them like you're reading them from paper. Really sing them and put some feelings into the words. It's hard to describe what I mean but if you listen to a few song and look at the lyrics at the same time you'll hopefully see what I mean. :] Don't stop though whatever you do. I liked it, just a little tweak with the vocals and you'll be there. :D If you do re-do it by all means send me a linky to it and I'd be more than happy to check it out again.

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OK, everytime I think someone else is prettier than I am, my bfflad, Bethanie, always says the ones I say have no boobs. What and the heck is so important about big boobs!!?!?!?!?!?!? I mean i dont mind having a bigger chest than them but wats the point if they do or not. I mean big boobs arent everything are they?

No their not so you're right there. To some girls the only reason big boobs are such a big deal is because they seem a great way to pick up guys and get guys' attention. But the downside is that do you really want attention and want to be with someone who's sole reason for even liking you in the first place was the size of your boobs?! It's short sighted and narrow minded for anyone in my opinion to like or dislike someone just because of the size of their boobs. I've always gone with the understanding that no matter how pretty a girl is or how big her boobs are she'd best know something after talking to her for 15mins (i.e. have a half decent personality) otherwise I'll just not be interested. I am seriously... it's not like I can have a decent conversation with some girls (big) boobs is it?

With guys its generally down to preference. Some like big boobs others don't and the others don't really care one way or the other (like myself) but from my point of view I'd have to agree with what you said and say no, big boobs ain't everything. Any guy who thinks they are and goes out with you just for that reason is a fool and probably best avoided.

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How do you open a locked door?

I saw in a movie that you can open them with a strong card. Is that true? I tried it with a hotel room card and it just bent it. ha ha.

Can you explain to me how to do it?

Thanks!~

As viciousxpunk said, this technique for picking a lock is very, very old. Nowadays it is very rare to see a door that can be picked in this fashon (I have done so with my kicken door because it's an old door BUT it also supports a dead bolt so when I've come home at past 4am and tried it, I failed and had to wake up the parents to let me in anyway, lol). It is possible to do though but as stated it only works on the really old locks as well as those which have not been fitted correctly. For additional information you should be able to do a quick google search and get a load of sites where they show how it's done as well as tons of additional information.

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when i look in the mirror at myself it looks so much different then when i take a picture of myself then look at it. when i take a picture of myself it looks like i have black shadows under my eyes, but when i look in the mirror i can't see it. why is this?

Shadows like those you mentioned are usually the result of wrong or inadequate lighting. If you ever see a professional photoshoot you'd notice they have a white screen infront of the model (next to the photographer) which has a very powerful lamp reflecting light on it. This prevents direct and very powerful light on the person in the picture (the lamps are very powerful and not nice to stare directly at) but provides a very good amount of light being directed directly on the subject (from the white boards) that prevent any shadows under the eyes. The best bet is to use powerful lighting (not a flash because they also cause red-eye as well as still causing shadows, just powerful lighting) to take pictures. I found using my parents lamp (a very powerful lamp used for making video movies which can be attacked to the larger cameras or tripods) to be very useful when I need to take clear and shadowless pictures.

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