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boys are impossible
ok this is gonna be kinda long.. but i would really appreciate some advice on this =) okay so basically i went out w/ this guy for like a year.. then i broke up w/ him for a few reasons. and he kinda knew that i liked one of his best friends a little but that was only for like a few days. and i kinda just wanted to be single. andd my friends didnt really like him so i got pressured from them too. so yeah i did it. and i was really mean to him after. like i would just bitch at him for no reason.. i guess i did it because 1. i still liked him but i was like trying to push him away 2. he got over it pretty quickly..probably b/c i had done this a few other times 3. his friends were bothering me 4. he found a new girl like a week later (they werent going out though). yeah so anyways i was pretty much a bitch to him and i dont think i was the best gf either. and it kinda sucks that it took all this to realize that but i know its a lot to ask but i just want to be friends w/ him b/c like when you go out w/ someone for like a year you get kinda close w/ them and then its like a big loss in your life when theyre just gone. but the problem is he doesnt want to talk until the end of the summer.. and by then i dont think we will ever talk againn soo yeah what should i do? like i understand i was such a bitch to him but i apologized and some of the reasons were his fault. what should i do? sry its so long xoxo
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I know its hard. But give him space. The entire summer seems a little extreme but at least a couple of weeks to himself to realise how much he'll miss you. Then about halfway or more through the summer call him and tell him your still so sorry and you want to make it up to him and that if maybe he'll forgive you that you guys can be just friends because tell him not only was he your boyfriend but one of your bestfriends and after the brake up you lost both and you want your best friend back. Hope I helped somehow.
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well you put yourself in a difficult position with this, but the most i can say is that you apologize again, and say everything you just said about the reasons why you want to be friends with him. you could also try telling him why you acted the way you did, so he understands. good luck!
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Its true what ammo said, all you can do it wait until the end of summer. Don't bother him no more about and try to be nicer to him. Even if some of the reasons was his fault, that won't help much to get him to be your friend right? And you did apologize the rest is on his shoulders and there is nothing more you can do. But good luck and I hope everything goes well for you?
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The truth of the matter is there's not really much you can do. If you have already apologized to him and explained yourself the rest all falls on to him and for him to make a decision. If he was the one who said to wait till after summer then that's all you can really do. Thing is you don't want to keep pestering him about it either because this might do nothing but push him away instead. So all you can really do is wait it out until he decides what he wants to do. Did you also make it clear that you want him as a friend and are not asking for him back? From what you said it did sound like you're just wanting to be friends again and that's it and as long as he knows that it's good. I only say this because it's strange he has opted to tell you his answer after the summer and the only real reasoning I can come up for that is that he wants to remain single over the summer so he's free to do as he pleases and then afterwards he can mend things with you. If this is the case then I think it's unfair for you to be putting your life on hold just for his convenience.
If it's just to start talking as friends again though then I'm afraid all you can do is wit it out. :[
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