Ok well i keep hearing things about my boyfriend that he is cheating and stuff and im hearing this stuff from my so called friends. And i know my boyfriend isnt one to cheat and no offence but the girls my friends say he is cheating on me with are nasty. But i dont know why my friends would say that, and i want to beleive my boyfriend. But it bugs me and hurts me so much because for the past few days 3 of my friends said he was cheating or trying to. and i dont know who to beleive my friends or my boyfriend. and i just need help on who to beleive, even though i think my boyfriend isnt lieing, but i need to know how to gain his trust/
Tyler112 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:32 am: Well, if these friends are your true friends, believe them, if they've always been there for you, believe them.
Friends are forever, boyfriends usually aren't.
If the people telling you he cheats hate you, or don't like you that much, then why would you believe them? They want you to be hurt, they want you to lose something that could turn into something great, the question is, is it great?
Does your boyfriend love you? Talk to him, see where he's been, act non chalant about talking to him about his day and stuff, see if things don't match up, then ask your so called "friends" where he was and how they know. See how it works out, it'll play out all in the end.
If you do find out he's cheating, don't wait to catch him in the act or have him breakup with you for someone else, it's way to embarasing and makes it look like he's been playing you the whole time.
the minute ure sure, break him before he breaks you
AmandasAdvice answered Friday August 4 2006, 10:55 pm: hey this is a hard thing to figure out when you aren't sure who you should trust. right now i think you should just wait until you have proof that your boyfriend could be cheating since your "friends" can't seem to come up with any. if you do catch him cheating or find out more proof than a rumor from girls who are obviously jealous of you & your boyfriend, then you can start accusing your bf. but for right now, he's innocent until proven guilty ;] if you need anything else just drop one in my inbox. hope i could help & good luck!!
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