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Porn trouble!!!
hi, i'm a girl of 14 and am hooked on porn sites i know this is dirty and bad my family and friends would be disgusted if they found out i'm practically addicted i'm a really good person inside what shall i do and how do i stop????
thank you
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Watching porn is not a bad thing. You may be under age, but don't worry about that bullshit.
Your family would most likely be unhappy (let's not go with disgusted, you're experiencing something normal.) and your friends, however, MIGHT be but probably won't.
Pretty much, if you want to stop, just don't go visit the sites.
If the only reason you're stopping is because you think people would be disappointed to know it, then continue doing whatever you want.
If you don't get caught, what's the trouble in viewing it?
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well,i really do think youre good and brave to come out here and admit it and claim that you want to change,i respect that.What you need to do to change is have the urge to change,Do you really want to stop?are you really feeling guilty for this,you know your a good gurl,are you sick of this being the only thing ruining your innocence and getting you sins?if the answer is yes to all of that then you are truely ready to change.What you need to do is swear to yourself never to watch this shit again cuz you know its completly usless,it wont get you anywhere,itll just get you sins and beilive it or not,you might even be influenced and decide to try and copy what you see!Make a journal about your improvment,this always works...day one....ive decided to quit watching this shit beacause.....blah blah,you get what im sayin?i really wish you luck
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If its guy porn then I don't see a problem. But if you really want to stop then keep your computer off for a while and find some activities to keep you off the computer.
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Porn and sex can become addicting, especially when you try and deprive yourself and the urge becomes too much and you go crawling back for more.
I would honestly suggest that, if you want to stop, you purge your computer over every hint of the websites and refrain from using the internet for a very long time. Simply being allowed that much power over what you view tends to corrupt people. So chuck it out.
You're not really that bad for looking at any of the stuff, I've known worse people that look at porn and on the outside they are inherantly "good". It's a simple matter of self will if you want to break away from it.
So, get off the internet for however long it takes you and find something time consuming to occupy your time instead of looking at pr0n.
Good luck
-Ryan
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Who says what you are doing is bad? Just because a couple church people,parents,or society says it is doesn't make it bad. What you do by yourself is none of there business.All guys watch porn and none of them feel bad. None of them will ever admit it. If somebody says they do not masterbate,they are most likely lieing.So if you don't want to stop,don't.
But I will still give you an answer to your question.If you really want to stop,block them. If you set the parental controls to where you can not enter sites like that,it won't let you on.
And every time you try to,make yourself feel guilty.
~Hitsugaya~
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ok your not addicted unless you like ditch friends to go on pron its perfectly normal to be curious trust me ive done it im disguested but interested at the same times its wierd but i just dont look at it i have better things to do. go on myspace or IM someone block the sites from your computer so there is no way you can go on>!
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Honestly their is nothing wrong with it. I guess every time you feel the need to look up porn just get off the computer and do something else.
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