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I can't remember this movie. It's been bothering me lately. In the beginning, it shows some girl walking up to this house. This guy lets her in and something happens. I remember something about her nail getting ripped off and she screams, he gets worried and ends up hitting her. I think she was uncosnious (sp?) He puts a bag over her and puts her in this room. She suffocates and dies.

Later.. near the ending.. some people go to the house and find the spot where she was put.

Anyone have any ideas?

Stir of Echos... it isn't the ring!

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Ok well i keep hearing things about my boyfriend that he is cheating and stuff and im hearing this stuff from my so called friends. And i know my boyfriend isnt one to cheat and no offence but the girls my friends say he is cheating on me with are nasty. But i dont know why my friends would say that, and i want to beleive my boyfriend. But it bugs me and hurts me so much because for the past few days 3 of my friends said he was cheating or trying to. and i dont know who to beleive my friends or my boyfriend. and i just need help on who to beleive, even though i think my boyfriend isnt lieing, but i need to know how to gain his trust/

If you truly believe your friends are lying, make new ones. You don't need people that make stuff up to hurt you in your life.

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im 13/female...im about to start eighth grade...and i really liked this guy (he was in my group of school friends) in the beggining of last year. and i ended up asking him out...and he turned me down. so from then on he was being an asshole and everything i would say at lunch, he would shoot down. and he was just being really mean. so all of last year, i was really depressed because all the time i got to spend with my friends was hell. im worried that the same thing will happen this school year. what should i do???

stop talking to him. Just pretend he isn't there. Have funn with you friends, make new friends, that way you'll never be lonely.

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Okay so I have a boyfriend of almost 11 monthes now. Problem is his mom and I do not get along exspecially after last night!

So I seen she IMed me while I was with my boyfriend ((her son)). She said hey or w/e so I IMed her back sayin hey an I had a question so I asked her why did she let his ex gf stay the night knowing I don't like her. She told me that since chad was at work she thought it was fine plus her house is open to any one she care's about or w/e. So I got all upset you know cause' that make's me mad an basically told her you know that it's not right an supposively his mom already told him that one of his ex's misses him right? SO why would his mom tell him this if she knew he has a gf, an like that make's me wonder what the hell did she tell the girl after she said that, an it's seems kinda obvious she doesn't like me an she is tryin to get chad to go mess with other girl's or somethin ya know.

Okay now after all this me askin her about the girl stayin the night I told her how I felt an shit an then she tells me like I supposively hungout with my ex bf? Im like wtf I didn't hangout with my ex bf. And then she like went an looked at my ex bf's myspace an seen shit I posted to him in the past like cause we were tryin to make this girl jealous an his mom went on a rampage about it all telling me she would tell my bf an shit so I was like w/e go ahead do what you do.

Now like really, I honestly don't know what to do about her like he can't move out because like his mom will make him pay insurance an since he is gonna start going back to school he wouldn't be able to afford it.

So what should I do in my situation if he asks me to come hangout with his family, do I talk to everyone in cept her.

And am I in the wrong for being upset of his EX gf being there ya know. And like I know I could of handled stuff little better but I asked her a question an she was all a bitch about it an then brought up somethin that I told my ex in the PAST an shit.

Like Honestly she isnt my mother so she has no right snoopin in my buisness. PLUS if chad thought anything dont you think he would of went online an snooped himself, plus it was something said in the fucking past.

I thinks he has no life but w/e am I in the wrong, what should I do like no idea im goin crazay. Thankx you whoever takes the time out to read this!!

I would dump this guy... if you are plannin on marrying this guy than you will be miserable for the rest of your life, once you marry him you marry his mom... if you aren't planning on gettin married and you are just messing around and passing time... than find sum1 who has a sane mom to mess around with.

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i tryed popping a pimple in between my eyebrows last night and i succeeded but...... i must of squeezed for too hard and too long and now there is this light red blotch (kind of big) and i have had these before and they turn into big scabs , is there anything i can put onn it to make it not turn into a scab?

its gonna scab no matter what you do... but if u use neosporin it will be less likely to scar

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I have $300 dollars to shop with and out of these stores, I need the best 5 for me and my budget. If it helps Im 13, black, 5'5, my chest is 36C, medium waistline, thick hips. Abercrombie & Fitch, Aéropostale,American Eagle Outfitters,Ann Taylor, Arden B., bebe, Express, Forever 21, Gap, GUESS, H&M, Limited, PacSun, Victoria's Secret,Hecht's/Macy's,JCPenney,Sears, and Xcape.

bebe, forever21, hecht's, jc penny, khols. I didn't really understand the point of this question but OK.

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me & my friend.
were 14. we act grown up, more then most girls are age.
we really wanna like makeout, at her party. like, i wanna make out with this guy, that likes me & i like him & my friend wansta makeout with her bf.
but we dont wanna have everyone be like, HELLO SLUT GET A ROOM. yano?

so what can we do/say to them?

Making out in a room full of a buncha people is actually one of the most immature things i have ever heard of. Adults usually aren't too fond of that. Nobody wants to see you doing that, not kids nor adults. Stop trying to grow up faster than you were meant to.

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is it worth going to a dermatologist for acne? i have little acne - but a lot of blackheads.should i get a facial for the black heads? i just dont know what to do with my face any more!!! what are some REALLY REALLY good brands to fight away acne and blackheads? any help is appreciated- thanks!

facial do more harm than good, the cause more breakouts than prevent them. the germs from you break outs speard to other parts of your face when you get a facial. it would be best to see a dermatologist.

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I have a friend she does nothing but drag me down and talk about my other friends. How do I tell her I don't won't to be her friend anymore?

i wouldnt even tell her, i would just stop talkin to her.

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I have about 3 light, small scars on my face from acne about 6 months ago. Two are in the same spot, on my cheek, ones on my chin. Is there any scar medication or something you could reccomend that would get rid of these? I hate having to cover them with foundation, I'd rather save that for my pimples, haha. Thank you.

go see a dermatologist. retina micro worked great for me

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next month im turning 16 and i want to have a really sweet party. I live on a lake and i have a big back yard, i just dont want it to be a lot of people just standing around not having any fun...soo what are some good ideas to make sure that people are having fun?

hire a dj, and y'all could play volly ball or something

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I used to be best friends with this girl.Then i started to like her and all was going well in our relationship.Then stuff happended and we had a big fight.Its been months since then i just want to be friends with her. I stopped liking her. a week or two ago i said sorry and we both "forgave" each other and all seemed very well. days later, i talked to her and she started shutting me down.
What more can I do to be friends with this person again?Do I just leave her alone?

NO do NOT leave her alone. If you do so she is going to think you don't care. Dont tell her you dont like her anymore. Just tell her that you don't like fighting with her and that's what seemed to happen when yall were going out. tell her at this point in your life you just want to be friends with her. But dont say you might feel different in the future, you don't wanna give her false hope. Good luck, lettme know how it goes.

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i went on vacation this summer and while i was there i saw this REALLY hot guy there. he skimboards and surfs. everytime he came and left the beach we made eye contact. he was always with his friends. and i think he liked me and he told his friends, because he would look at me and then one of his friends would look too. i really wished that he would talk to me or do something (even wave). what should i have done? is there anything i could have done to make him come over and say hi to me? i'm a shy girl and i wouldn't be able to go up to him myself.

thanks!

smile at him, or go talk to him yourself. He probably is too shy to talk to u.

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On Monday Im going to go to this guys house with my friend and his friend. He's really into my friend and when we all hang out, he has his arm around her and stuff..so my question is what are FUN things to do with 2 boys and 2 girls at someones house? I dont want it to be awkward/boring..Play Games? Anything is appreciated.

You could play board games... taboo is a REALLY fun game. Y'all could watch movies, order or make food Video games. etc

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ok so my little brother is 9 years old and he always wants me to play with him. he doesnt understand that im older and have things to do. whenever i try to explain this to him, he gets upset and thinks i dont want to play with him so i feel really guilty. how can i explain to him that im busy a lot and dont really have that much time to play with him?

btw 15/f

well since he is a child explaining this to him is going to be hard. Just when you are busy doing something tell him exactly what you are doing rather than just sayin ur bzy. You dont have to go into detials, but if u are workin on a project tell him that you are doing homework and tell him you will play with him whenever you know you are available. try your best to spend time with him, and dont worry if you can't he will understand when he is older.

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my best friend gets rly jealous when guys think im hott. sometimes, she even tries to stop me from evr talking to them cuz shes jealous that they dont think shes hott, and she gets mad at me. One time online we were talkin to this guy we saw that day, and he thought i was hott, and my friend got mad and was like wouldnt let me see what she was sayin to him, and then she got kinda mad when he asked for my sn. wat should i do? i hate when shes mad at me, its really annoying.

Drop all of your ugly friends that have jealousy issues and make friends with people that are good looking, or ugly people that know how to appreciate beauty. Stay away from girls with jealousy issues, they are dangerous.

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This is NOT a joke. I seriously think my house is haunted. Tonight I saw something (a black figure out of the corner of my eye) walk past my room. The reason why I dont think it was "just my eyes playing a trick on me" is because I felt a prescence, like there was someone there. When I looked down the hall, there was no one there. I asked my Dad who was watching TV in another room if it was him and he said, "No." And my Mom was sleeping in her room and no one else was home. Please help! This has happened 3 or 4 times and I cant sleep at night! What should I do?? Has this happened to anyone else? How did you feel less scared? :(

This is NOT a joke, you either need to move out, or see a physciahtrist. Man i can't spell.

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I'm sorta pale and have dark hair so alot of people asume I'm goth and it really ticks me off! I just dont like outdoor activities and have a huge fear of bugs...I even think pale guys are way cute! I'm afraid maybe a guy wont think I'm as pretty because of my skintone...which isnt PAPER white I'm part native american so even when my skin is VERY base there is a little color in it and I have freckles. I dont know...I'm just worried guys wont think of me as cute/hot because of it..help?

use a bronzer all year long :)

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sooo, i thought this kid maybe liked me, just you know maybe. & then this girl, she has this kid call him up & ask.. cuz she likes him too, & when he said do you like kelsey? & he said just as friend.. then when the kid asked for me, do you like jaci? he said hell no really quick. & everyone thought he liked me, but he was just really shy. but now i dont think he does.
do you think he does? & hes just shy?
or he hates me.
idno help

ew stop being a baby and stop asking people that won't be able to give you a correct answer. Go ask him. You won't know till you ask!

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ok... i have like really bad acne and i need to know what products would help that. do you know any really good products? 13/f

The best thing to do is go to a dermatologist and get prescription medication.

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