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ABUSE, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Can your dad/father/parent be arrested for slapping/hitting you?
Heres the low down.
My mom doesnt live with me and my dad.
He blames everything on me.
He calls me everything in the book.
Uses the word fuck in every sentence.
Calls me worthless piece of shit, little fuck, bitch, bastard, remarked about braces and he said fuck your teeth, says "I'm getting sick of you", "go live with your mom".
He accuses my mom of EVERYTHING.
He says that people break into our houses, just to justify that he's better than my mom.
He apologizes, but it's getting to be worthless sorries. I get it all the time.
He's stubborn and he won't listen to anyone.
He's over protective.
I'm getting sick of it. I mean I can take it.
I've been taking it, but sometimes I want to just run away to friends houses just to get away from all the shit.
What should I do?
THANKYOU IN ADVANCE.
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Well you have many choices. Let your mom know about what's going on, and how you feel. I'm not sure your dad will go to jail, but you and your mom could get a restraining order on him under certain accounts. A restraining order meaning that he only gets to talk to you or see you at certain times, and possibly with only your mother present.
I deal with the same thing at home, except both my parents do it. I just stay at my grandma's, she knows both my parents are like that. So hopefully, your mom cares about you enough to take action and get you out of there.Contact a school counselor, suggest being removed from your dad, and let them know that you would rather live with your mom.
No one deserves to be treated like that. Your dad might have serious mental problems that he needs to take care of. Until then, just get out of there and live with your mom.
Good Luck
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Well you should turn him in, because that's pretty strong verbal abuse. Also you should definetley move in with your mom. I mean that is where you will go anyways, if your dad goes to jail. But you should definetley turn him in.
Hope I helped:)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Weather he would go to jail or not is iffy.
You could certainly turn him in.
Unless your mother is worse yet,
I would call his bluff and move out
and in with mom. If they arrest him
for abusing you, thats where you will
end up anyway.
Most abusers apologize. Nothing odd
about that.
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If he has actually assaulted you then you can go to the police. The verbal abuse is very strong and I would take exception to it too. Can you talk to your Mom about it? Does she know exactly what is going on? You have not specified your age so I will assume you are still a minor. There must be an adult in your life that you can trust and go to. They will then be able to help you get the assistance you need to get this situation sorted out. Please don't just run away because that may well create more problems. Have a plan in place so that you will be safe. Would your friends parents be able to help you out temporarily? Do you have any siblings and does he treat them the same if you do? You say your father is over-protective and stubborn - is there a reason for that? I will also assume that you have tried talking to him with little change. You can change this around but only with guidance from adults and people in authority. Please ask for the help you need and take it. I wish you well and if I can be of any more help please let me know. Take care.
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