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when your married do you have to have sex?


Question Posted Monday July 9 2007, 1:02 pm

when you're on your honeymoon do you have to have sex? is that what the guy usually expects to happen?

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girlygirl3087 answered Monday July 30 2007, 8:52 pm:
it doesnt matter what the guy "expects". its what you want... dont do it just cuase you feel pressured. and hes your husband so he should understand

not much but i hope i got to the point :)

♥.Rachel

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Hitsugaya answered Thursday July 12 2007, 2:24 am:
I suppose you don't have to if you don't feel like it. The guy expects it.And that is what the honeymoon is dupposed to be about.It was created just for people to have sex after they get married. If you don't feel comfortable,I guess it would be fine...but it's like tradition.

~Hitsugaya~

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 4:18 am:
Actually, it is what BOTH parties should expect and WANT. It seals the deal, which is known as consummating the marriage.

That means "To complete (a marriage) with the first act of sexual intercourse after the ceremony."

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It is something special- that first time of having sex as husband and wife.
(Even though in this day and age, most people don't see sex as an act of love or anything special, and see it more as something to do when they're bored on a Friday night.)

I think a guy would kinda think he made a mistake if his brand new wife didn't think their marriage was special enough to have sex on their honeymoon...

ygs-29/f

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karenR answered Monday July 9 2007, 10:24 pm:
That is usually what BOTH newly married couples expect to happen while on their honeymoon. Not
that it is big deal these days since most people
have already been having sex prior to marriage.

Sex is part of marriage. You don't have to
have sex daily, and you can always say no but,
if one partner doesn't like sex then they shouldn't get married.

Of course you don't have to be doing it 24/7.
You do other things as well. :)

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butch2 answered Monday July 9 2007, 9:25 pm:
He most likely expects it but you dont have to do ANYTHING you dont want to do

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orphans answered Monday July 9 2007, 5:13 pm:
Its supposed to be the ultimate gesture of love, thats kinda why you should wait 'til you're married. I would expect it, because love is the most romantic and pleasuring thing really that you can do.

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orphans answered Monday July 9 2007, 3:47 pm:
the whole point of a honeymoon is to have sex. its having sex for the first time being married, or the first time if you waited until marriage.

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orphans answered Monday July 9 2007, 2:51 pm:
ummm yes. that's what happens in marriage. if you're not ready for that you're not ready for marriage.

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viciousxpunk answered Monday July 9 2007, 2:33 pm:
yes, in general that is what is expected to happen. many poeple have sex before that, when they are dating, but couples that want to wait until they are married usually have sex on their honeymoons.

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nikitathecheetah answered Monday July 9 2007, 2:25 pm:
its totally up to you. you should talk to your spouse and ask them if they really are ready to have sex on yalls honeymoon. if they aren't and you aren't don't do it. but yall are both ready go for it!

i hope i helped!

nikita♥

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Cux answered Monday July 9 2007, 2:20 pm:
I would assume that that is what the guy expects, but if you don't want to have sex on your honeymoon, just be open and honest about it with our to-be husband and maybe he'll be fine with it. Don't do anything until you are ready.

--Jack
(15/m)

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