Well I am 13, but I am not your typical 13 year old. I have been through alot, so you can ask me anything. I love to be on here, so I can see what problems people have, so I can try to relate to them. I am a punk, I am no where close to a girly girl. I wear what I want to wear and if anyone doesnt like it then thats their problem. I dont care what others think of me. I wear black nail polish, punk hair style, and I skateboard ALOT! I think there is no problem with bisexuals or gays, even though I am straight. I have a best friend who is gay and I think he is so awesome. I love to help people, and I am really funny once you get to know me. I love my friends to death, and I hope I can help you in anyways that I can.
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Age: 13
Member Since: July 9, 2007
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my friend and her boyfriend were having intercourse(not for the first time) and she says that this intercourse was the one that popped her cherry. after bleeding and stuff she realized a peice of skin was hanging out of her vagina. she's taken pregnancy tests and stuff, and their negative. but this peice of skin is just..there? she says it hurts when she touches it and blood keeps dripping out of her. what could this be??? =O (link)
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He could have ripped something in her vagina.
Hence why it keeps bleeding and the dangling skin.
Hope this helped?
btw it has nothing to do with getting pregnant so theres no worries there
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Does anyone have this straightner?
and does this work at all ?
does it make your hair dead straight? (link)
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i have it, and it doesnt work AT ALL!!!, it will just make it wavy, not even close to straight
i had to take it back
hope i helped :)
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my dad came home drunk 2 nights ago and it got out of control. he packed his bags and left, and scared the shit out of me and my brother and my mom. hes done this like 6 times over the last 15 years when hes been married to my mom, and he cheated on her once when my brother was 7 and i was 6. my mom hid it from us, but had him arressted for a night. most ppl are funny and let go when their drunk, but he's a mean drunk. hes an alcoholic and he cant stop it, so my parents are getting a divorce, my dads gonna live by himself and me and my mom and my brother are moving to a smaller house sometime before december. its by our house now, but i've never lived in a small house and i'm going to miss my dad so much, i don't even know if they are going to give him visitation rights to see us unless he is sober for a certain amount of time. if you can say anything to make me feel better or if you've been through the same thing, i appreciate some advice.thanks (link)
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Well first of all I just want to say I am very sorry to hear about this. Also my dad goes nuts sometimes too. Although he is not drunk, he gets into these moods where he is so mean, and he blames stuff on everyone else, and he cusses and stuff. So I am not going to say I know what you are going through, but I will tell you this. My mom cheating on my dad and now they are divorced. I dont like my mom at all, but I thought I was going to miss her so much. But now, I realize that it is better off without her. And believe me it will be better off without your dad. Of course you are going to miss him, but in time you will realize that being without your dad is the best thing for your family, as well as you. Trust me, and I hope everything turns out ok.
Hope I helped:)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Can your dad/father/parent be arrested for slapping/hitting you?
Heres the low down.
My mom doesnt live with me and my dad.
He blames everything on me.
He calls me everything in the book.
Uses the word fuck in every sentence.
Calls me worthless piece of shit, little fuck, bitch, bastard, remarked about braces and he said fuck your teeth, says "I'm getting sick of you", "go live with your mom".
He accuses my mom of EVERYTHING.
He says that people break into our houses, just to justify that he's better than my mom.
He apologizes, but it's getting to be worthless sorries. I get it all the time.
He's stubborn and he won't listen to anyone.
He's over protective.
I'm getting sick of it. I mean I can take it.
I've been taking it, but sometimes I want to just run away to friends houses just to get away from all the shit.
What should I do?
THANKYOU IN ADVANCE. (link)
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Well you should turn him in, because that's pretty strong verbal abuse. Also you should definetley move in with your mom. I mean that is where you will go anyways, if your dad goes to jail. But you should definetley turn him in.
Hope I helped:)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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About 2 weeks ago my xboyfriend said he wanted to be friends and I was fine with that. We broke up about 4 weeks ago but ever since we had been friends he been wanting to have sex (link)
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Well it sounds to me that he is only using you for sex. If you want to have sex with him then that is a different story, but I would advise you not to. Having sex with an ex is a bad idea, and its only going to cause more conflict. Just tell him no, and like someone else said, if he keeps on asking, then he's not your friend and you shouldnt talk to him.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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well i weigh 140 pouns/13f.
im trying to lose weight this summer, but im going to do volleyball for my school wich starts aug26.
we wear like tight spandex shorts, what can i do to like get rid of the fat onmy legs, like they have muscle, but like fat and its gross so i never wear shorts.
so if i like jogged, would it help, would it also help my arms,butt, and stomach.
thankss. (link)
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Well for your thighs, you can go running. Running with a friend is so much funner. (or listening to music while you run) Also for your abs, do sit ups, and for your arms, lift weights. Also if you pump your arms while you jog, it helps too. For your butt, just do leg lifts. That way it helps your butt and thighs.
Hope I helped :)
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month now, and things are great between us. but we tend to have awkward silences whenever we talk on the phone, and it's really annoying. it also makes me feel bad because it seems like he's bored when we're not talking. what are things i can talk to him about? we talk about basically everything, but i need specific things i can talk to him about.
thanks. (link)
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Well it depends on what he's into. Talk to him about maybe sports or, something you and him both watched on television or something. Also if you and him are at school, talk to him about that. Ask him how his day was, etc. Find out things that you and him can both relate to, or something you both like.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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I'm really into fashion.. but I cannot put a cute outfit together myself for well, me! I'm not into abercrombie and fitch pricey clothes or brand names across shirts. I have no idea what colors look good on me. I've been told red but I cannot wear red at school.. since I'm usually there.. I don't bother buying it. Help? I'm going to be a junior next year and I want a makeover. Makeup tips, fashion tips, hair cut [?] style?
I can do a makeover for someone else but not myself. I've changed my look so much by myself and it comes out bad. I just want opinions!
Here's me
http://i7.tinypic.com/4zx9fus.jpg
http://i16.tinypic.com/61oeib8.png
I'm kinda small. 5'0-5'1 85 pounds. I'm 16. I have dark brown eyes that I would love to brighten up. Makeup tips/brands? I dyed my hair black to cover up previous dyes, some dark brown [natural color] is peeking through eh. It's also naturally wavy. Any way to wear it pretty and have it out of my face?
I really like the style of Forever 21 and Wet Seal.. I just usually wore black for many years because I thought color looked bad on me. So I'm kinda lost with fashion. It's all cute things that I think won't look good on me. Help please :]
Pictures would be nice and lots of responses too. Any tip would be helpful. (link)
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Suprisingly (and this might sound weird) but white is definetley your color. Also, this might be a drastic change for you but you should dye your hair all blonde and wear like a white (tight) tea shirt, and low cut flare jeans, and maybe heels, or converse (for something more casual) would look awesome!! But if you want something a bit more fashionable, then wear like tan capris, and a white shirt. It would look cool. For the hair, after you dye it blonde, you should straighten it, and pull back some into a ponytail, but leave some of it down, and straighten whatyou left down some more, and it would look awesome. Great Pictures :)
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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15/f
omggg. ok me and my one friend pranked phone called, her friend, and shes kinda my friend too, and it was only twice. and all we said was hey its these two boys, who she used to like. and so she got like all mad and went and told this big bitch everyone hates. and i was like sheeesh. who cares. we've never done it to you before, it was just twice. like yeah ok, i can see if we did it like 20 times. but shheesh, twice?
what should i do? i mean obviously im not gonna call her anymore, but like they keep annoying us about how we prank phone called her. what should we say?
oh and by the way, the big bitch she got to yell at us, has like no life, and all she does is yell at people, because no one lieks her. so yea (link)
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This happened to me too. Just be like (to the girl who keeps yelling at you) "look it's none of your buisness anyways, so just go find a life.) but be prepared for her to fire back. If you dont want to do that, then just be like, (to your friend) look I am sorry, we were just having a little fun. And if she doesnt forgive you then forget about it. I mean it's not like she hasn't pranked someone before.
Hope I helped
And good luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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http://tinyurl.com/yu56b5
That's a pic of me without any make-up
Any one have any good advice tips for how to make me look good? (link)
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Get some blonde highlights. Then get like some side bangs. It would look great. Then get some eyeliner(black) and mascara. Maybe some light pink, eyeshadow, and definetley a light pink lip gloss. Pretty picture by the way, you look great without make up too.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Haha so this is kindaaa randomm, but I haven't changed my Facebook picture in a long time, so I want a new onee:
http://i10.tinypic.com/5x4v34g.jpg
Do you think I look wierd? I think its kinda funny... Or do my legs look wierd, becuase I was thinking they do.
Or I could do something more "normal" looking like:
http://tinyurl.com/2bd6cu
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You dont look weird in either one. I think the second one looks better, because you can see your face closer. I think the camera loves you, so the closer you are, the better.(but not so close you cant see anything lol) Also your legs do not look weird either. They both look great!!
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
P.S I like the second one better. :)
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did kurt cobain commit suicide or was he murdered? everytime i listen to nirvana, or any type of grunge music for that matter, i end up asking myself that question. personally, i think he was murdered. i think that courtney love hired someone to kill him because he was getting ready to leave her. if he did, none of the nirvana estate would belong to her. as far as the note goes, i think he wrote it with the intentions of leaving rock and roll and courtney all together, no intentions of suicide. i'm interested in hearing about any theories anybody may have about kurt cobain's death. here is a great site run by the original investigator of the kurt's death:
http://cobaincase.com/ (link)
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People arent really sure what happened to Kurt Cobain. Some think he was murdered, while others think he commited suicide, but obviously there is no possible way he could've shot that gun. I think he was murdered. I mean how could he have shot himself with that shotgun??? It's not possible. I would definetley have to go with murder.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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14/f
okay, my boyfriend calls me his everything.. and that he doesn't want to loose me and stuff like that.. and me & him worked out EVERYTHiNG so theres basically nothing wrong in the relationship. but one of the things that we worked out still bothers me.. cause yannoe it was dealing with this girl .. who used to be my friend cause she talked behind my back and stuff.. and was also his last girlfriend. and it had been almost a year since they've broken up. and hes kinda stupid in relationships cause they stopped talking because she was talking behind my back to him, so he didn't want to be friends with her anymore. and like 2 months later she talked to him first, and now they're friends again. like.. bestfriends. so thats why i can't trust them together yannoe? cause she told him that she doesn't hate me and she stopped talking about me a long time ago. but EVERYBODY knows she hates me... she even left some clues that are obvious that says she hates me.. and she talked about me to him, but he was slow enough not to know. and he says "she wouldn't lie to me.. cause we're good friends." and he even talks about our relationship problems with her.. but the reason why i have changed, and i don't want her to get to know me anymore. and then when we talked it out... he told me that he'll change and he'll come to me now, and talk it out with me for now on. and that he loves me, and that his ex and him are bestfriends.. but she could basically be his mother (not the first time i heard that), and that i'm not competing with her or anything. >. (link)
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Well ok first of all I am sorry but this is going to be kind of long. Ok well first of all you have to listen to your heart, and if your heart is telling you to be with him then stay with him, no matter what your friends or family says. Also maybe he has more girls that are friends than guys that are friends. You just have to learn to accept that. Part of a relationship is being honest with each other, and if he told you that he is all yours, then you have to trust him. Although I do agree that him becoming best friends with your ex friend (even though she talks about you all the time) was a little weird, but even the less you should still trust him. He is your boyfriend and he seems like he really loves you alot. He is all the time telling you that he loves you, and I mean since you and him have been through so much together I think that you and him really have something that alot of people want. You and him have such a relationship where you and him can go9 to each other about anything, and you and lucky enough to have that. So I think that you should just trust that he is all yours and just believe him. But another thing. About him going to him friend for advice isnt wrong. I mean he has a close friend who he can tell anything to. I dont think you should pressure him into coming to you. Just go up to him and be like "look I understand you have a friend who you can tell anything to but I just want you to know that if you ever need to talk, I am here for you." That always works. That way he is not pressured into talking to you about it, and he knows you are always there for him.
I hope I helped:)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
P.S sorry its so long :(
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Okay, well I found a sore spot on my boyfriend's penis which I think is from me giving him a handjob. He really liked the handjob, he said it was one of the best he's gotten; but I felt bad that it left a sore thats like scabbed up. I'm not sure what to do differently to make sure that it doesn't happen again. Would it be because I didn't use some sort of lubrication and that much rubbing broke the skin? If it is, what should I use. I'm only 15 so I can't go out to a sex shop and get something fancy. (link)
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Well first of all, I wouldn't feel so bad for yourself. I mean like the person below me said, maybe you didn't cause it. But any kind of lotion works. Also you probably shouldn't give him any more hand jobs until the soar heels up. It would just make the soar worse.
Hope I helped:)
P.s Dont dump all this on you, it's not like you meant to (if you caused the soar)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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theres this girl that i think i like but never talked to and i want to get to know her better but dont know how to talk to her like i need advice how to become a conversation starter. I'm not very good at thinking of stuff on he top of my head. HELP!!! (link)
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Ok well I liked this guy, and i didnt know what to say to him. So I just went up to him and was like "hey what's up. Do you wanna hang out some time, (as friends), and he was like yeah sure." and it happens that were going out now. But I have talked to him before. So you might just want to go up to her and be like, hey whats up. And just talk to her about something you might think she likes. Give her a compliment or something. Just make sure you dont seem bored when your talking.
I hope I helped :)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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It's about midnight right now. I am really craving coffee. There's a gas station really closeby, only a 20 minute walk, and their coffee is soo good.
My house is on a semi-busy street, but there's a sidewalk. I don't live in a dangerous part of town.
Would it be okay for me to walk to the gas station, get coffee, and walk back home? I'll bring a cell phone.
Please don't say "just wait til tomorrow" or "make a pot of coffee yourself". Is it okay or is it way too dangerous?
17 years old. (link)
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If your town is busy then it should be okay. If it is quiet the definetley not. A busy town means that people couldnt comit a crime, (since there is alot of people around) but if it's quite then you shouldnt. I am from myrtle beach, SC, so I walk around at night all the time. So if it's busy then yes. But if you just can't overcome that craving, then taking a cell would definetley be a good idea.
Good Luck (and stay safe):)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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if your raped its against your will obviously. but when the girls being raped does she like orgasm and have pleasure too? or no becuase shes trying to fight it off? (link)
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No, if you are being raped, you dont have an orgasim or pleasure, because you are being held against your will. (like you said)
I hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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alright well im going into eigth grade and i want a new hairstlye to start school with: i have medium brown hair& its about down to my shoulders: when i straighten it it goes about one and a half maybe two inches past my shoulders: when i dont straighten it its curly/frizzy (and i hate itt!) i almost always straighten it for school: i want a hairstyle that would look good both ways: that way i dont have to take an hour straightening it every morning: any ideas? i would really appreciate some ideas: if you need anymore info on what my hair looks like or whatever IM me at dear kaleighh (AIM)
thanks in advance! (link)
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Well first of all for the straightening part:
1.) straighten it
2.) pull your hair in a ponytail but leave some of it down
3.) straighten the stuff you have left down
4.) tie a ribbon in the ponytail you made
5.) brush down a lil bit of hair in the front
6.) braid it
7.) ITS ALL DONE!!!
It looks really good when its finished , and you can do it curly or straight.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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what are the best ways to get rid of baby teeth. i have two loose bottom canines. there were braces on them but my orthodontist took the wire off so i could get them out. i still have brackets on them and i have braces on my top too. what are the best ways to get them out? (link)
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Eat like starbursts or now and laters. They really pull your teeth out. Also you could wiggle them with your hands, and whenever your bored or something just push on them with your tounge. It helps alot.
Hope I helped:)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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This friday it's my mates party. Now, i'm wearing a tutu (i'm mad i know lol), but im wearing it in a sort of punk chick way. I'm wearing a white tank top with it and dark blue converse. I was just wondering, should i wear footless tights, and if so what colour?
Here's a picture of the tutu http://img518.imageshack.us/img518/7275/92211bdd2.jpg
Also, what else could i do? I'm wearing devil horns, but i don't know what else.
Thanks a load =]
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I think that if your are wearing a white tank top, purple tutu, and blue converse then you should wear white tights. But what would look very good, is if you wore the purple and white, and then black converse's, or black vans (slip on's) that would look so awesome!!!.
Hope I helped
-MCRxoLoVeR
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