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13/f. so i know the fashion for most girls, is kinda tight jeans around the thighs and then lose ins done on the knee down. well im really skinny, i wanted to know if any stores sold pants like custom made, or for skinnier girls, because i want to wear my pants like that. the only way is if i wear very very shot capri's which end up looking like tight shorts. please help me.

-a skinny teen (link)
American Eagle


I can never seem to talk to guys! My best friends:
Helen, Sarah and Katie talk to guys in class and out ( and obiously me) but i can never seem to get in a conversation that they are in so i just go with someone else like Jess (my m8). It might be because they are the coolest boys in our class and i am just scared, but i would like some advice on what i could do.
Oh.. and i am 13/f if that helps.
And i do like this boy called Harry and i think he likes me, if that helps. But Harry is in the middle (not popular, but not unpopular) if you know what i am saying. An that i really want a boyfriend too.

I am sorry that this is long but, i had to explain everything, so then you would understand.

Thanks alot, anything will do, just say what you think.
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ok so if this i your first time really talking to boys then i would start by getting some guy friends . now as you put it "the coolest boys in your class" might be to much for you at first but that guy harry sounds nice find out what he likes to do and what he like start but talking about that and it well get easy then you just might date but just try
good luck


my boyfriend asked me to marry him but i thought i was under age so i said i cant then he asked to get engaged to me and i dont know what to say
im 15 and hes 16 is it ok or not?

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ok ......
when your young it sounds so easy and hun its not now im not not married so i cant tell you that its good or bad but you have so much more to look forword too. not tring to step on your toes but both of you are chidren well teens and do you really think that your familys are going to let u do this and think about it is... this is going to be the last boy you well ever be with and what next well he want you to have a baby at what 16 do you really want to throw your life away for this boy ? just think about the good thing and the bad but in the end its all up to you!
good luck


are there any risks, or disadvantages to shaving your pubic hair {if ur a female}? (link)
the best thing to do is get waxed my OBGYN told me that if u shave you could get blisters and really bad bumps waxing is really not that bad either it hurts the first time but then its all good and you only have to do it like every 4 weeks


whats a good type of birth control? (link)
The shot go see an OBGYN and ask for depo-Provera its birth control you only have to get it every 3 month and u don’t have to remember to take that pill everyday its awesome !


okay so im a 16/f and im in driver's ed. and i love it. and theres this guy in there with me who i have a crush on. well i kind of talk to him not really because i don't know what to say. i mean like he boxes so i could talk to him about that but how should i talk about boxing if i know nothing about it? and i need flirting tips too. and any ideas what i should say to him? and i was wondering also if he likes me. because the other day he was being mean kinda and making fun of me. and then yesterday he smiled when i was standing next to him and when i walked passed him. so im not sure if he does because we don't talk to each other that much and i think it s because he's kind of quiet/shy so yeah. help! (link)
Ok so first learn some stuff about boxing but not too much have him explains some to you. Second talk about some sports or cars you know about. Third ware some thing like his favorite color one day. Fourth start talking about something that has happened to you. Fifth laugh at some of his jokes. The hole being mean to you thing could mean two things one he likes you and he is trying to find a way to start a conversation second he is doing it because he likes to see u squirm and he wants you to fight back but if he is shy and you want to take it slow ask for a number the do all the stuff I told you to do over the phone but let him ask you out! Good luck


me and my gf have been goin out for over a year now, but before we dated i had a friend in another country who i would talk to, we got very very close, but after i met Alana, and started dating my gf i disconnected from the girl in another country, recently she started emailing e again, b no means have we gotten close again but I never told her about my friend in the beggining cause i was worried of scaring her away, then because the other girl just seened to drift out of memory, but now that he is emailing me i feel i should tell m gf, but im worried about my gf being sad and upset ( we hsve had some arguments recentl but we seem ot have gotten better again.) Shoud i tell her? (link)
Ok so my boyfriend didn’t tell me that he had been talking to some girl and I found out the hard way. You not telling her a her finding out would set her off like it did me especial if she has asked u to tell her stuff and not hide anything I would wait for a good time to tell Her don’t wait for a fight tell her when u think its time


Hi, I am a 22 year old Canadian pre-op FTM transman and I am confused about my feelings for a friend of mine.

This friend and I have been close for a long time and I find myself feeling romantically attracted to her and mostly physically attracted to her accept for one thing. I will explain my dilemma now.

She is also a transexual only she is a pre-op MTF(male to female) which means she hasn't had bottom surgery yet, making her penis a vagina. I consider myself a straight male in a female body and therefore am not attracted to penis'. She knows this and is ok with it, but I find myself unsure of what to do.

I am attracted to her emotionally, but not so much physically because of that.

We slept together once and it was ok. I was nervous so it didn't go as well as it could, but then I said that maybe we should hold off because I realized I wasn't into BDSM like she was, but I have that issue figured out. She is fine with that. We communicate everything before hand.

I don't want to keep changing my mind because I feel like I am using her, even though she keeps telling me I wouldn't be. I don't want to keep changing my mind, but I am unsure of how to persu my feelings.

Should I leave it at friendship? or should I keep trying more on an expiremental basis until we both know what we want? what I want?

I don't know.

Advice would be great!

Thank you.

-Nathan (link)
in this case you to balance each other out in many was if i was in your shoes i would go for it


I have been dating this guy for 10 months on the 25th of this month. When we first started dating I love him so much, but then we got further in the relationship and I found out things I didn't like for instance I made a fake myspace with a pretty girl for the person and I started talking sexy to him to see if he would go for it or say he has a girlfriend. In conclusion to that he pretty much was all over her and tried to get "her" to come over to him house to have sex. He loves me so it's like every time I try to break up with him he won't let me, it's like I always go back to him. Lately and I have been fighting with him constantly. It's like I'm a bitch to him all the time and I can't stop. Everything he does annoys the shit out of me. It's like I don't like being around him anymore.

What should I do?
Do you think we should break up?
or what? (link)
okay so you did the myspace thing to him what makes tou think that he dosen't do this kind of thing all the time leave him and if he u cant to his face of on the phone do it in a email,myspace,text message,or a note just do it before this guy drives u crazy


ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY! (link)
okay so i had close to the same problem i dated this guy that i want to chuch with and we saw a lot of each other and we said i love you too well he left me but not for a girl at first but he wanted me back and a played around to long and lost him well now he is tired of the girls his with and wants me back and im not going to take him back but you might want to take yours back i dont know and o ya it really helped me to show up some where looking cute of maybe if you were to tan on your yard were he could see you or show him what is i missing .... guys want what they cant have that is why the hole time you where dating the other guy he was all in your space and stopped when when you let the guy go right now he is just doing what you did to him !

good luck


what's the best lotion to use for when i'm laying outside that will make me get super tan, fast? anything that i can get at a drugstore, or like walmart/target. even things i can find around the house would work. (link)
baby oil


My boyfriend and I have been dating for half a year. He had put me through a lot of crap... All my friend's have told me to break up with him but I never wanted to:( He is starting to get mad at me because I am not always all over him( kissing, hugging and doing other things) He has told my friend that if I dont change then he will break up with me:( I don't want that to happen because I really like him. So I told him that I will try to be all over him and stop being to shy. He has given me another chance but if i blow it this time, he said it will be over:( I really don't want that to happen! So please do what ever yeah can to help me! (link)
u need to let this guy go u dont need a man to run your life like he is and there is a guy out there that well like u because of your shy ways and well not push you to be what he wants!


what is sex (link)
sex without love is a workout




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