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Hi. My name is Kaylin. But I'd prefer if you called me Captain Hitsugaya. Please and thank you!
I hope I can help you with your questions!

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If im 14 and i dont ever eat healthy or workout what are the risks?

You could be fat.
And thus might have heart or blood problems.

~Hitsugaya~

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Why is the anime "Bleach" named the way it is? Couldn't they call it Ichigo or Soul Reaper or something related? Thanks in advance.

I think it may have to do with Ichigo's hair.Because it looks bleached....
Other than that,maybe it was made to be a random title.

~Hitsugaya~

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in the universe, whats the difference between white holes and black holes?

A white hole is the exit of a black hole. Or so scientists think...
Nobody has ever found one,but they think it's the exit of one.
Most people think black holes don't end,but some people say that it has to have an end.

~Hitsugaya~

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Hello. I am a rising senior and all my high school days I've been known as the wild/fun girl that could dress. Don't get me wrong I want to maintain that but I want to be more feminie. Maybe a dress and heels, even carry a purse. The only problem is I don't know how to be a gurly girl. I want to be! I want to learn how to carry myself more as a lady. I've always been a tomboy and that has gotten me a little attention but when I start school in the fall I want to be drop dead gorgeous! Please help me!!

It's good you want to be feminine. Most girls don't realize that being feminine isn't the same as letting men control you.
Try to pick out more feminine clothes,particularly cute dresses that show off a little.
But even if it's not a dress,were something that looks like it belong to a girl.
As for your actions,I wouldn't worry about it.
If you like shopping,cute things,and like boys you are girly.
Hold yourself with poise and grace,it shows famininity.Your hair is a key part of being girly. Long hair looks more feminine that short,for example.Style doesn't matter just make sure it looks good.
Don't were too much make-up.Guys like girls who are natural.That makes a girl more beautiful.
And the most important thing is to feel beautiful. If you love yourself inside and out you will feel beautiful. Don't be arrogant but confidence helps to be more attractive!

~Hitsuagaya~

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15/f
what is the best way to masturbate but get the best pleasure?? please help! thanks

The best way to get pleasure is by rubbing your clit.(sp?)
If you never really have before,put pressure on it. Spread the lips a bit.
Alot of people masterbate in the shower and let the water run over it.It causes vibration.

~Hitsugaya~

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So i was with my b/f and i was jacking him off and he was fingering me and then he came on my shirt and then i touched it and then directly after like about 5 minutes after i touched my underwear and put them on...and now i have not gotten my period yet. Now i am a teenager and i'm not that regular yet, but all i do know is that it always comes at the end of (or the very begining) of each month. We did these things about 2 weeks ago. I still havnt gotten it. And i wasnt on birth control. Now idk if this could make me pregnant. i know that theres always a chance, but i got on here to find out form some more experienced people what those odds are. so please help please! i appreciate it if you do..!
thanks for your time

More than likely,you aren't.
I wouldn't think something that small would do it.
I don't know why your period hasn't come. It might just be late or skipping around.

~Hitsugaya~

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wheres a good place to watch anime online? i want to start watching some but i need to start somewhere...

Animepisodes has alot of stuff ya might like.
Youtube has alot of stuff on it too.Just type in the name of the anime and what episode you want.
Sadly,less popular animes don't get the honor of being online. So really,it depends on which anime you like.
Also you could go to google and type in the anime and the episode # and search under videos.

Sometimes the videos don't work if you have an old computer though....

~Hitsugaya~

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I really want to get into watching anime and stuff but i dont like when they arent animated well. Spirited away was good, because it was actually done really really well. so does anyone know any really good ones? shows or movies?

Yep yep! I know lots of anime! Personally I like Bleach and Naruto. They are really good. So is Eureka 7,Fruits Basket,D.N.Angel,Trinity Blood, Pita Ten,Fullmetal Alchemist,Trigun(which you may not like.They animation is kinda old but the storyline is great!), and Blood+.
Any of those are great! I practically watch anime for a living.....so yeah! I like those! You might too!

~Hitsugaya

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Whats the difference between anime and manga?

Anime is short for animeshiyon. Which here in the good 'ol U.S.A. means Animation. Which means it is an animated television show.
Manga are books.The written form of an anime.Not all anime have manga and not all manga have animes. In most cases though,manga are develropled before they decided to make it into an anime.
Anime=show Manga=book,ok?

~Hitsugaya~

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Ok, so i watched this show the other day called Naruto. I loved it! but I want to know where you can buy a Naruto stuffed doll at a cheap price cuz I'm not rich or anything. And does anybody know when the next episode of Naruto is on?! Plz help!

Um...I don't think anything Naruto is cheap....cept the keychains. Most of the stuff is imported from Japan so it costs alot.I know,it sux! You might want to try a surplus website though.Sometimes when people have lots of extra product they sell it in mass quantities on the internet for real cheap.
As for the show times,new episodes are on Saturdays at 7:30-8:30 central. The episode at 8 is new and the one at 7:30 is the previous episode. It comes on Monday-Thursday at 9:30 central. And if you want to watch the episodes from the beginning,go to animepisodes.com . They rarely have the episodes in english on the internet but the Japanese with the subtitles works for me. You could also watch it on youtube.

~Hitsugaya~
p.s. You should try watching Bleach if you like Naruto. It is an awesome anime that comes on Saturdays at 11:00 central. But you should watch they other 39 episodes before just jumping in.

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so heres the deal, my mom doesnt like my bestfriend which by the way is really lame. she only doesnt like her cause i kinda pick up her bad attitude. but the thing is my sisters nvr listen to me and tell me mom everything they are older btw and im f/16 and my parents nvr listen to me, my bestfriend is basically the closest thing i have to family rite now, and i would pick her over anything or anyone, but my mom wont let me hangout with her until i get my attitude up and im not gonna see my bestfriend for three weeks. so i have three weeks to get my attitude, up only thing is i dnt want to get my attitude straight when she is gone cause my mom will be like see she is the problem becasue when she isnt around your fine, but my mom wont let me see her so i cant work on it and show her, that she isnt the problem. pleasee help i mean my bestfriend is the only thing that keeps me sane and she is my world my mom is crazy and idk my bestfriend is always like that is so stupid that your mom doenst like me and blahblahblah witch is true, but i hate it when she talks about my mom like that idk help pleasepleaseplease

Don't let this shake you.If you feel like rebeling,do so.Tell your mom that is it not because of your friend,it's because of her family. Tell her everything you put up on this website. Be firm,sometimes even parents need advice from kids. It might make her realize it has never been about your friend,but abouther trying to control you. At that will hopefully be the point were she lets the baby fly from thenest.If not,you might just have to secretly be friends with her until you turn 18. Then no matter what your mom says,you don't have to listen.

~Hitsugaya~

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hi, i'm a girl of 14 and am hooked on porn sites i know this is dirty and bad my family and friends would be disgusted if they found out i'm practically addicted i'm a really good person inside what shall i do and how do i stop????
thank you

Who says what you are doing is bad? Just because a couple church people,parents,or society says it is doesn't make it bad. What you do by yourself is none of there business.All guys watch porn and none of them feel bad. None of them will ever admit it. If somebody says they do not masterbate,they are most likely lieing.So if you don't want to stop,don't.
But I will still give you an answer to your question.If you really want to stop,block them. If you set the parental controls to where you can not enter sites like that,it won't let you on.
And every time you try to,make yourself feel guilty.

~Hitsugaya~

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I have been dating this guy for 10 months on the 25th of this month. When we first started dating I love him so much, but then we got further in the relationship and I found out things I didn't like for instance I made a fake myspace with a pretty girl for the person and I started talking sexy to him to see if he would go for it or say he has a girlfriend. In conclusion to that he pretty much was all over her and tried to get "her" to come over to him house to have sex. He loves me so it's like every time I try to break up with him he won't let me, it's like I always go back to him. Lately and I have been fighting with him constantly. It's like I'm a bitch to him all the time and I can't stop. Everything he does annoys the shit out of me. It's like I don't like being around him anymore.

What should I do?
Do you think we should break up?
or what?

If you love him,you should talk to him and really get to the root of the problem. Try to figure out what went wrong and try to reverse it.
You need to act like you are still being chased. No matter if we admit it or not,women liked being chased by a g uy.And in turn,men like to chase.It keeps the relationship spicy.Act how you would normally act at the begining of the relationship.You are always complimenting each other and really,sincerely listening to them,and writing love letter,etc. Try to go back to the best them of your relationship.Talk to him about this and tell him if he really wants to be with you,it'll have to be like that.Because otherwise you both will be miserable.

~Hitsugaya~

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I'm in love.

My boyfriend is 18, I'm 16.

We've been going steady for a few months now, no problems and no fights.
We practically live together- he either sleeps over at my house, or I sleep over at his.

No matter what, we cant get enough of each other's company.

A friend of mine told me, that if things are going the way they have been for at least a couple more months, that my boyfriend was thinking about proposing to me.

What should I think of this?
Or really, what should I do if this occurs?
I could see myself with him forever, but I am only 16, raging with hormones.

If you want to say yes,you should. But if you are not sure,tell him wait til you are ready.

~Hitsugaya~

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Whenever I'm with my friends or when I kiss my boyfriend once.. I get nasty comments. I don't understand it. One girl kept saying that leads to.. this! -points to her baby-

It's making me angry because I'm not stupid. She's the one who slept around and didn't use protection.

My friends went through my camera and saw a picture of me in a bra. They screamed in an over reacting way. Yelling /keep your clothes on/ and stuff. "Don't do anything stupid".. when she has done drugs and had sex numerous times. she made herself seem all superior and well, it pissed me off :)

What can I do to make them shut up? I'm older than them and they are not joking, believe me. I'm not stupid enough to make the same mistakes. I've done a lot of sexual things but they insist that I shouldn't do anything and that I'm innocent. I'm on birth control and I already talked to my boyfriend about this. I'll have sex with him when I'm ready and when BC has taken full effect. And he MUST bring condoms or he gets nothing. We have done everything but actual sex. About drugs, we aren't doing any of it.. but we will drink a little together around a group of friends [sober]

Maybe my friends are trying to protect me.. I don't know. but I hate when they tell me that and everything. I'm a year or two older and I've been reading a lot about birth control, sex, etc. They act like it's a deadly sin when I kiss my boyfriend :(

And i hate when they scream in public. They practically said i was naked [when i was not] at a middle school graduation. oh yea, that really makes me look good in front of middle schoolers and parents! it makes me look like a slut and i haven't done anything. people always ask me if i'm a virgin.

You need to get meaner with them.Tell them if you want to do it,you are going to wheteher or not they tell you it is wrong so fighting about it will only corrupt our friendship. You need to make it clear to them that if you make a mistake,which I believe you won't,you will be the one paying for it,not them.
They are just trying to help you because they care,but they are going too far.

~Hitsugaya~

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i have a small thingy and i was wondering if girls even care

Yes women care.But some women might like smaller guys.And it doesn't matter if you can use it well.

~Hitsugaya~

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My friend called me yesterady and told me that she just got done having sex while on her period. The boy cummed inside her and she wanted to know if she pregnant.
Can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period and the boy cummed inside of you?

There is a high possiblity that she is. Usually women can get pregnant a couple days before or after their period.

~Hitsugaya~

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when you're on your honeymoon do you have to have sex? is that what the guy usually expects to happen?

I suppose you don't have to if you don't feel like it. The guy expects it.And that is what the honeymoon is dupposed to be about.It was created just for people to have sex after they get married. If you don't feel comfortable,I guess it would be fine...but it's like tradition.

~Hitsugaya~

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I gave my boyfriend blowjobs maybe 2-3 times every other day. I really enjoy giving them. Is that weird? But at different times, you know? Is that bad for him?

Nothing is wrong with it. If you liek to and feel comfortable doing it,fine.And it's not bad for him either.

~Hitsugaya~

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my period is late. i have had it for a year and a half and it should have come around the 4th of this month and it hasn't. sometimes it even comes earlier but never later. i have never has sex so i am not pregnant. but what is going on? am i just skipping a period or could i still get it this month? it is usually pretty regular.

it's ok,more than likely.

~Hitsugaya~

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