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i have ZyXEL G-302 Utility wireless internet. i have dsl box at my family's computer and then my wireless thing gets internet from that i guess?

but the problem is, the zyxel thing can only stay on for about 2 or 3 hours and then my whole computer stops letting programs work. i know for a fact that its this zyxel thing because when im done using the internet i exit out of it and my computer doesnt get messed up like it does when its up all day.

is there something i can do to fix this? or can i get a recommendation on a wireless internet to buy that isnt too expensive? thanks!

i need to know more it may just be that your computer has set options that say that it should shut off within 3 or 4 hours. do you have a yahoo? or msn? if you do then please talk to me on there and i would be able to tell you how step by step to see whats going on

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i dont remeber if i posted this thing bfore, but its really starting to annoy me. i have a twin sister who i am very jealouse of. she is smarter then me, and she is prettier then me and everything she does is just better then me. even her grades and our parents are alll happy over her and my mom always ends up getting mad at me and telling me to try harder whenever i get my report card. i mean and shes skinner then me and idk what to do about it...like im totally jelouse and ive had a million breakdowns about hating the way i am. idk wat to do anymore. i can't handel being second best. i just need advice. what really gets me is that when we move to Gerogia soon, everything depends on your grades and i dont think im good enough bc shes going to do sooo much better then me. i feel like when we move im just going to be a freak with no life while my sister gets all these friends. im 15/f.

you said she is your twin? well then she is your TWIN. she is just like you maybe she does things diffrent but she looks just like you. how does she get ready in the morning? what does she do at school? she is just like you it may be that she is just trying and standing out more what i think is that you need to talk to her and see what she does how she is the way she is and everything that is my advice

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I have known this guy for 8 months. We have been dating for one month now and I am a virgin, would it be bad if I had sex with him? I mean I am ready and everything else.

if you feel your ready for it you should go for it but remember you need protection always use protection i cannot stress that enough

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[16 f] I'm bestestest friends with this girl, we are basically sisters. She has this boyfriend who I don't like that much any more because of certain things he's done. I had a huge party and my cousin told me that he was looking at every females booty in there! AND the 1st time we met, he winked at me and smiled. That was about 6 months ago. Is it too late to tell her or should I even bother to tell her? I didn't want to tell her cuz she seems so happy. But now he does all this stuff and she forgives him. Is there any point of telling her he does/did these things?

friends tell each other when things are going wrong tell her,she needs to know if you are a good friend you would tell her she needs to know that this guy isnt good for her

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ok well i have a problem i have liked guy for almost 2 years and i cant get him out of my head...i cant to get over him i just dont know how.... all my friends have been telling me i need to but its not as easy as it looks and i feel they just dont get it. i am getting really annoyed with thm!!!!!!!pleze help me before i go crazzzzzyyyy!thanx

well you say you have liked this guy for 2 years? well happy for you i have just come off this thing where i have liked this girl for a long time and just asked her out lol what youve got to do is make friends with his friends just get close to him try to get his number and hangout with him then when you feel up to it just ask him out you will never know how he feels if you never ask

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My birthday was June 30th. It was my 16th birthday. I don't know why they forgot my birthday.. they've never forgotten anything of mine before. There wasn't anything going on around that time.. I don't know what the problem is! I am not a bad girl.. my GPA is a 3.85 and I'm always doing chores. Why did they forget? Should I say something? Because every time I tell them they did something wrong, even if it was that they didn't put on their seatbelt, I'm grounded for 2 weeks, and I'm not even exaggerating.
Its been almost 3 weeks since my birthday..

im sorry for you but what i say is i think you should tell them i mean they will feel bad they forgot your birthday? that is not kool they raised you they should know your birthday you hould tell them that is my advice

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15/f

so im going to be a freshman, this september or august or whatever, and im like nervous. does it suckk incredibly? like do they seriously make fun of you? how bad is it?

well no it dosent my thing is its just like going to a new school. of course you wont know anyone and you wont know where things are but no one should pick on you or make fun of you just because your new to the school i hope this helps you

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sorry if this is long but it's making me so upset.

so i went out with 'tom' for almost a year and a half. it was good in the beginning but after awhile i began to like him less and less. it came to the point that the last few months i couldn't even stand him and he was annoying and i ended up always being mean to him because of this. well, while we were going out, there was this girl at work and they always flirted with eachother. in his yearbook she signed a full page saying how much of a best friend he was, and i love you about 10 times atleast. i was there when he was reading it and he just had the biggest smile on his face. he always had stories about her and i asked him, why do you always talk about her. and all he said was because he worked with her. he used to call me right when we got home from school, at 2:30, but for the last few months the only time we would talk (if he worked) was 3 minutes while he was on his way to work. then, one day i saw him walking and he had a big smile on his face, talking on the phone with someone. this was the same day i read the yearbook. i told my friend, if he's talking to 'kayla', i'm going to be so pissed off. and i call him, and im like so who were you talking to, "oh, kayla." oh, why? "i just wanted to know who we were working with today" .. oh okay.
seriously, he couldn't wait two hours to SEE who he was working with? did it really matter that much. okay so moving on. i started to get really annoyed by him, so i knew it had to be done because i was wasting both our time, and i dumped him. well he was all like we should stay friends and not stop talking and blah blah blah. well we were okay with calling every couple days, not really serious, and talking. then we stopped talking for a week or more. (i dumped him around 3 weeks ago). so i saw this girl that works with him, and i was told that he went on a DATE with kayla. i was so pissed off. seriously, i knew that they liked eachother WHEN we were going out. oh yeah, and while we were going out, she had a boyfriend that she's been going out for almost TWO YEARS. and a few days ago, they broke up. imagine the coincidence? now we barely talk anymore, and i was kind of talking to him online and he's all like "you were so mean to me for the last 3 months and i know you were serious even though you say you were just kidding. that's why i'm almost over you" this is coming from the kid that was head over heals for me (not to sound conceited), and was so upset when i wanted to on a break. it's been two weeks after our year and a half relationship, and he's already dating some girl. i'm so upset about this. i even told my friends, even if he went out with the prettiest girl in the world, or even one of my FRIENDS, i wouldn't care as much. it's just the fact that it was her. it's not like i like him anymore, maybe i do .. but i thought i didn't for MONTHS at a time. i want to not care anymore, but it's killing me just knowing that they like eachother and it's over. i don't know what to do. we barely talk anymore, it's all her now. how can i stop caring so much, and move on?

just dont think about him have some funhang out with your friends i cant say you will totally forget about him but at least he should be off your mind you need to have fun get outside go to the mall have fun with friendsa thats all i can tell i hope it helps

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It is really weird. I have always just looked really sporty/athletic because I am.. but lately I have wanted to look more put together. So I have been shopping alot w/ my mom and we find some stuff that I try on and I think it looks REALLY good... until we get home. When we get home and I put it on to wear it For some reason it doesn't look good anymore. I want to be myself but I mostly end up wearing pretty much the same exact style everyday - jeans and a sports t-shirt. I really want to look good and confident but I just can't I dont know why. I also need more dressy outfits that match and look really good together, I guess I dont have an eye for fashion because everything I put on looks bad. So if you have a particular dressy outfit or advice for my fashion problem please help me!

thats everybody problem everytime they want to look a certain way with certain looks they look great at the store but theyt dont think so when they get home my advice to you is get some friends together and see what they think. your friends will tell you what they really think.

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