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About 2 weeks ago my xboyfriend said he wanted to be friends and I was fine with that. We broke up about 4 weeks ago but ever since we had been friends he been wanting to have sex
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You need to tell him it is over and that if he can't be friends and only friends,you can't even be that.
If you still love him then tell him that he should be with you if he wants to do that kind of stuff.
If you aren't even ready to have sex,tell him. If he doesn't respect that,ditch him. He's not who you want to hang with.
~Hitsugaya~
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I personaly wouldn't have sex with him. If you guys are only friends then whats the point? Plus I can't tell you that you're too young cus I don't know how old you are. But still if he only wants to be your friend so he can have sex it's not worth it.
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I would certainly keep in mind that you weren't good enough to be his girlfriend, so why should he be good enough to get sex from you?
Come, now. You deserve better treatment than that.
ygs-29/f
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he wants to be friends with benifits with you. just so you know some guys are just pigs. tell him u want to be FREINDS not friends with benifits unless thats wat you want.
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Well it sounds to me that he is only using you for sex. If you want to have sex with him then that is a different story, but I would advise you not to. Having sex with an ex is a bad idea, and its only going to cause more conflict. Just tell him no, and like someone else said, if he keeps on asking, then he's not your friend and you shouldnt talk to him.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Do YOU want to have sex?
It's a bad idea to have sex with an ex. You will probably end up hurt and angry with him. So I wouldn't advise it.
If you don't want to have sex, tell him so. If he keeps asking, he isn't your friend, just a horny little boy, so stop talking to him.
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I don't know what your question is, but I'm assuming you're asking what you should do.
Tell him no. I mean, if you want to be "friends with benefits", then go right ahead, but it seems really shallow of him to break up with you [not meaning that he necessarily did it, you may have broken up with him, but regardless...] and then he wants to have sex with you. Obviously he's just going to be using you for sex, and why would you want that? He knows that being "friends with benefits" has no commitment, while dating someone does.
So, I wouldn't do it, but do what you want.
--Jack
(15/m)
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