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I'm in love.
My boyfriend is 18, I'm 16.
We've been going steady for a few months now, no problems and no fights.
We practically live together- he either sleeps over at my house, or I sleep over at his.
No matter what, we cant get enough of each other's company.
A friend of mine told me, that if things are going the way they have been for at least a couple more months, that my boyfriend was thinking about proposing to me.
What should I think of this?
Or really, what should I do if this occurs?
I could see myself with him forever, but I am only 16, raging with hormones.
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If you want to say yes,you should. But if you are not sure,tell him wait til you are ready.
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Woah, woah, WOAH babygirl. O_O; It's great that you and your boyfriend have such a close and tight relationship with one another :] Especially with no fights, getting sick of each other, etc. And I believe if you say you're in love, then you are. But marriage is a BIG commitment. And at 16? Fuck that. Most people older than you are still trying to figure out who they are, what they're going to do in life, etc etc. Yeah, it's great you have someone who cares and loves you SO much and wants to be your 'partner in life.' and so on. But would you really be ready for it?? Most marriages make couples settle down, raise a family, give up the partying life, etc. I'm sure you'd like to live a little before you reach 20. I don't care what you want to hear, you are defently rushing the relationship and should slow the F down. Try going a couple days without seeing each other O_o Because if you honestly spend THAT much time together, you're going to get sick of him at some point, sorry to say.
Just slow down, you even said yourself you have raging hormones, lol.
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Slow down, yall have been only dating for a few months, thinking about proposing in relationship of only a few months is too fast, especially if you're only 16, you don't want to get married at a young age and then have the relationship to blowover. Sorry but to tell the truth, most marriages at your age usually blows over and people admit it as a mistake. You say raging hormones? Does that mean that you just want to get married so yall could have sex? Good strong relationships that usually lasts in marriages take years to build not just a few months, I've heard of a relationship that a couple had for years then he gave her a promise ring which that means he wants to marry you, but you're not married til yall are ready. Just Ask yourself some questions and think hard about it. Are you ready this early and give up the "fun life" with your friends? Are you ready to start a family? Love takes time, not a few months, listen to your heart not head. :)
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dont say yes to him until both of you guys have real jobs.
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