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best friend cheated with me!!!
my friend and i were at his house with all my other friends but then he told them to go away so that he could dye my hair. i was really wet when i first got there so he lent me a t shirt and boxers to wear. so when they got out of the house we were alond in his room and he kinda started feeling me and put his hands on my waist. he was all over me and even tried to finger me. he was lifting up my shirt but then i was like what are you doing?? you have a girlfriend!!!! so it kinda ended there but i dont know what to do because i really like him. the thing is maybe he doesnt like me but just wants to do stuff with me. ugh what do i do??
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Girl, stop right there.
Sorry but if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend for you, what makes you think that he isn't going to do the same thing to you, anyways?
First, you have to tell him that if he's taken, he shouldn't be doing that! He crazy, what if your bestfriend found out?! That would awful, so I think first thing you have to do is tell your bestfriend, come clean, so she knows what her man has been doing.
As for you, I'd start looking for another guy to like because no one likes cheaters. Lol. I'm not saying cheaters can't change, but when it was with your bestfriend, it's just.. No. Just look for another crush. Lol. Good luck.
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Tell your friend what happened, and be like I told him no and he stoped. Im soo sorry. And tell him that were friends nothing more.
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You will never now how he feels until you talk to him.
If he likes you tell him you like him and then he'll break up with his girlfriend for you.
If he does then tell him he can't do that again.
and if he doesn't do what you tell him,he shouldn't be able to talk to you.
~Hitsugaya~
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To be perfectly honest with you if he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you then you should think twice of even hooking up with someone like that because he could very well do the same to you as well. They all say they'd never do that to *you* but they lied once with their girlfriend already what's to say that's not all lies as well?
If he is your friend then fair enough but I think best way is to keep yourself clean of his mess and make it clear to him you don't want that to happen again. I have to admit I admire the fact that you put a stop to it before it got too far even though you do really like him. All I can really say is talk to him and tell him you don't want it to happen again. As long as he knows that you should be okay. I think overall this guy is just not worth getting involved in a relationship with (it's one thing to cheat on his girlfriend with a perfect stranger but to do it with his friend is just pushing it) because quite honestly he's madeit obvious he can't be trusted. I mean can you honestly say you could be with him and trust him not to do the exact same thing to you behind your back? I know you can't help who you like but you CAN decide who is and who isn't right for you or worth getting involved with.
"People think it is holding on that makes you stronger, but sometimes it's letting go."
--Author Unknown.
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