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I don't get him at all !!
Me and this guy have been back and forth, I can't never know for sure if he likes me or not.
I told him I like him, but he never said anything back to me. But he always talks to me; always txt me; always emails me.......
We went out one night, and both got drunk.
He told me how beautiful I am, and he always loves me(yes, love is the word he used), and then he kissed me. (for really long time.....)
The next day he called and asked me what did he say the night before..........(he only remember he made up with me, but doesn't remember what he said to me!!)
Then he asked me out again for movie, but barely talked to me the whole time when we were out. I asked him why did he kiss me the first place (the night we were both drunk), he said "it just happened."
WHAT?!! I'm confused!! Does he like me or just try to get into my pants?!! Help!!
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Although I agree with the other two posters about how you may not just be a conquest or a person whos pants he is trying to get into I will say I'm not so sure about the whole liking you part. From what you have described and how he has been acting (the part of him not being able to remember is a lot of rubbish - he remembers all of it) I think he's jus confused about what he actually wants with you. He's probably unsure of commitment or just how he exactly feels about you which is why it took him being drunk to make a move on you and say what he had said. When he sobered up the next day he was able to say he was just drunk and he didn't know what he did or what was said so you don't push the issue. I've known the exact same thing to happen before to friends (friends on both sides of the wall so to speak). I think the best thing to do is give him some time to sort out what it is he wants but not to push things too much since the last thing you want to do is seem to be forcing him into deciding. However, that said, you shouldn't have toput up with his drunken advances only for him to say the next day 'it just happen' - you deserve to know where you stand with him. So I will say if it happens again then ask him for an answer because you deserve that. :]
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If you were just a conquest he probably would have moved on ny now, and he wouldn't waste his time with the emails and texts. I think it's safe to say he likes you. I don't know for sure but maybe he does remember what he said that night, that could be the reason he's acting weird. He could possibly love you. When you are drunk you don’t really care what other people think about what you do or say, so it’s alot easier to just speak your mind.
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wow. that is a bit confusing. But I would say he likes you, he wouldnt waste his time talking to you txting you and emailing you if he just wanted to get in your pants. I think he does like you. especially if hes asked you out twice..... maybe he's just shy or isn't quite ready to make a commitment as your boyfriend. but Im pretty sure he likes you
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