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I don't know what to do about my boyfriend!
My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year. He had put me through a lot of crap... All my friend's have told me to break up with him but I never wanted to:( He is starting to get mad at me because I am not always all over him( kissing, hugging and doing other things) He has told my friend that if I dont change then he will break up with me:( I don't want that to happen because I really like him. So I told him that I will try to be all over him and stop being to shy. He has given me another chance but if i blow it this time, he said it will be over:( I really don't want that to happen! So please do what ever yeah can to help me!
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He's using you. If the entire relationship is about THAT to him, then he's a jerk.
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u need to let this guy go u dont need a man to run your life like he is and there is a guy out there that well like u because of your shy ways and well not push you to be what he wants!
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Girl, you need to break up with this guy. By the way you make it sound he is just using you. Your friends are right when they tell you to break up with him. You need to because he is so not worth it. I understand you like him and it might be hard for you but you will get over it and in the long run you will see that you would have been way more hurt if you stayed with this guy.
Good Luck!!!
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Uh... If you blow it? Come, now. HE'S the one blowing it, but you are just too love blind to see.
Listen here, if he can't accept you for who you are and wants you to change to suit him, then he has no respect for you what so ever.
Go find yourself a guy to be head over heels for who gives you the respect you deserve.
ygs-29/f
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Listen to me: HE'S NOT WORTH IT!
"He has told my friend that if I dont change then he will break up with me"
Is that the kind of guy you want to be with? I understand that you really like him, but if he can't accept you for who you are, then it SHOULD be over. I'm not saying this to be a bitch, or to be rude, but think about it. You never, EVER, want someone who'll make you change! And I also get the impression that he wants you to do things that you're not comfortable with, right? Or you don't want to take the risk? Can you say JERK?! As hard as it is to move on, there ARE other people out there for you. Someone who WON'T want you to chnage, someone who WILL love you for you, NO MATTER WHAT. I'll admit, the situation you're in isn't easy, and I understand that. But I need you to understand that everything I just explained is for your best benefit. Just trust me; I've dealt with assholes, I've dealt with guys who just wanted my body, and you don't need that. You need someone who CARES, and not just about the physical [pleasures].
Jess♥
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To be honest, he's not worth your time. By saying he wants you constantly all over him, he just proved he only wants you for pleasure and whatnot. A relationship is not about making out 24/7. It's about commitment, trust, and understanding. None of which he has shown you. Break up with him. If he did like you he wouldn't mind the fact that you're a bit shy about public displays of affection. Find someone who likes your for you. Because this guy doesn't.
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To be perfectly honest I think your the one who should be breaking up with him and not the other way around. Just because you really like him do you really think he feels the same way if he's so willing to break up with you just over something so stupid? I know it's probably not what you was expecting to hear but you're being blinded by your love for this guy to be able to see how much of a jerk he is being and how much he is NOT worth the hassle. All he seems to be interested in is how much you're all over him and there's more to a relationship than that. :/ Has he been this way right from the start since you started going out with him? Frankly I'm surprised you have put up with it as long as you have if he has been but yes, I think the best thing you can do is tell him he either accepts you for who you are and how you are or he can go find someone else. You shouldn't have to change who you are just to keep him. I mean seriously - were you all over him before you both started going out? Was that why he asked you out in the first place? My guess, the answers to both questions would be no so there's NO reason you should or need to change now just to please his ego. The ultimate decision is yours to make obviously but I suspect he will eventually just find another reason to get rid of you (everyone has their own version of what love is but he seems to care more about how you act than who you actually are). You can do better than this guy.
"The hardest thing about growing up is that you have to do what is right for you even if it means breaking someone's heart. Including your own."
--Author Unknown.
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